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Posted: 13 years ago
Leesan
Suppose I get marriage proposal from some random person in the city..he may belong to my caste but my gotra are same..I won't get married to him ..

But if I get proposal say , from my mother's side..may be her sister-in-law brother's son..then I can get married..because that son may not have the same gotra..because his father come from different family.Different bloodline altogether..I know it is confusing..😆


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sitamma

Pals,Puja,Lesan ,I think you have not read this post which I made nearly a couple of months ago.Please go through it.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3126176




Will do Sita! Thanks! I have to confess I'm not one for religios rituals etc. whilst I admire the tradition and sense of ancestry associated with it, I have become very jaded, perhaps I have seen too much in my line of work. I can't help it ,I am a product of my environment and life experiences. I am myself from a multi ethnic,multi religious background .But I'm not religious by choice. And whilst I enjoy being able to lay claim to many ancestries , I realize this can be problematic for many other people. I have found that people like to compartmentalize others ,you are a so and so from so and do and therefore you must think so and so!!😉 And I just don't fit into their boxes, so...whatever! Such is life!

Thanks for taking the time to explain certain issues to me !
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Posted: 13 years ago
Parichay to kabhi bhi us time pe nahi aayega. Ekta ke do show aapus me comptit thori karenge.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Anyways, prepared for anything now

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Posted: 13 years ago
Guys, please move to MMT Saturday. Its opened.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: passionalive

Leesan

Suppose I get marriage proposal from some random person in the city..he may belong to my caste but my gotra are same..I won't get married to him ..

But if I get proposal say , from my mother's side..may be her sister-in-law brother's son..then I can get married..because that son may not have the same gotra..because his father come from different family.Different bloodline altogether..I know it is confusing..😆





You bet it is!! 😉Now I understand why you have to get married so early, it takes time to ensure that everything is above board!! Are people ever nervous about marrying someone they don't know very well? Or is it just so natural that no one even bothers?
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Posted: 13 years ago
Sita
I will defintely read it tomorrow 😃




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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: passionalive

Sita

I will defintely read it tomorrow 😃
I am sure you will love ti.I spent more than 30 hrs preparing the entire post and decorating it.!!!



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Posted: 13 years ago
Leesan
Ideally we don't get proposals from same gotra..they bring proposals after verifying gotras...
I had heard about some scientific reason behind it..can't remember now..😳

Even if one knows the person well or not, everyone becomes nervous...😆
Marriage here is not only with the guy or girl..it's about joining of two families too..
So to adjust with new set of people having different practices, ideologies (mostly) makes everyone nervous...😆

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