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VARUNI2014

@VARUNI2014

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Posted: 6 years ago

#41

Bela trying to know what vikrant up to and his plan .so she silent now .

She does not know why vikrant doing this .vikrant is doing it for naagmani .

Though naagmani is safe now ..she wants to know what plan and who is behind

What happening now it's not at all bela fault .it's just bcis of vikrant mom greed and vikrant obsession

Brka just stuck in all these evil plans and wants to do what us right and she is nax doing what she can do to mahir .

She does not havr another choice right now

She has to play by vikrant drama to know the Crux of truth i.e vikrant mom naagrani plan

For Kings and queens loving is not the only job ..sometimes they have vto keep love aside and get to know each attempts to their throne and bela is doing it now

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@urmita

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Posted: 6 years ago

#42

This is exactly what I want to say too Deepika...

I m not cursing Bela or wanting her hurt...I know she loves Mahir and she has a lot on her plate, but she is still handling it all wrong...She is setting wrong impression as a naagrani, a wife and a woman with her silence...People are thinking her characterless, she can see that and still she is silent..Mahir gets insulted and she is silent...and people usually take silence for agreement, that's a hard fact...how will she feel if the situation was reversed and Mahir was silent...Vikku came as Mahir and said bad things once and she was ready to leave house without hesitation...and day after day Mahir sees her saying I love u to Yuvi 1st then Yuvi getting close to Bela and her remaining silent...still he doesn't give her up...he considered it but couldn't...he was ready to fight for her even if she hadn't told the fake Yuvi thing...that's called putting efforts in a relationship...all he needs is a private hug from her and he is ready to fight any situation to be with her... that's how much he loves Bela...can we say the same for her confidently? I can't..

she loves him, but doesn't have time to fight for that love...can give him up with tears in her eyes, but can't take a stand for their relationship... this way she will always have an excuse for not putting efforts, for taking him for granted...and just coz Mahir is ok with that now doesn't mean he will always be or he doesn't deserve better...Mahir deserves to know and we need to know ki agar 1day he stops putting any efforts in this marriage and just withdraws, Bela can do what he is doing since beginning and put efforts and save the relationship, convince him to invest in it again... that's what I want otherwise how will we know if she really loves Mahir that much...and I think Bela and the writers finally got that...that's what shower scene was abt...And if what I think is right then when Bela is done with her "plan" Mahir Ka kal jo insult his Bela ko uska Jawab dena Chahiye sabko by declaring what this marriage and Mahir means to her publicly, varna I can't respect her .. sometimes words are important...Mahir deserves the words even if he says he doesn't need it...

Zaruri nehi ki sabko ek Sath 50 50 efforts dena hai...par koi ek agar ab 100% efforts De Raha hai to zaruri hai ki use pata chale ki Kabhi agar vo effort na de to uska partner 100% effort deke balance Kar Sakti hai...otherwise ek hath see taali nehi bajti...

Edited by urmita - 6 years ago

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Atlas_Shrugged

@Atlas_Shrugged

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Posted: 6 years ago

#43

See, right from day one Mahir was very clear - he wanted to continue this relationship. He rightaway fell for her innocence and goodness. He is a straightforward guy, with no baggage. Plus he is surrounded by his loving family and friends.

But bela carries a lot of baggage - She has a past, she is not a human, she wanted and failed to kill Mahir, firstly. She didn't have anybody except Vish, and that too she had to be very secretive about Bevish meetings.

And then the barrage of villians from Jamini to shaan to Anu. A lover who died and came back, A mother who died and came back. A friend who backstabbed her.

Cut the girl some slack. She has a lot to deal with. In comparison, Mahir only has Bela to deal with. She is multi tasking with fooling vikrant, taking care of her mother, and communicating with Mahir.

The most important thing now for her is to ensure Mahir's safety. And if Vikrant gets a doubt, it would only be a matter of time before he kills Mahir. Previously she didn't take a stand becasue she didnt' want to hurt Vikrant, now she is not taking a stand for she wants to save Mahir. Her actions, though insensitive, are not unjustified.

