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Posted: 10 years ago
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Himruta may be honest. However there is an honesty that has no goal but to be hurtful. That does not make a person bigger but smaller.

I noticed that many people on the show today realized that pulling down someone in public when everyone is watching may be honest but not the right thing to do. it was a set up by the show. Was anyone really trying to help anyone? Or, was it intended by the show to create a rift?

Many contestants took the high road and critiqued in a loving manner. Some contestants joked. After all this was the "memories" from the show. Most contestants did not want it to become a public shaming. They realized that critiquing someone on national television may not make them better but actually humiliate them.

Himmanshoo's spirit was small here. He used the set up by the creatives to pull down people. Who writes "try to be more honest" on the equivalent of a yearbook photo? He should have a private heart to heart with Rashmi if he cared. As a performer he used the moment to shame someone.

Himmanshoo may have honestly told his feelings, but was unkind. Sometimes humanity is more important than momentary honesty or venting. His words may be honest, but his intentions anything but.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay!! With rashmi he disnot want to say but as he had to say one thing so he said!!
Basically he is not able to express his opinions correctly like in the love challenges also he knows what amruta thinks but he is unable to explain it..
About upen one incident had happened where upen told something about amruta being a flirt..well I guess that didn't go well with amruta and himmanshoo..amu is very sensitive she doesn't forget things easily!! That still affects her so it affects himmanshoo also..
As a sociolgy and psychology student I can say that Himmanshoo is not an insecure person at all...its amruta who is insecure slightly..
Also I have read many of his interviews he is hopes for the best but is always prepared for the worst..amruta is lacking here she is unable to handle criticism..its basically amruta who influences his mind!! He believes what she says blindly xoz he feels she knows to judge people accurately..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Julie0001

@Efriend

Himruta may be honest. However there is an honesty that has no goal but to be hurtful. That does not make a person bigger but smaller.

I noticed that many people on the show today realized that pulling down someone in public when everyone is watching may be honest but not the right thing to do. Many contestants took the high road and critiqued in a loving manner. Some contestants joked. After all this was the "memories" from the show.

Himmanshoo in particular may have honestly told his feelings, but was unkind. Sometimes humanity is more important than momentary honesty or venting.

Yup I agree on this point that its not good to hurt anyone..
But then I feel what amruta said was more severe but since she could put it in a very correct manner with rashmi and also because rashmi accepted it!!
Himmanshoo actually doesnot know how to criticize someone he should learn that!! Criticism is very important but it should be in good way like amruta and sana said and even nandish..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: E-friend

LOL people talking about Himansoo's career as if Upen is a big shot name. Today, they both are on the same show, the same platform, which suggests in terms of success both are on similar level.

Assumption! Assumptions about Upen being hard working! Even when the mirror is shown people want to make themselves feel better by outrageously declaring the lie detector to be fault. Also have the audacity to say the phone was used for some fake engagement purpose to cover up all the lie!

Himansoo is bang on about his comments! Upen is so competitive that's why the above happened! To win, he would go to any extent with Karishma even if that means cheating and lying.
Shameless people.

HIMRUTA are honest, they don't beat around the bush! And Upen is such an introvert, I am not on the show to make friends? So the selfish 40 years old man has confessed he is in the show only for money as that matters more to him than people! What can I say! Him and Karishma made for each other! national TV wala jodi!


Himmi is older than Upen, he is 35 and u is 32.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes himanshu was nof right here
May be he was not expressing his point v.well or whatver but to heart someone on netional tv its not a good thind... U cab go nd said these to that people...
Evn in nornal life we also hurt if someone told bad infornt of many people atleast I felt bad...
Fir vo kitba hi sach kyu na ho...
So said something in good way to not heart anybody...
If u heart someone nd accept that other person r good for u its not right...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl550


Himmi is older than Upen, he is 35 and u is 32.

Whats the DOB of Upen ? may be he smokes alot but he looks older
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: 9tanki


<font color="#0033ff">Whats the DOB of Upen ? may be he smokes alot but he looks older</font>

I m not a himruta/upma fan.. But i must say "upen looks older" is realy funny.. I mean how come he looks older .. Seriously u r saying dat.. Ok its ur perception. May b u cn see him older. No prb.. N regarding dis topicabout himanshoo's comments, i dnt want to say nything.. I hv no idea abt it.. I do watch nach.. But I love each n evry couple eqully except mrunal-sharad, nidhi-arpit..
p.s i think both himmi n upen is hamdsome n cool, :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Himanshoo wasnt negative at all.himmi was jst honest.he is very friendly with rashmi in general.so instead of sugarcoating his words he decided to speak the truth!!same for upen.being competitive is good bt being too much shows the selfish side of a person.nd i think himmi was the bst instead of sugarcoating nething he was honest.nd honesty is one the best qualities of a human being!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jenni98

Himansho is my favorite among everyone but I really didn't like some of the comments he passed on Rashmi and Upen in today's episode. I don't think it was necessary to bring up the past. No one liked what Rashmi did but everyone has already let it go, she has apologized a lot and the matter is over. He could've said something else. And about upen he said he doesn't like the fact that Upen is very competitive and the reason behind it was very illogical. I don't think being competitive is a bad thing. Everyone is there to win and be competitive otherwise they would be wasting their time. Himruta are my favorite but I think sometimes they are too full of themselves.


Competitive nature is very good but too much competitive is not good. What Himmanshoo said was correct! Himmanshoo said, sometimes during tasks Upen put in too much efforts even when his health is not fine. He was having back problem still he put to much extra pressure on himself in the physical task which is not good for Upen. In a very good spirit he meant to say that Upen should be competitive but not to that extend which effects Upen's health. And I guess that suggestion was really good and fair.
As for Rashami, Himmi clearly started with the line that he has no suggestion for Rashami. Which clearly meant he find her good natured and she doesnt need to change according to him. Only one thing which he didnt like was that event. And not liking that event is fair enough as a friend, as a co-contestant.
And I didnt find his comments insulting or demeaning in any way. He was honest.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pou_luvs_ajs

Himanshoo wasnt negative at all.himmi was jst honest.he is very friendly with rashmi in general.so instead of sugarcoating his words he decided to speak the truth!!same for upen.being competitive is good bt being too much shows the selfish side of a person.nd i think himmi was the bst instead of sugarcoating nething he was honest.nd honesty is one the best qualities of a human being!!



Just because Himmanshoo said it doesn't make it right. Sana said she likes Upen's competitiveness and no one else has a problem with it, in fact they appreciate it.

Telling someone to be less competitive in a competition is plain weird! Says more about the person saying it than the person it's about.

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