This is the first time i've seen you rationally give out an argument rather than screaming like you normally do.
I'd like to hear such arguments from now on. Even if it is to prove me wrong.
Im not saying anyone is bullying anyone or personally pointing fingers at anyone.
We are all here to to have a passionate debate and have fun.
But many a times without realising it a passionate debate turns into a full on attack. This post being the latest example.
And it has become a habit of late. To the point where some members have stopped visiting the forum or they don't even feel confident to post cause they know the reception they get.
I am not talking for myself and if you don't believe me ask those people who have been on the opposite side of an opinion.
It feels less like an argument comes off more like open hostility and a feeling of being told to shut up. Not saying anyone is intentionally doing it or with any malicious intent.
Sometimes passion tends to run strong without realising how the other person might feel.
Again I repeat there is no Bad guy here. Neither do i view anyone as such.
My point is this has to change. This has to be a forum for all where people feel safe to say what they want. Thats why I spoke up.
I am not saying this to score a point or keep scores !
I don't relish bringing this up either . Truth be told i like nothing better than stay away from conflict.
But I don't know how to bring this up either without it sounding like a criticism. Its not like one can say this easily like "Hey you i know you're just being passionate but it feels like im not welcome. Not to sound defensive but you kinda made me feel bad "
But this had to be addressed sometime ! It had to be me cause no one would bring it up. Its the huge Elephant in the room
If you still don't understand what I'm trying to say
Even if you don't agree with me.
Then prove me wrong atleast. Show me that you can have a passionate debate while being tolerant of another's opinion !
Again not calling you a Bad Guy ! Just bringing attention to an issue which has been going on of late !