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Posted: 6 years ago
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I feel you would not feel so once Bela has been shown confronting Vikrant once and for all for all his misdeeds. I hope the day it is done, it is done in a really satisfactory manner.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thank you for posting this. I was waiting for someone else to noticed this too and pointed it out. Thank you!!!

Ever since they have met it has always been Mahir working on their relationship.

Bela makes no effort or does not go extra step for Mahir. This doesn't mean she doesn't care for him but it has always been Mahir fighting for bela and their relationship.

So for where I am looking it is one side relationship that to from Mahir

This time to Mahir will do whatever bela wants. I want bela to have a clear conversation with Mahir about her feelings and their relationship.

Actions does speak louder than words but sometimes words are also needed.

Mahir has been possessive over bela and we have seen it. He also has insecurities and it's normal human feelings but I think bela is yet to acknowledge these feels because she feels secure about Mahir because he goes above and beyond for her with his action and words. And she thinks he knows what she is feeling so she doesn't use words to convey her feelings. Big mistake on her part!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I had respect 4 bela till shaan track coz her action were logical she behaved in a sane way

I use 2 say that bela respect & value her marriage

but this track proved me wrong totally

I use 2 see her equal or greater than shivanya

D day mahir will stop working 4 this relationship , this marriage fall like house of cardd coz no effort from bela

When ever difficult time come she choose d most easiest way leave mahir why coz she has full faith on mahir he will not leave her

Remember when mr mittal pointed out bela as outsider , mahir said she is mrs mahir seghal.
Edited by deepikagupta9 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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u r right Deepika...this is a one sided relationship...not bcoz Bela doesn't love Mahir or she wants to hurt him...coz she does love Mahir very much...her heart is in the right place I will give her that...but sometimes that is not enough...when someone is insulting and hurting the one u love publicly...u have to protest and defend him publicly only...saying sorry I m majboor in private is not enough...I m not talking abt today...Yuvi has been doing this since he came...she never protests...ok today I understand...she needs to stay quite today for her plan( I don't know what she is waiting for though, I hope her plan doesn't extend to wedding Yuvi, like Mahir I can't take that)...But Mahir has been suffering indignity for a long time... his family feels bad for him coz they think he is hopelessly in love with a wife who is two timing him...this is not true and Bela needs to make that public soon...even her image is getting ruined..today she cud atleast stop Vikku when he was creating a scene with those photos and saying whatnot to Mahir...I mean he was insulting Bela to with all that...But like I said I sort of understand just today only...and Behir r same team now so whatever happens long as Bela doesn't actually marry Vikku I m good...
But don't worry she WILL get taste of her own medicine in future..the way Mahir loves her soon much and she doesn't show her emotions publicly, a time will come, most probably after Mahir knows her whole naagin truth, when...well he can't stop loving her, but he CAN get angry and try to pretend he doesn't care...I think a track will come when Mahir won't be so sweet to her anymore for a while and then Bela ko Mahir Mahir Karke uske piche ghumna hoga... it's bound to happen...But for now we hv to bear a yuvi Bela engagement...I hope they don't drag this Chupke Chupke with Mahir, sabke samne with Yuvi Track many weeks... Vikku needs to die soon...

P.S. pointing out Bela or writers' faults and talking abt what we want to see is not negativity..it's criticism... it's why we come here right?...to discuss and criticize our fab shows...Bashing is picking on actors or fellow members... characters, we have full right to say what we want coz they r imaginary after all...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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In public yes, it defolooks like its Mahir only who has been doing all the efoort.
But in private , even bela is taking steps.
but yes, there is no doubt Mahir has done more.
Mahir was able to make Bela fall for her even though she thought for the longest time that he was a killer.
bela'seffort is a result of Mahir's strong love.
I hope now we get to see strong Bela's stronglove for Mahir also.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hey Deepika, no need to be sorry dear. We all have different opinions. That's what makes these discussions fun.
From whatever I saw of season 1, I don't think RiVanya graph was similar to this one. So the developments will also be different I guess. Here the whole basis of Bella's revenge is wrong. Till last even I was saying that by assuming that Mahir will understand her, Bella was taking him for granted, and I still kind of feel that she should come clean about her being a Naagin to him, but she has started to make ammends.

