Heights of being selfish

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__VIHU

@__VIHU

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Posted: 7 years ago

I used to be a die hard fan of NK... But stopped watching it when things got unbearable. While switching channels I came across star plus and Avneil scene was going on. Although I didn't wanted to disturb myself (being so fond of something which now has been destroyed the worse way possible can sometimes do that you) even then I could help but adore Avneil as I was watching them after a long time.

Just then Avni broke the mangalsutra and I felt like slapping her. She ran away leaving him to live the hell of a life. Yeah I know that step was to be considered mahaan... But sorry that was selfish for me at least. I would have considered it mahaan if she would have got him married to Mithali then instead of forcing him now.

If I would have been Neil... I would expect Avni to earn my forgiveness. Try to make up for those ten painful years. She underestimated him. A person who can put a full stop to his life for ten years loving her... only her, he can forgive her. But she considers herself chief justice and decides everything on her own. Even if she thinks her decisions were right... she has no right to tell Neil what to do and what not.

She ran for a good for nothing shayesha or whatever her name is... But girl you failed there too. Neither you could stabilise her financially (I saw when they were struggling to earn money) nor you could give her some values. Us ladki mein sanskaar naam ka cherz hai hi ni. No wealth, No manners, No values... Shayesha turned out to be a complete disaster.

Coming to Pillu... I pity the poor child. His mother separated him from his family... His dad. Made him live life of an orphan.

I feel a thousand more things like she didn't even thought that Neela sacrificed her life and dedicated everything a person can so that Avni could spend a normal life with Neil and their child didn't have to suffer but poor she underestimated Avni's heights of stupidity. But can't write everything.

Sorry if I said something wrong or missed something because like I said I don't watch it regularly.

That's what I think you might have different opinion... So no offence or hard feelings.

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WhtinAname

@WhtsinAname

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Posted: 7 years ago

You hv said nothing wrong.

Yes you missed one thing...Avni thinking Neil will snatch away her baby from her on finding d truth.So she hides d identity of her kid from his father.Well I feel like banging my head seeing a beautiful story being ruined a bit more every day.But then people claim only they understand Avni and we don't.

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Indira

@Indira1211

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: __VIHU
I used to be a die hard fan of NK... But stopped watching it when things got unbearable. While switching channels I came across star plus and Avneil scene was going on. Although I didn't wanted to disturb myself (being so fond of something which now has been destroyed the worse way possible can sometimes do that you) even then I could help but adore Avneil as I was watching them after a long time.
Just then Avni broke the mangalsutra and I felt like slapping her. She ran away leaving him to live the hell of a life. Yeah I know that step was to be considered mahaan... But sorry that was selfish for me at least. I would have considered it mahaan if she would have got him married to Mithali then instead of forcing him now.

If I would have been Neil... I would expect Avni to earn my forgiveness. Try to make up for those ten painful years. She underestimated him. A person who can put a full stop to his life for ten years loving her... only her, he can forgive her. But she considers herself chief justice and decides everything on her own. Even if she thinks her decisions were right... she has no right to tell Neil what to do and what not.

She ran for a good for nothing shayesha or whatever her name is... But girl you failed there too. Neither you could stabilise her financially (I saw when they were struggling to earn money) nor you could give her some values. Us ladki mein sanskaar naam ka cherz hai hi ni. No wealth, No manners, No values... Shayesha turned out to be a complete disaster.

Coming to Pillu... I pity the poor child. His mother separated him from his family... His dad. Made him live life of an orphan.

I feel a thousand more things like she didn't even thought that Neela sacrificed her life and dedicated everything a person can so that Avni could spend a normal life with Neil and their child didn't have to suffer but poor she underestimated Avni's heights of stupidity. But can't write everything.

Sorry if I said something wrong or missed something because like I said I don't watch it regularly.
That's what I think you might have different opinion... So no offence or hard feelings.

Avni did not run away for Sayesha. She faked her death so vidyut would not send Prakash to jail for Neela's death. She knew thst Prakash will not be able to handle the guilt so he might commit suicide,..she also know Neil,and shweta and Bebe will not be able to see Prakash go to jail. She knew the family would be destroyed that's why she ran away. By running away she also protected Sayesha but that was not the reason that she ran away...Prakash was.

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AvNeil123

@AvNeil123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Avni is not the same girl she used to be.

She acted to be the scared Neilanjana but the fact is she has adopted some traits of Neilanajana.

Any parent will be furious to be out the other half who was supposedly dead - hid the truth that they have a child. Even after coming face to face, she kept quiet.

Neil did not demand her to stay with him, she walked out on him and now she's literally forcing ng him to move on.

He can't forgive her nor let go, then she should at least take the initiative and make an effort to get Neil's apology, if not for herself or Neil then at least Mowgli but here she's on her own ego trip.

Edited by -AvniNeil- - 7 years ago

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AvNeil123

@AvNeil123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Double post 😳

Edited by -AvniNeil- - 7 years ago

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ANNA

@ANNA90ALEX

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: drbeth
You hv said nothing wrong.
Yes you missed one thing...Avni thinking Neil will snatch away her baby from her on finding d truth.So she hides d identity of her kid from his father.Well I feel like banging my head seeing a beautiful story being ruined a bit more every day.But then people claim only they understand Avni and we don't.

