NAUC-Episode discussion 9/9/2014 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Yesterday's boyfriend/girlfriend scene and scene between Mohan and Kirti were nicely done.

I really hope Dadi helps them out. A commotion especially on money matters in front of the family will be a huge insult for Ramesh and Lakshmi, and the taunt baarish which is already on will never end.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@NM

All the three brothers have to contribute equally for the shagun. The two elder ones had decided on 50000 each, Ramesh immediately tells it's not possible but the brothers dont understand. Now Ramesh relies on the moeny he had given to Suku for getting bike. But Suku without informing Ramesh gets the bike. So now when Ramesh asks for money, Suku out of fear doesn't tell the truth and roams around saying he has money. Suku tells the truth to the cousins and now Aloo have to clear about exchanging envelopes..😆

Coming to Ramesh and Lakshmi. Can't comment much without knowing what their financial condition was back then. It doesn't seem like Ramesh and Lakshmi are in poverty..meaning looking at the way Suku dresses, Nisha's scooty and others, they are well to do but poor compared to the rest of the family. As for the money problems, it could be because Ramesh received very less salary that particular month and hence there are issues now

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mohan and Kirti scene was hilarious. and very nicely done.

when Mohan says, "Kirti beta, me bahot hi serious baat kehne ki koshish kar raha hoon, please understand" I actually liked how as a father he couldn't come up straight with what he wanted to say but still was trying to communicate. 👍🏼

I just somehow don't want Ramesh and Laxmi's insult this time. if they have to be insulted then I want Dolly & Sumeet's truth to be out too. Viren too should be put in his place. I hated the scene where he told dolly that he was very glad his kids weren't there on terrace. he is very proud of them n all. he even got up from breakfast table. he needs to be shown the mirror. he questioned Ramesh's parenting, I don't believe in taunting but viren would be the last one who has rights to question anyone's parenting.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Shwets, sorry for not being clear earlier. I have watched all episodes till yesterday so I know all about this track. shagun money n sukku's bike. thanks for writing it all again.😊

exchanging envelopes, I got the idea going by Aloo's post n yesterday's precap. Sukku wouldn't able to collect money, and hence the solution. looks stupid I say. but let's see.

I don't think so it's just this month issue shwets, I don't think them as poor. definitely they are good to do according to middle class standard, may be less compared to other brothers, but what I understood is, because of Ramesh's other interests & lack of interest in family business, or whatever reason, I think they have always been tight financially. and that's why I was wondering why 3 kids. but that's for another discussion. may be it's just me.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@bold The best part of that scene for me was...how he asked Kirti not to brush her teeth in the terrace...🤣

Somehow I felt, the way things are going in the family, Ramesh was right in saying..that everything goes right in the family if he keeps quiet. His keeping quiet might help the entire family, but his own household is never peaceful. It's a very difficult dilemma. I loved how Lakshmi said to Nisha that to take other's blame, you need courage. Ramesh seems to have it.

Viren (again and again reminds me of Mota Bhai of BBB but Mota Bhai was never mean) should be shown the mirror for sure. I really expected Vimla to tell Viren the truth, especially after the way he was behaving with Nisha and taunting. Ramesh is a proud father now, but he can never show his pride and happiness to anyone and share it. Same goes to Lakshmi also. Viren needs to know what his kids really think of him.

@NM

I am just not getting what is the harm in telling the truth to Dadaji at least. At most Dolly will get a shout or two, then maamla khatam. Or else take Dadi into confidence and ask her to help you out!! What is the point of all this faltu tamasha, getting a BF, lying about marriage blah blah. SO IMMATURE! It almost makes it look like these cousins (especially Nisha) have some sort of EGO that they don't want to accept defeat or their mistakes in front of their Dadaji- even the thought of embarassment or further screw up doesn't stop them. And this is not the first time that they have created bigger problems for themselves and others when the MUCH simpler solution would have been to simply tell the truth to the elders. Even Suku is hiding such an important thing about the money. Now Kirti's stupid plan might just make a bigger mess. You make mistakes fine, but at least let the elders help you do damage control! Eventually everything goes wrong, there is hell lot of embarassment and things reach a point where even damage control gets difficult. The Lehenga issue is one fine example.

I liked Jwala's part of the episode today. It was very realistic. So far Jwala and Umesh come across as the most interesting characters.

Edited:
Forgot to add one more thing, how the hell are elders in the house even believing that Nisha has a BF? They live in the same house, they know everything about each other, they know Nisha doesn't like girly things, BF's and claims she will never get married, and she is someone who is blunt and outspoken enough to say truths about herself just as they are- then how are they able to accept so readily that Nisha made a BF in just one day and was on the terrace with him?! How come even Dadi didn't say anything about it?

If anything, Nisha's lie was the biggest proof that the story was all made up. And I think the only person who truly believed it was her Dadaji. He is a very smart man, and the one who truly knows and understands what Nisha is like. Hence he challenged her to bring her BF as he would get them engaged. He knows this is the only thing which will push Nisha over the edge to confess.

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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

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I think if the truth is out, there is fear of Dolly's wedding getting cancelled. The arrangement Dadaji saw on the terrace has made everyone believe that whoever was there on the terrace were being intimate. So even if they know it's Sumit and Dolly, fingers will be pointed at their character. If Sumit's mother knows she will definitely call off the wedding. At the end Dolly would be the one to suffer.

I think except Viren, Mohan and Rupal, others don't believe Nisha could have a boyfriend. They are pretty much sure Nisha is lying. Dadaji wants to see the extent the cousins go to hide the truth.

But that would be hypocritical and very wrong of her cos her son was equally involved in what happened- it was a two sided thing- Dadaji would have a right to shout at them too and speak some harsh truths about not only their son but also their rotten mentality of blaming only the girl. Or are we supposed to understand that Dolly's MIL is a shamefully bitchy and regressive woman- a fact which the whole family understands, has accepted and has no wish to speak against and hence they are keeping quiet about it?

Rather than showing all this unnecessary stupid heroism on the part of Nisha that doesn't even make sense and looks more like ego, they could have shown that Dolly's MIL wishes to break the wedding after finding Sumit-Dolly on the terrace, and while the elders cry and request her to 'forgive and accept' Dolly and she still refuses, Nisha, the outspoken, bold one could have rightfully given a well deserved earful/bashing to Dolly's MIL about punishing and defaming the girl for something her son was equally involved in and the cousins supporting Dolly and Nisha. They could have shown Dolly getting out of her dream princess world and showing some character growth and Sumit growing a spine and returning to her later against the wishes of his mother. They can still turn it into something like this when the truth comes out. Heroism and boldness would be appreciated if it is used for the right purpose at the right time, thoughtless heroism and sacrifice that just creates more trouble for everyone fails to impress.