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Shivi

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dazzlerruhi
I dont understand one point... why brothers actually rejected dadaji's decision? is it just a show off?? or they fear accepting responsibilities??

Even if they're kind of shallow, they do love each other. IMO. None of them want to consciously hurt anyone. That is why. I think.

Even Dadaji, although I know everyone is going to disagree... But he genuinely felt hurt that Ramesh thought that way. Also, old people tend to become more touchy... Ab main boodha ho gaya hoon toh meri koi value nahi h... I'm not saying that it's right, just that he's not an unusually villainous person.

P.S. @Dave Sava sau is 125 not 1.25

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: _UptoNoGood_

Even if they're kind of shallow, they do love each other. IMO. None of them want to consciously hurt anyone. That is why. I think.

Even Dadaji, although I know everyone is going to disagree... But he genuinely felt hurt that Ramesh thought that way. Also, old people tend to become more touchy... Ab main boodha ho gaya hoon toh meri koi value nahi h... I'm not saying that it's right, just that he's not an unusually villainous person.

P.S. @Dave Sava sau is 125 not 1.25

Shivi...I think Ramesh denied taking it at the end...But division is going to take place. Dadaji has retired.

I don't disagree at all...Dadaji was definitely very hurt by Ramesh's words...But he heard only those words at the end, and is making all decisions based on that. I do agree, old people tend to think they are unnecessary at times, but Dadaji? Though at places, I could feel his hurt, majorly I thought he was punishing Ramesh.

"You wanted me to give you freedom...Here take it..I am retiring..Kush?" It's more on that lines.

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Shivi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

@Shwetha di not just the words in the end...the very fact that his decisions and thoughts are not applicable. I've seen a lot of people in my family crib that way... ( like Dadaji). Even harmless contradictions, jokes can hurt them. Kaise kaise din dekhne pad rahe hain... That kind of reaction.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: _UptoNoGood_
@Shwetha di not just the words in the end...the very fact that his decisions and thoughts are not applicable. I've seen a lot of people in my family crib that way... ( like Dadaji). Even harmless contradictions, jokes can hurt them. Kaise kaise din dekhne pad rahe hain... That kind of reaction.

I completely understand Shivi. I have people in my family too. They need that importance and when it is questioned they get offended. It hurts them. Ramesh's words definitely hurt Dadaji. But Dadaji was giving him no option. If he hadn't stopped Dadaji, he would have brought Nisha back and got her married and he could never have a say.

May be Ramesh opened up too late. Or he couldn't handle it anymore, that he blurted out everything. Dadaji is waise a very strong man and wise man. I honestly think he is doing everything intentionally, because he got offended.

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Shivi

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I completely understand Shivi. I have people in my family too. They need that importance and when it is questioned they get offended. It hurts them. Ramesh's words definitely hurt Dadaji. But Dadaji was giving him no option. If he hadn't stopped Dadaji, he would have brought Nisha back and got her married and he could never have a say.

May be Ramesh opened up too late. Or he couldn't handle it anymore, that he blurted out everything. Dadaji is waise a very strong man and wise man. I honestly think he is doing everything intentionally, because he got offended.

@bold- Exactly! 70-80 years of conditioning being challenged... Can it be easy to face it?

Of course he is offended.

Just by the way... My Dadaji used to say this - even your son, after he is an adult, deserves respect. A certain distance and dignity. I guess no one told Singham this.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: _UptoNoGood_
@bold- Exactly! 70-80 years of conditioning being challenged... Can it be easy to face it?

Of course he is offended.

Just by the way... My Dadaji used to say this - even your son, after he is an adult, deserves respect. A certain distance and dignity. I guess no one told Singham this.

Ramesh never wanted to hurt Dadaji all these years and kept quiet. But now he cannot remain quiet as its about his children's life. If he doesn't fight for his children, who else will.

@bold For our Singham...his kids should accept whatever he says as the final one. No questions. No doubts. Viren is still scared of Dadaji. Moren accepts Dadaji and hence their respect is intact. Ramesh rebelled...respect is out of the question.