Seriously. How people can be so stupid to even justifying complete nonsense like what Avni is doing now. Avni failed as a mother and wife from every angle. She was a good daughter. Thats it. She is afraid of Mowgli leaving her but what about how she left Neil..?? She is not even trying to get back with Neil. Atleast for the sake of her own child, cant she sacrifice herself..?? she was ready to leave to give Mishti a happy family. My god!!! Height of Hypocrisy!!!

Is she going to keep everything under wrap.. I think she made her own child an orphan because if she raise him as own , he may question her about his father and when he knws what his mom did to his pa, the boy may leave her. Thats what made her his didi. Jesus Christ!! What kind of Maa will let her own child to address her DIDI..?? "Ma" or Motherhood being the most beautiful relationship in the world.. and Avni single handedly ruined the innocence of beauty of that relation btw a child and his mom. I really think Mowgli and Neil deserve some one better in their life. Because Avni is so hardheaded that she can live alone. Her ego wont let her ask forgiveness from Neil. She is at fault and she did nothing to make it work btw them. How cold this girl turned out to be..??

Edited by ANNA90ALEX - 7 years ago

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delhigirl

@delhigirl

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

Seriously. How people can be so stupid to even justifying complete nonsense like what Avni is doing now. Avni failed as a mother and wife from every angle. She was a good daughter. Thats it. She is afraid of Mowgli leaving her but what about how she left Neil..?? She is not even trying to get back with Neil. Atleast for the sake of her own child, cant she sacrifice herself..?? she was ready to leave to give Mishti a happy family. My god!!! Height of Hypocrisy!!!

Is she going to keep everything under wrap.. I think she made her own child an orphan because if she raise him as own , he may question her about his father and when he knws what his mom did to his pa, the boy may leave her. Thats what made her his didi. Jesus Christ!! What kind of Maa will let her own child to address her DIDI..?? "Ma" or Motherhood being the most beautiful relationship in the world.. and Avni single handedly ruined the innocence of beauty of that relation btw a child and his mom. I really think Mowgli and Neil deserve some one better in their life. Because Avni is so hardheaded that she can live alone. Her ego wont let her ask forgiveness from Neil. She is at fault and she did nothing to make it work btw them. How cold this girl turned out to be..??

and we all are supposed to accept her actions towards her child and understand her just by the fact why she took the decision of leaving Neil and khannas 10 years ago.

The fact is that she was wrong then also. It is easy for her to run away and so she did.

In her head she justifies it as Neil would have fallen apart if Prakash was arrested.

well the right thing to do was to tell Neil about the black mail of Vidyut and how he used Prakash. Neil was a shrewd police officer. He had taken her out of many tough situations before.

He would have been shocked and worried for his father but he is right.

As a police officer he would have done everything o prove his father not guilty.

And even if she really thought that she had to go for Neil and khannas sake, she should have immediately informed Neil even after she had given birth.

At that time her child's normal family life and his father should have mattered far more than anything else.

There is no Mother who would have done anything like what Avni did and no one could justify all her actions like khanna family and everyone else.

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ChalkNCheese

@ChalkNCheese

Stunner

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

Seriously. How people can be so stupid to even justifying complete nonsense like what Avni is doing now. Avni failed as a mother and wife from every angle. She was a good daughter. Thats it. She is afraid of Mowgli leaving her but what about how she left Neil..?? She is not even trying to get back with Neil. Atleast for the sake of her own child, cant she sacrifice herself..?? she was ready to leave to give Mishti a happy family. My god!!! Height of Hypocrisy!!!

Is she going to keep everything under wrap.. I think she made her own child an orphan because if she raise him as own , he may question her about his father and when he knws what his mom did to his pa, the boy may leave her. Thats what made her his didi. Jesus Christ!! What kind of Maa will let her own child to address her DIDI..?? "Ma" or Motherhood being the most beautiful relationship in the world.. and Avni single handedly ruined the innocence of beauty of that relation btw a child and his mom. I really think Mowgli and Neil deserve some one better in their life. Because Avni is so hardheaded that she can live alone. Her ego wont let her ask forgiveness from Neil. She is at fault and she did nothing to make it work btw them. How cold this girl turned out to be..??

Why do you think that she was a good daughter😕

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delhigirl

@delhigirl

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

I don't think she was a good daughter either.

Ayesha sacrificed herself completely for her and Aman. Fought to get her identity from her father. Avi sacrificed her child apart from her Husband.

Neela sacrificed her life to give her an identity, wealth, strength to fight the whole world, married her to Neil intentionally. She gave her the biggest gift of love and support.

Avni took her son's identity away, changed him to an orphan, subjected him to live in poverty.

she failed the teachings of both the mothers.

they would be turning in their graves.

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delhigirl

@delhigirl

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Posted: 7 years ago

#10

If she does not want to lose Mowgli by telling Neil and does not want mowgli to know that she is his mother because he will hate her.

WOW what a great mother. Let the child live as an orphan and let the father die never knowing that he has a child. so that she can live in peace just seeing him as Jaan di daily.

then she will be mahaan by bringing the child to do his last rites

Edited by delhigirl - 7 years ago

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