Big Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - Aug 28, 2025
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Abhira : The self-respect queen
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Originally posted by: fibrinogen9
@crusty @beguiling
@har jaghah tumhari chalegi!
All TWO PEOPLE relationships, be it couples, coworkers, siblings,parents... reach a stage where they subconsciously fight for dominance.
It's primal, it's organic all relationships go through this stage, but very few survive it or at least survive it to come through it unscathed.
Here what bela said and how Mahirji replied conveys enough about them as a person and as a couple.
1. Bela, who didn't expect anything from him, who used to refuse his help on every corner, is today comfortable enough to make a statement what she wants and her way ,will be THE WAY in their relationship. She is addressing them as a TEAM. This was done by her post Ravan dhahan at the bathtub too. Mahirji had rejoiced in it then too. This was a display of HAQ. And by now it's well established that this is major turn on for Mahirji.
2. Mahirji who is right from the beginning willing to throw his heart at her feet, disagrees to it though he is willing to negotiate. If he wanted he could have consented to it like any man who is momentarily under influence of desires or like any man he could have made fake promises till he gets his way. But he didn't, this pattern was seen in the bathtub scene too.This for me shows how Mahirji likes to take a stance. Very attractive.
3. Though pairs struggle for the dominance what people forget is, love is to surrender. One needs to see beyond the primal reflexes and behavioural conditioning we all go through from various external factors to reach this point of submission. Bela and Mahirji both are strong personalities individually, one of the many things which increased their mutual attraction. Both come under the dominant persona radar. Here what behir did is, they are saying one thing, their words mean fight for dominance but their expressions, the tone in which it is said, the body language conveys surrender. This discussion was done in jest. This is more significant in their case because submission doesn't come naturally to them.
mann to kar raha hai ki IG comment section mein likh doon ki- bela ki ek kiss se aap ka yeh haal hai toh aage kya hoga