Dadaji's POV - Page 2

Originally posted by: JAHHNAVI

^^ I read both ur view points & I have to admit I am leaning more towards Shwets' side!


Let's all be clear, in our Indian households we ALL will find a Daadji in our grandpas, chachas, or papas! They say they want the best for us.. They say they will support us.. BUT in the end, somewhere they ask us to give up that 'independence' while selecting our careers! I am a medical major but I can't even start with the details on how my own 'family' tried to push me into a non-Med field after 10th grade. 😆 BUT, I was rebellious (can u tell?) and I stood my ground & defied everything they told me to do-- Result?? I did my 11th grade with Maths & 12th board (CBSE) with Biology. Almost failed in Maths (intentionally) & topped Biology in my entire school 😉..
They said I had disrespected them- but frankly I didn't care! 😛My life, my rules! Ramesh did the same.. No,he didn't. He didn't stand his ground and prove himself like you did. He didn't have the guts! He wasn't wrong! Now Dadaji wanted him to sit at the shop instead- excuse me but will the shop close down if Ramesh wasn't part of it?? Did Dadaji give that "choice" to him- Beta, what do u want to be?
When there are no choices given- I am REALLY sorry- it becomes a dictatorship & ain't no one going to be happy in that Hitler-raj! Dadaji should have invested in Ramesh's dream- he had the money right?!! You want him to invest where he sees absolutely no returns. If a parent is investing its natural for them to choose a field where safety is kind of guaranteed.

Get him trained with the best music teachers..the best music teachers are picky. Send him to singing contests locally.. Encourage him & support him.. And THEN, if Ramesh was tired & sick of losing, offer him work at his shop. Beta, u are always welcome to work at our jewelry shop- but continue training for music, part time!! That's ideal parenting IMO.. Parents can get their kids to do whatever they want- but there's a 'way' to do it!! 😉

Agree.

He's doing the same with Nisha! DISCOURAGING her from day 1.. "It's a game of the rich & spoilt"... Are u kidding me Dadaji? 😲 I am into shooting as well, but I ain't playing in gold! 😆.. Viraj doesn't consider himself 'rich' either! Look at his financial statements.😆 Bullets cost a few extra bucks- but Kirti's designer wear is way more expensive than THAT! Ussko toh Dadaji nai rokte??

Viru is rich. Look at his pent house, his attire. Kirti flea market se laati hogi. 😛

Why is Dadaji HIDING behind his fake excuses? He just doesn't want Nisha to be surrounded with or mingling with outsiders!! Aisaa bolo naa seedha seedha.. Yes, he's scared some man would hurt her! Well then make sure she remains SAFE when she's practicing!! Viraj can give that in writing- on a stamp paper! Or Dadaji can hire a security guard for Nisha- if he is THAT concerned about his grand daughter's safety. And don't even look at me jaise I have proposed something illogical- if Dadaji can appoint a security guard in front of his jewelry shop, toh he can't get a guard for his living, breathing, laadli grand daughter??

Actually, I've never seen a guard outside his shop.😛 And yes, it IS illogical. If he does that Roopan will shoot Nisha in her sleep. Point blank. She gets to shoot and has a bodyguard.

But the thing is guys- they will ALWAYS take the easy way out when it comes to their kids' future!! It's more convenient to just make her sit at home rather than ensuring she's safe outside!

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Shivi...sorry to come in again...😆 Arre! Good morning!

But I would definitely not agree that Ramesh didn't have guts. He did and that's why he ran away from home chasing his dreams. Dadaji forcefully brought him back home after 6 months. Not everyone can reach dreams immediately and certain achievements take time and lot of persistence is needed. Ramesh failed because he was too emotional. He couldn't go against his father more.

He couldn't sustain. You said it yourself. Persistence is needed. You can't blame your parents if YOU didn't persist. It's not like Dadaji bribed people to reject Ramesh. He just didn't believe in the idea. If Ramesh has rights... Dadaji does too.

Ramesh has the flair for singing and has potential which could have been developed by Dadaji. Is Nisha a good shooter now? She is going to undergo training right? Who knows what training could have done to Ramesh?

Nisha is undergoing training because a very accomplished shooter saw a spark in her. Well, yes, she is decent. Ramesh could have sought training in those six months. Applied for scholarship. Proved himself.

Again...just keep the past aside...what is Dadaji doing with Ramesh now? From what we saw in the episodes earlier...is taunting about ones past failures good? Insulting in front of his own children and others good? That's where I feel Dadaji was the one who was wrong in the past because people who make mistakes rarely admit.

Originally posted by: aneri.fan

I think Dadaji does so because he's frustrated too, this guy wasn't working regularly. He hadn't become independent. I think Dadaji is coming around though.