It's all about baby steps. She has traveled from hate to love in last three months whereas Mahir has gone straight to love.Maybe he had some sympathy for her initially.

Now that Mahir knows why Bella was behaving in this manner, he would stick by her. I just wanted her to realise that her behavior is affecting her own reputation. Although she has not yet understood that she is soon going face the repercussions of her past behavior. Although Mahir will never treat her that way, the whole family questioning her is kind of suffering. To have one's character questioned is humiliating and yes Karma is getting at her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Frankly this time Bela is helpless. She can handle this better, but the situation is not letting her do so. She wants to be with Vikrant's trust, else he will harm the family.
It is sad to see Mahir suffering in all this. He is so innocent, honest and doesn't know about anything that is happening around in the past few months.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ash.raje17

Hey Deepika, no need to be sorry dear. We all have different opinions. That's what makes these discussions fun.

From whatever I saw of season 1, I don't think RiVanya graph was similar to this one. So the developments will also be different I guess. Here the whole basis of Bella's revenge is wrong. Till last even I was saying that by assuming that Mahir will understand her, Bella was taking him for granted, and I still kind of feel that she should come clean about her being a Naagin to him, but she has started to make ammends.

It's all about baby steps. She has traveled from hate to love in last three months whereas Mahir has gone straight to love.Maybe he had some sympathy for her initially.

Now that Mahir knows why Bella was behaving in this manner, he would stick by her. I just wanted her to realise that her behavior is affecting her own reputation. Although she has not yet understood that she is soon going face the repercussions of her past behavior. Although Mahir will never treat her that way, the whole family questioning her is kind of suffering. To have one's character questioned is humiliating and yes Karma is getting at her.


THIS!

Mu ki baat cheen li👏


Deepika, this is a very nice topic for discussion you have raised actually and as long as we debate respectfully, like now, no harm in all the disagreements.

I totally get your POV... And you are right in saying that this relation will crash and burn faster if Mahir takes away his effort. But the thing here is Mahir has a situational advantage that Bela does not.

He can AFFORD to make a choice. And he did it SO beautifully today in the shower scene. That scene explained what their relation is right now. Whatever she is doing is backfiring and not being 'good enough' for Mahir but despite that he said his happiness is in being with her. All these troubles mean NOTHING to him as long as she is with him. He Chose it.

Whereas Bela though has chosen Mahir, she is not in a situation to do anything about it. But even in the little scope she had, she did it with her actions. We've got to give her a little more time... She is in a very bad phase in life...

We've so far seen and known Mahir's depth of love, now we will see Bela's. All her misunderstandings regarding got cleared recently. She started taking baby steps... let us give her a little more time...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunshine-1

Frankly this time Bela is helpless. She can handle this better, but the situation is not letting her do so. She wants to be with Vikrant's trust, else he will harm the family.

It is sad to see Mahir suffering in all this. He is so innocent, honest and doesn't know about anything that is happening around in the past few months.


This is so true. He is suffering a lot in this without any fault of his.

Like Bela is trapped for Naagmani, maybe Mahir is being trapped to for some other purpose. Otherwise, Mahir ka bad luck hi kharaab hai😆


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Posted: 6 years ago
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If this post had come 2 days before, I would have agreed here.

Though I am still not concluding Bela's past actions to the touches or ignorance as right.

But it doesn't mean she loves him any less.

Mahir and Bela, both of them are behaving situation wise here. And both of their situation and way to tackle it is different yet the end game is similar.

So let's wait and watch calmly she will definitely stand with him very soon.

Edited by Viddhi01 - 6 years ago

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