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Posted: 6 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: rogna


I know that Draupadi cannot be compared with Bella. And I am not trying to compare Draupadi with Bella. I am just trying to make a point and discussion about fraternity polyandry and the communities that still practice it. I don't mean to offend you or anybody in this forum. Nor am I taking sides with anybody here. I am just voicing out an opinion based on my knowledge about certain subjects. I apologize if that should offend you.


U dont have 2 apologize as u only telling ur pov which is ur right .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014


Actually in India still some think cheap if gals have premarital sex .but it's not cheap in other pov

So if some calling bela behavoour cheap let they restrict it to their pov .but don't let them say how can real world accept it and how none does it in real world etc statements as though they covered each house in entire real world



Yes, I agree with you. The community, society, demographic in India have changed tremendously now. However, there is still a big gap of how women are treated and perceived by the communities. And what kind of behaviors that are acceptable and not acceptable to woman.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014


Now don't talk such complex real issues bcis all some see is their surroundings and think that covers the entire real world nd deny other people personal experiences



Lolzz.. sorry.. call it occupational hazard
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Posted: 6 years ago
#64
I hope people would not stretch 'Draupadi' 'Pandava' or 'Mahabharata' in between further.
Voice yourself in a decent way please. Rights do have a certain limit, it shouldn't be violated.

Bela or Mahir will be forgotten some day or the other but Drau Arjun and Pandas would not be for eras..

We respect your opinions, you respect ours.
And collectively respect the epics.



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Posted: 6 years ago
#65
Don't bring Draupadi and Mahabharat into all this!
Discussion should be done in limits.
Edited by MallikaDua - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#66
What's wrong is wrong. Bela should tell Vikrant to not touch her when he is in disguise of Yuvi. She did jerk off Vikrant's hand...but she has to stop Yuvi too . Mahir is getting so much hurt and is misunderstanding things. It's not his fault as Yuvi was going overboard and Bela wasn't saying anything to him. She stopped Vikrant from touching her but now she should stop Yuvi too. She just keeps feeling uncomfortable but doesn't open her mouth. It's completely wrong!
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Posted: 6 years ago
#67

Where is this discussion going?!

They say, earlier in Japan, after you eat your food in a restaurant, they consider your satisfied Burp as their tip. Whereas in USA, a handsome tip is an unwritten rule.

So, If I am in USA I have to pay good tip not burp and say that's how it works in Japan, so no tipping😆

Thing is be a Roman in Rome!!!!!

Till 1950's a Hindu man can have more than 1 wife. Then came Hindu marriage Act, which adheres to Monogamy!

As societies evolve so do their laws. So what is OKAY in one part of world is NOT okay in another.

Now, Bela and Vikrant are living in human world. They SHOULD adhere to human laws! And the society Bela lives in, is not welcoming to two-timing.

So, they've shift to those mountains to two-time and not feel judged. Or Do what she thinks is right and FACE the judgement.

Bela is comfortable with Vikrant, She doesn't feel bad about the touch... It's HER prerogative, but she should NOT cry or feel bad about JUDGMENTS then, if she thinks she is right. And she MUST stop trying to justify it to Mahir.

If she cannot come out with WHOLE truth, and she PREFERS to stay silent on it, she SHOULD face the judgement as long as she CHOSE silence.

You can't have your cake and eat it too.


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Edited by drummedup - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: drummedup


Where is this discussion going?!

They say, earlier in Japan, after you eat your food in a restaurant, they consider your satisfied Burp as their tip. Whereas in USA, a handsome tip is an unwritten rule.

So, If I am in USA I have to pay good tip not burp and say that's how it works in Japan, so no tipping 😆

Thing is be a Roman in Rome!!!!!

Till 1950's a Hindu man can have more than 1 wife. Then came Hindu marriage Act, which adheres to Monogamy!

As societies evolve so do their laws. So what is OKAY in one part of world is NOT okay in another.

Now, Bela and Vikrant are living in human world. They SHOULD adhere to human laws! And the society Bela lives in, is not welcoming to two-timing.

So, they've shift to those mountains to two-time and not feel judged. Or Do what she thinks is right and FACE the judgement.

Bela is comfortable is Vikrant, She doesn't feel bad about the touch... It's HER prerogative, but she should NOT cry or feel bad about JUDGMENTS then. And she MUST stop trying to justify it to Mahir.

If she cannot come out with WHOLE truth, and she PREFERS to stay silent on it, she SHOULD face the judgement as long as she CHOSE silence.

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

👏👏👏 Commendable! !!
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Posted: 6 years ago
#69
There are only few people who don't need a special mention are crossing lines. Or else the discussion was going smoothly as usual.
@Deepika I would suggest you what you suggested me ones, a best one 'IGNORE THE PEOPLE'.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#70

^ Actually, it's ok if some think what Bela is doing is not wrong because Bela herself is not feeling so.

Earlier even I disliked it because I felt Bela was uncomfortable and still letting him do it. What I observe now is sometimes she is comfortable, sometimes she is not.

The objectionable thing I found about Bela with Vikrant is, he is trying to kiss her in sleep and Bela noticing him so close yet NOT drawing a line there. Personally, I could see it is about friends and touching is quite normal but this particular situation was NOT friendly or platonic.

The issue here is, Bela is viewing this whole thing as platonic but Vikrant's advances are very much not-platonic. There is difference in the way the touch, look or advances are when the intention is not platonic. I feel uncomfortable when a touch is meant more in physical way than emotional/friendly/casual way. A person could tell the difference, specially women, unfortunately.

And that is when you need to draw a line, if you don't reciprocate those feelings.


*edited - ugh typos
Edited by drummedup - 6 years ago

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