Has Avni done enough for Neela? - Page 2

Avni come to meet neelama when Neil refuse to go honeymoon. They did talk about grandchildren and they shared chocolate. It was an beautiful scene. And I loved that scene very much. Voh kesa scene dika sakte the. SaB Gaya Paani mein ab.

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

I liked the initial few episodes where they focused on their bond where they used to have night gossips while relishing ice-cream, prepared breakfast for each in turn, but with time it started looking more like one sided from Neela's side

I totally agree with you in this!Neela is such a character and she's done so much for avni that no one could've ever done!And I also feel that cvs should've shown avni caring for neela that much like she cares for her..it's not that avni doesn t care for her but it would've been much much better to show that from avni side too!The only time I felt her love for neela was when she returned from jail & avneil ke room mein she said to neela that "main aapko maaf karu? And Aap ho toh main hu maa" that scene touched me! And i wanted to see that types scene more but neela is dying ..
So, yes cvs should've shown more scenes toh accha lagta! but seems like avni doesn't care for neela that much!

Originally posted by: ..preethi..

Honestly speaking Ayesha did not do anything for Avni as much Needs did for Avni but Avni only remembers Ayesha. Agreed she is her biological mother but Avni never recognized Neelas sacrifice! As you said she took Neela for granted

I humbly disagree.

Jabbi bhi kese cheeze ki zaroorat padti Hai ya phir koi advice, Ya when avni feels tensed she used to run to neela ma. Only when she is sad , and had happy tears in her eyes she used to run to ayeshas grave.

Originally posted by: Ashi_Naksh

I humbly disagree.

How much would be enough to justify our love towards our parents?? Can we really quantify our love towards our parents? What gestures would qualify that we care for or love our parents? Celebrating birthdays? Taking them out for lunch/dinners? Gifting them? Yes, they are nice gestures to make them feel special but these are not the only things which matters.

Avni as a character is being shown as somebody who don't express her feelings openly. She has her own silent ways of showing her love and care. She has always acknowledged Neela's love & care as "MOTHER" towards her. Never has she questioned Neela's decisions taken on her behalf. She got tortured by RP and still kept quiet to save Neela. Avni would have given her life to save Neela if given a choice but alas DEATH NEVER GIVE YOU CHOICE. It just embrace and take your loved ones away. Are we really going to blame Avni for loving her biological mother, which comes quite naturally to everyone.

We have to understand Neela - Avni's relationship is not like any other mother-daughter. They are special & their way of expressing is different.

Yes, we take our parents for granted and most probably Avni has done the same but isn't it the most natural thing in us human? We take the most loved ones for granted hoping when things go wrong they will understand...& realise we have not done enough only when the person is no more with us. Unfortunately Avni won't get chance to Pamper her "NEELA MAA"...BUT AGAIN THE SAME QUESTION ARISES IN MY MIND... "How much would be enough to justify our love towards our parents??

It's completely my point of view, not meant to offend anyone.

----Ashi

+1 although its CVS fault that they didn't show us more of avni's love and concern expressed openly towards Neela the fact that avni is always a person who doesn't know how to express her feelings to her loved ones be it Neela or Neil should not be ignored she is lately after Neil came into her life by his efforts he has successfully made her be expressive about her feelings like neelama herself said she didn't want to take the place of Ayesha in avni's heart but she indeed created her own place in avni's heart no matter what ever we do the love parents give us cannot be ever returned back in equal measures by children fully to them every person has different way of showing and expressing their love for their parents respecting your parents decision which they take for you on your behalf for your life and when the child listens to it is also a gesture to show how much we love our parents Ayesha and neelama both are like soul and heart to Avni sometimes though we love both our father and mother equally we become partial towards one of our parent owing to circumstances and the fact is either our mother or father is more close and favourite to us than the other and we feel free to express every single thing to one of our parent and not to both sometimes avni's love for both her mother's can't be put in words it's a emotion which cannot be expressed only felt

It's completely CVS fault.

Originally posted by: Ashi_Naksh

I humbly disagree.

How much would be enough to justify our love towards our parents?? Can we really quantify our love towards our parents? What gestures would qualify that we care for or love our parents? Celebrating birthdays? Taking them out for lunch/dinners? Gifting them? Yes, they are nice gestures to make them feel special but these are not the only things which matters.

Avni as a character is being shown as somebody who don't express her feelings openly. She has her own silent ways of showing her love and care. She has always acknowledged Neela's love & care as "MOTHER" towards her. Never has she questioned Neela's decisions taken on her behalf. She got tortured by RP and still kept quiet to save Neela. Avni would have given her life to save Neela if given a choice but alas DEATH NEVER GIVE YOU CHOICE. It just embrace and take your loved ones away. Are we really going to blame Avni for loving her biological mother, which comes quite naturally to everyone.

We have to understand Neela - Avni's relationship is not like any other mother-daughter. They are special & their way of expressing is different.

Yes, we take our parents for granted and most probably Avni has done the same but isn't it the most natural thing in us human? We take the most loved ones for granted hoping when things go wrong they will understand...& realise we have not done enough only when the person is no more with us. Unfortunately Avni won't get chance to Pamper her "NEELA MAA"...BUT AGAIN THE SAME QUESTION ARISES IN MY MIND... "How much would be enough to justify our love towards our parents??

It's completely my point of view, not meant to offend anyone.

----Ashi

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

I respect your POV

I felt Avni was quite expressive while expressing her love for Juhi or Mishti. She planned Diwali party for Mishti ,made efforts to make Juhi feel at home,took Juhi for paani puri outings. Mishti I can still understand for Juhi it was not at all required. When she can display her love and care for the people whom she had known only for few days then why not for her mother? It is necessary to make parents feel special as it definitely matters to them.I feel it is wrong to take the people for granted who love us and it is necessary to express our love for the people whom we love as often as possible. Phir kya pata Kal ho Naa ho like it is happening with Avni after Neela's demise