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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc


But that would be hypocritical and very wrong of her cos her son was equally involved in what happened- it was a two sided thing- Dadaji would have a right to shout at them too and speak some harsh truths about not only their son but also their rotten mentality of blaming only the girl. Or are we supposed to understand that Dolly's MIL is a shamefully bitchy and regressive woman- a fact which the whole family understands, has accepted and has no wish to fight against and hence they are keeping quiet about it? Wow.

Rather than showing all this unnecessary stupid heroism on the part of Nisha that doesn't even make sense and looks more like ego, they could have shown that Dolly's MIL wishes to break the wedding after finding Sumit-Dolly on the terrace, and while the elders cry and request her to 'forgive and accept' Dolly and she still refuses, Nisha, the outspoken, bold one could have rightfully given a well deserved hearing to Dolly's MIL about punishing and defaming the girl for something her son was equally involved in and the cousins supporting Dolly and Nisha. They could have shown Dolly getting out of her dream princess world and showing some character growth and Sumit growing a spine and returning to her later against the wishes of his mother. They can still turn it into something like this when the truth comes out. Heroism and boldness would be appreciated if it is used for the right purpose at the right time, thoughtless heroism and sacrifice that just creates more trouble for everyone fails to impress.


I completely agree to what you are saying and your version would have made more sense.

At the same time, I think with just a day left for the wedding, all this tamasha should be avoided. Dolly and Sumit did nothing wrong in their eyes as well as the cousin's. But the family is old fashioned. Sumit's mother seems too arrogant to accept her son's mistake. She will call off the wedding easily and won't even wait to her what Dolly or Dadaji wants to say. Instead of making it a a fight between two families, Nisha's decision has helped in keeping the problem within their family.

For every person, their wedding should be memorable. If Dolly or Sumit comes out with the truth and fight begins and then Nisha tries to put sense into that MIL, all these things would be remembered all the time and not the wedding. Wedding needs to be peaceful. I find Nisha's decision working on that part.

Yes. Courage should be used in the right sense and what Nisha is doing is like heroism. But whatever she is doing is not unrealistic. She is doing something which won't affect the wedding as of now. I too want the truth to be out, after the wedding. But till then I am fine with what's going on. I wish Dadaji leaves the matter to be handled later. It's wedding time and they should focus on that. Asking Nisha to bring her BF and all, is just to add fun I guess.

Sorry...I think I am beating around the bush...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Edited: LOL, I just addressed the point you raised in your post, haha. I'll quote your views alongside it just for clarity sake. :)

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


I completely agree to what you are saying and your version would have made more sense.

At the same time, I think with just a day left for the wedding, all this tamasha should be avoided. Dolly and Sumit did nothing wrong in their eyes as well as the cousin's. But the family is old fashioned. Sumit's mother seems too arrogant to accept her son's mistake. She will call off the wedding easily and won't even wait to her what Dolly or Dadaji wants to say. Instead of making it a a fight between two families, Nisha's decision has helped in keeping the problem within their family.

For every person, their wedding should be memorable. If Dolly or Sumit comes out with the truth and fight begins and then Nisha tries to put sense into that MIL, all these things would be remembered all the time and not the wedding. Wedding needs to be peaceful. I find Nisha's decision working on that part.



I don't mean to say that Dolly's MIL needs to know about all of it NOW that the matter is done and dusted over. I was addressing your point cos you wrote about the fear of the elders.

I think all I want from Nisha and her cousins is to be honest to their elders (mainly Dadaji) about what happened that night rather than cooking up more lies. There is no point in hiding all these things from him. If some mess happens in the Maha Mandap thanks to the fake BFs, then the truth might come out before Dolly's MIL, and since they are all trying to avoid that, it is best to avoid any confusion that may lead to suspicion in the first place. Be honest to Dadaji about what happened, if he knows what has happened, he can help in handling it later and avoid more trouble on this front.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think there is no reason to make it a issue in the maha mandap. Dadaji should keep these things private. Hopefully it doesn't happen in front of everyone.
Apart from BFs...the exchanging of envelopes seems to be a stupid idea. They are hell bent in getting Ramesh and Lakshmi into trouble. All these ideas are coming from Kirti...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I think there is no reason to make it a issue in the maha mandap. Dadaji should keep these things private. Hopefully it doesn't happen in front of everyone.

