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Originally posted by: Chocolatebond

fact satyavachan even Ashish Mehta never faked love and flirted to spite Ayesha even when they were tore apart

Now that the AvNeil lover in me cooled down, I can see where Neil is coming from, Avni has started to ponder over things today and realised where she went wrong, he will do the same as well soon, his time will come as well, meanwhile I'll watch it as a story, if you ask people who are not emotionally attached to the show or AvNeil and can give an opinion without bias, they would tell u that the way he reacted isn't totally against how a normal person who faced so many shocks, subjected to so many lies would behave, his trust is totally broken and for obvious reasons but he will understand that what he thinks is the right decision based on what he feels, faced or saw isn't really the right one, meanwhile let's just see the intricacities of human behavior.

Originally posted by: sammy17

...THE SHOW ENDING!!!!!!!!! 🤢😡🤢

Today's episode did it for me. The guy has found out he is now a father, but instead of thinking about that, the only thing on his mind is avni did this, avni hid this, avni I hate you, avni I will teach you a lesson. Blah blah blah.

No matter how much people justify neil's actions by saying it is a natural way for him to react, they aren't actually justifiable anymore. Even i was justifying both avni and neil's actions, but now it's neil who I can't justify, because everything he is doing is to teach avni a lesson, rather than understanding why she is doing it.

He really thinks that avni is doing all this to hurt and deceive him, which just proves he has forgotten everything that happened in the past, and he never really understood avni. Whenever avni does anything out of fear, insecurity and impulsiveness, he always brings it down to her not trusting him. He never remembers everything she has gone through, and all those experiences and the fear and anxiety they cause her, which ultimately influence her to take those steps.

People who go though trauma and distress act in different ways, some self harm, some become depressed and socialise less, some over-eat, but avni, avni reacts by fear and paranoia... the fear that one by one she will see everyone she loves leave her.

Let's look at it this way: The girl has been subjected to neglect/ abandonment/ humiliation since a small age, her entire blood family has been decimated out of existence, her adoptive mother murdered, one by one people coming and digging up avni's past to utilise her fears and insecurities against her for their own advantage, and then you have vidyut who neil got to know was constantly calling avni before she went missing, which neil, if he had used his brain would have easily understood he was harassing and tormenting her. Let's not forget her near experience with death by being just about shot in the heart.

How is it neil so easily accuses avni of not trusting him, rather than thinking this is how her traumatic life experiences have effected her? Avni needs help, not punishment. 😭

that's the issue na avni is not properly explaining her reason for living Neil...I m not talking about prakash's truth but she can speak her fears n pain that how she considers herself as bad omen n whoever life she enters she brings her bad fate with her...before mowgli's truth Neil would have understood that but now he is not in the state to think...
PS I m taking Neil's side he did entirely wrong today..

I've read the update and cant get myself through watch the epi, cant believe what happening to the AvNeil we once loved :(

Originally posted by: ishikakapoor

that's the issue na avni is not properly explaining her reason for living Neil...I m not talking about prakash's truth but she can speak her fears n pain that how she considers herself as bad omen n whoever life she enters she brings her bad fate with her...before mowgli's truth Neil would have understood that but now he is not in the state to think...
PS I m taking Neil's side he did entirely wrong today..

Avni has tried talking to him man times ...he does not listen to her. He's on a big self pity and revengeful track...he's going to fall hard ...Mowgli is going to hate him ...and he's going to lose Mowgli and Avni..then he can go to Mitali to pick up the pieces

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Avni has tried talking to him man times ...he does not listen to her. He's on a big self pity and revengeful track...he's going to fall hard ...Mowgli is going to hate him ...and he's going to lose Mowgli and Avni..then he can go to Mitali to pick up the pieces

true now Neil deserves mitali only...

Not supporting Neil just my POV

The most disgusting thing about Neil today was that he wants to purposely take Mowgli away from Avni and he had the audacity to tell Mithali that she will be a better mother to Mowgli ..really he hasn't even started being a father yet. I really don't know how he's going to redeem himself...I think Mowgli is going to hurt him and treat him just as badly as he treated Avni...remember Mowgli already told Avni today that he hates Superman. So it's going to come back to neil .i really felt for Avni today .

Just wanted to get your opinions. What would you all do if you were in Neil's place? I know that if I saw the love of my life who I presumed dead after 10 years, I would hug them and never let them go again. Sure, I would feel extremely angry, shocked, and betrayed but would try to get the full story before doing anything else. Some people are saying that at least some, if not most of Neil's reactions are justified and quite realistic, but I don't see such a thing happening in real life, especially if you have loved and trusted a person so much. I'm going to refrain from speaking of the things he has done in the last two episodes to preserve my sanity. What do you guys think?