Originally posted by: passionalive
Leesan
Ideally we don't get proposals from same gotra..they bring proposals after verifying gotras...I had heard about some scientific reason behind it..can't remember now..😳Even if one knows the person well or not, everyone becomes nervous...😆Marriage here is not only with the guy or girl..it's about joining of two families too..So to adjust with new set of people having different practices, ideologies (mostly) makes everyone nervous...😆