Apart from BFs...the exchanging of envelopes seems to be a stupid idea. They are hell bent in getting Ramesh and Lakshmi into trouble. All these ideas are coming from Kirti...



Dadaji and Dadi are my only hope right now, honestly speaking.😆 Dadaji knows Nisha well and is sure that she is cooking up a story about her BFs, so he is just teasing/troubling her in a way to see how far she and the cousins will stretch it before they themselves admit their mistake. Knowing that, he probably won't make this whole meeting BF business in front of Dolly's MIL.

And I think Dadi will be the savior in the case of the envelope fiasco. She has an idea that something is wrong I think, and she is anyways sharp in these matters.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc



Dadaji and Dadi are my only hope right now, honestly speaking.😆 Dadaji knows Nisha well and is sure that she is cooking up a story about her BFs, so he is just teasing/troubling her in a way to see how far she and the cousins will stretch it before they themselves admit their mistake. Knowing that, he probably won't make this whole meeting BF business in front of Dolly's MIL.

And I think Dadi will be the savior in the case of the envelope fiasco. She has an idea that something is wrong I think, and she is anyways sharp in these matters.


Yes. Dadaji knows the bonding between the cousins and Nisha would never come out with the truth. He is just testing her to see to what extent she can go to save her cousins.

Yes. Dadi senses something is wrong when she saw Lakshmi running around tensed. She can save the situation. At the same time, I feel this would become a big issue leading to more insult to Ramesh and Lakshmi. This could serve as more foundation for their backstory.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^ I guess Suku is gonna end up with a slap from Nisha too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

^^ I guess Suku is gonna end up with a slap from Nisha too.


He deserves it. He should have come clean in the beginning itself when Ramesh asked for the money. His father is very friendly with him and he shouldn't have taken advantage of that. If Ramesh would have known, he would have at least had the chance of arranging money by some other means. These kids!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Saying from cousins pov : They think exchanging envelope will be the best idea as they are planning to exchange it in such a way that it looks like all gave money. For ex. First the shagun will be given by Dolly's father, than Kirti's n lastly Ramesh so they are planning to take out Dolly's father money at the time Kirt's father is giving Shagun and give it to Ramesh so that it looks like all three gave money and envelopes will ultimately reach Dolly so they think their secret will be safe.
My POV : Sukku would have shared the issue with his father when he asked whether he has money or not?? The things would have been easier for them as Ramesh would have mortgaged Laxmi's jewelry n save their reputation.. knowing cousins i know they will create some problem which will lead into revelation of the exchange. But what else can we expect from Sukku n Kirti.. they have the overconfidence that they can handle everything but was expecting Umesh to be bit smarter here.

i still have hope from dadaji dadiji that they will save the situation in front of guest but than dadaji will insult Ramesh in front of family and Sukku will get a slap from nisha,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Vish The cousins might think their plan is clever but one mistake can put Ramesh and Lakshmi to shame in front of everyone. Ultimately, whatever they are doing is wrong. Though I don't want the issue to be made public, the mistake should come to the front and the cousins should be punished for their wrong doings.
I have always felt the show is displaying the cousins doing something wrong and they are getting away with it. It's a wrong lesson shown for the viewers.

Dadi could be the saviour. If not, it's going to be a scene. Dadaji (and Viren) is going to be furious with Ramesh.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well whether the exchanging of envelops works or not atleast the intentions are good

the intention is to help sukku and ramesh

which is something i like because it shows cousins bonding and their love and care for each other something that was missing in previous track.

atleast now one can say that cousins other than nishu also care for each other

plan will definitely fail as drama needs to be created but the intention of cousins is out of love and care which is a good thing

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