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VARUNI2014

@VARUNI2014

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: urmita
This is exactly what I want to say too Deepika...
I m not cursing Bela or wanting her hurt...I know she loves Mahir and she has a lot on her plate, but she is still handling it all wrong...She is setting wrong impression as a naagrani, a wife and a woman with her silence...People are thinking her characterless, she can see that and still she is silent..Mahir gets insulted and she is silent...and people usually take silence for agreement, that's a hard fact...how will she feel if the situation was reversed and Mahir was silent...Vikku came as Mahir and said bad things once and she was ready to leave house without hesitation...and day after day Mahir sees her saying I love u to Yuvi 1st then Yuvi getting close to Bela and her remaining silent...still he doesn't give her up...he considered it but couldn't...he was ready to fight for her even if she hadn't told the fake Yuvi thing...that's called putting efforts in a relationship...all he needs is a private hug from her and he is ready to fight any situation to be with her... that's how much he loves Bela...can we say the same for her confidently? I can't..

she loves him, but doesn't have time to fight for that love...can give him up with tears in her eyes, but can't take a stand for their relationship... this way she will always have an excuse for not putting efforts, for taking him for granted...and just coz Mahir is ok with that now doesn't mean he will always be or he doesn't deserve better...Mahir deserves to know and we need to know ki agar 1day he stops putting any efforts in this marriage and just withdraws, Bela can do what he is doing since beginning and put efforts and save the relationship, convince him to invest in it again... that's what I want otherwise how will we know if she really loves Mahir that much...and I think Bela and the writers finally got that...that's what shower scene was abt...And if what I think is right then when Bela is done with her "plan" Mahir Ka kal jo insult his Bela ko uska Jawab dena Chahiye sabko by declaring what this marriage and Mahir means to her publicly, varna I can't respect her .. sometimes words are important...Mahir deserves the words even if he says he doesn't need it...

Zaruri nehi ki sabko ek Sath 50 50 efforts dena hai...par koi ek agar ab 100% efforts De Raha hai to zaruri hai ki use pata chale ki Kabhi agar vo effort na de to uska partner 100% effort deke balance Kar Sakti hai...otherwise ek hath see taali nehi bajti...

Bela is making effort ..to save Mahir

To save Mahir does mean saving marriage

If Mahir dies what's the point ..there's no marriage

So how can u say bela zero effort

Marriage is not mathematical equation to perfectly balance from both sides one might be 80 and another 20 ..no problem and if the 80 person is happy to be with 20 who are we to dissect and wish bad for 20 ..

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Cold coffee_mania

@Fruitcustard_9

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Posted: 6 years ago

#45

Saving mahir really from whom , this is best way 2 save some one by insulting him again & again

Maahir will definitely die if Bela will not continue till bullshit drama

How many times Bela had saved maahir ? Acc 2 me only 2 times rest his luck saved him.

If Bela is really worried 4 mahir's safety , d best option is 2 leave him , coz when she will leave him , Vikrant 2 will leave , mahir will be safe.

If Bela marries vikrant then Vikrant will leave mahir , he will not harm maahir or try 2 kill him really

Bela is so weak infront of Vikrant maybe real naagrani Bela is in vacation

She is just using mahir's gudness 4 her so called majboor 4 she never tried 2 find any other way out 2 deal situation , choose d easiest way.

I hope maahir also get save majboori card in future

Rubbish behaviour Ko kitna bhi justify kar lo vo rubbish hi rehta hai

How can people trust a queen who is failing 2 protect d honour of her husband , letting him get insulted without any fault.

This show how incapable d queen is

Edited by deepikagupta9 - 6 years ago

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VARUNI2014

@VARUNI2014

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#46

If bela leaves Mahir and marries vikrant Mahir will suffer too much .it will be psychological breakdown for him .

So it's not the solution

Queen is choosing husband safety above temporary honour and that is a wise decision

Now Mahir getting hurt is temporary till vikrant dies

So what is better ..temporary hurt or permanent separation with psychological breakdown and that is for Mahir to decide ..who r we to decide between wife and husband ..and Mahir decided the former ...obviously .,so he going with bela plan

Edited by VARUNI2014 - 6 years ago

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nuomi.riceball

@nuomi.riceball

Sparkler

Posted: 6 years ago

#47

It's still precap we don't know what will happen next week. Like last week precap it was shown as if Bella wanted to kill Mahir. But then it was shown in this week's episode that Bella knows Vikrant's betrayal. Maybe it's one of the misleading promo like last time.

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tejaswie

@tejaswie

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9
Saving mahir really from whom , this is best way 2 save some one by insulting him again & again

Maahir will definitely die if Bela will not continue till bullshit drama

How many times Bela had saved maahir ? Acc 2 me only 2 times rest his luck saved him.

If Bela is really worried 4 mahir's safety , d best option is 2 leave him , coz when she will leave him , Vikrant 2 will leave , mahir will be safe.

