Originally posted by: rightnow
Once children get married, they change for the better or worse.
They change because they are no longer school / college going children, they have responsibilities on their shoulders. When your a child your parent act a umbrella from the big bad world, you can depend on them but when you leave ur parents nest to make one of our own things do change - one has to be independent, smart & responsible.
Parents need to give their children space and this applies to both the sides of the parents. Now a days it is seen that girl parents get more involved in her married life and start to interfere. Gone are the days when a girls parents did bother much about their daughter after marriage or only went to meet her during festivals! Today's educated girls stay in touch with their parents on a daily basis and unknowingly get them involved in her martial affairs which usually leads to problems later on!
If the parents stay with the children permanently, then they would have adjusted and there wont be the mehmaan like appearances.
They won't be mehmaan for sure but not necessary get adjusted! This depends on both the MIL & DIL how they manage their relationship and maintain peace & harmony in the house!
Pinky is trying to work so that she may not be trapped when her impulsive husband decides to resign once more. But she should not burden her eldest daughter to take care of her own children. It is not for a day or two. sisters cannot become mothers overnight.
Jeet so far has been shown as a very practical & sensible guy the only time he acted stupidly was resigning from his job!! I get Jeet's POV on why he doesn't want Pinky to work, it has nothing to do with financial independence or his disapproval of working mothers, he doesn't want his children to suffer in any manner. He wants their children to be given full attention and that is not possible when both the parents are working!
Pinky is to blamed solely for expecting too much from her older daughter. Firstly, i have never seen any of her kids give her a helping hand in the kitchen, taking care of tantrum throwing children like Raashi / Sunny is no joke!! Pinky's constant pampering has spoiled them...how is 14 - 15 year old girl suppose fulfill their endless demands ..she too wud be exhausted after coming from school!
i completely agree with your last sentence sisters can never be mothers!!
this is something i keep telling my younger brother when he complains mummy does it better than me.." i am not Your mother..so bear with me.."🤣
Between the husbands, Lucky is much more understanding and child like.
Jeet is understanding too but both men have different personalities!!
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