05/01 Highlights: Prakash is Avni's Well Wisher - Precious Bond! - Page 2

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: IFLove


I agree, she apologised to him many times, but is that enough for him to trust u? Does he not need to know the reason y she did what she did? Did she tell him even once that she wants him back in her life? Even after breaking the mangalsutra, she told him to move on if he doesn't want to stay with her. Did she tell if she wants to stay with him regardless of what he wants? N let's not bring this again. Everybody was of the same opinion about this before the proposal happened, n now that Neil is painted as the villain n Avni as a victim, even her previous wrongs are made right. That's y I mentioned I'll ignore now what she did about their relation.
I m now only talking about Avni as a mother, not Neil's wife. A mother can't give up only with one attempt. Has she not treated him like a stranger by hiding about his own son from him? We know the reason, he doesn't. Why should he not call her stranger for that? The impact of this secret is so deep on Neil, that it can not be changed in first attempt only. She needs to keep trying in different ways. N the most important difference is, she is speaking everything from her own perspective...don't snatch Mowgli from me, he can't live without me...she needs to speak from Neil's pov too to calm him down.
I might be wrong to compare two shows or two characters, but this entire situation reminds of Ishita from yhm. The circumstances were different, but she too had to fight her daughter's father to make him understand the child psychology and how he should behave as a father...n unintentionally I keep comparing what Avni is doing to what Ishita did. N Ishita's experience tell me what it takes for a mother to not give up easily in her child's case n how she should keep making constant efforts to maintain a balance between the kid n the father despite of having issues with ur husband. The biggest difference in both of them is Avni has baggage of her guilt n has nobody except Mowgli, so its a bigger emotional turmoil for her and hence I don't blame her for what she did in today's court trial, but she definitely needs to improve next time!

I agree with you just because Avni is victimized we can't see past her mistakes . She is acting a selfish mother and not one who wanted Neil to enjoy his parenthood . This will come to an end only when she opens up and faces her fears
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: paayaal

Neil is not doing out of the court settelemse,as he thinks again Avni will runaway with Moghli,like she does every time and he won't be able to do anything,



Agree with u 100%.

I also think Neil has filed for custody not because he wants to break Avni but because this way hez ensuring that Avni doesn't suddenly run away from him again & taking away his son as well.

Also he might think that if he wins Mowgliz custody then Avni too will come to him...that if not for him per se but for Mowgli she ll come to him & that finally she ll need Neil for something considering how she has acted since coming back!



Exactly whatever Neil is seeing Avni has been hiding from him,running away or told him she has a life of her own and she has moved on ,he should move on

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