If Bela marries vikrant then Vikrant will leave mahir , he will not harm maahir or try 2 kill him really

Bela is so weak infront of Vikrant maybe real naagrani Bela is in vacation

She is just using mahir's gudness 4 her so called majboor 4 she never tried 2 find any other way out 2 deal situation , choose d easiest way.

I hope maahir also get save majboori card in future

Rubbish behaviour Ko kitna bhi justify kar lo vo rubbish hi rehta hai

How can people trust a queen who is failing 2 protect d honour of her husband , letting him get insulted without any fault.

This show how incapable d queen is

i respect your pov

Bela and Mahir have not chose themselves to be there for each other , its not their choice , its Destiny ..

this comment made it look like bela should leave mahir so as to save him ?! Here mahir is also not any normal human, he was chosen to be naagrani's husband for a reason ... Whatever he is facing is making him get close to his own reality too ...

Bolenath gave him blessings , he was born with Raaj yog , just for Nothing ?? He is in this story as much as Bela is ... He is just not a ordinary husband .. leaving him to save him from problems is a foolish thing to say because , its his destiny to get married to a naagin and face the consequences and he will find himself in this journey .. There is something more to The mahir which we are seeing now ...

In Season 1 Shivanya did belittle rithik many times, she used jabardasti word many times when rithik got close to her .. there there was nothing like revenge taking on her husband like in season 3 .. She did hurt rithik many times with her behaviour because she was all about taking revenge ..

in season 2 , the situation was more worst ,she used to go and support rudra to get her revenge and that made it look like rudra and shivangi were having an affair ...

what i am saying is in all the seasons , naagins, naagranis were given a revenge task and it was always the husband who suffered because of the baggage of naagins or naagrani ... this season is no different ... prev season viewers should know this by now ... there the husbands suffered too not only here ...

right now mahir dont know her truth, the day he ll come to know about her from third person. , like typical ektas naagin male lead he may either go and kill bela like in season 1 , or i dont want to say what happened in season 2 because i cannot see mahir repeating rocky ..

Bolenath have chosen Bela and Mahir as soulmates, whatever they face by being together, is their kismat, they have to face it all ... whether bela treating mahir bad now or mahir treating bela bad later after getting to know her truth , its their journey together ...

Edited by tejaswie - 6 years ago

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Cold coffee_mania

@Fruitcustard_9

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Posted: 6 years ago

#49

@ Tejaswi

I wrote Bela should leave mahir coz I m tired of listening Bela is safeguarding mahir , I mean really she is doing this by insulting mahir again & again in this track

Vikrant is not blackmailing Bela into marrying him , he is trapping her in her game as she don't know anyother way out 2 deal d problem so always choose d easiest way .

Vikrant Ko mahir Ko nhi karna hai , vo chahta Bela usse mare

How is Bela saving mahir . She is only using mahir's gudness

can u tell me when did shivanya insulted rithik publically or played with rithik's self respect or made joke of rithik infront of family

hurting someone & insulting someone r two different thing , bela is not hurting mahir but insulting maahir , whene ver he takes a stand 4 her , she makes a joke of him mot in a closed room but infront of whole family

soulmate kya sirf maahir , can u plz tell me how is bela proving herself d soulmate of maahir

yes naagin have their own limitations but still 4 me shivanya is a better character than bela why coz shivanya already knew worth of rithik in her life thatwhy she cant take him 4 granted , bela had not realised it .

shivanya & shivangi both dealt with villain like yamini , shesha & avantika

is vikrant is near by yamini

if bela is shown so helpless in front of vikrant who is not d main villain , what will happen 2 her when main villain will enter

Edited by deepikagupta9 - 6 years ago

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Viddhi

@Viddhi01

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#50

Deepika I could connect with your opinion. It's not you but your frustration speaking.

I was on the same phase some days back.

It's just that we love Bela so much that we can't see butchering of her powerful character.

How the things unfolding now, she doesn't have any mean choice. She has to select either of them ~ Mahir or Yuvi.

If she chooses Mahir over Yuvi, all her efforts to know Vikrant's mystery mess would go in vain. Vikrant may not kill Mahir but his truth will not out as well. He may plan something bigger ahead.

And above all that she is assured that Mahir believes her trusts her, and so does she.

They are together for forever.

Until they are none can harm either of them.

She will handle him later and about Mahir's respect, don't worry she will take a major stand very soon.

Edited by Viddhi01 - 6 years ago