mohan is too 'irresponsible' for megha

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

my loathing for megha is increasing everyday...she is actually so indifferent to mohan and his feelings...i dont understand wat is hapening...this same megha was crying wen mohan was admitted in hospital...this same megha said "mein isse nahi kho sakti"...

today wen addu was being rude and mean with mohan...they did not focus on megha's expression...she was standing there as if nothing untoward is hapening...this is the same mohan who went all lengths to save her izzat from pratiek...this is the same guy who fulfilled his promise of proving amar's innocence...and today wen he was humiliated by her own kid son...she was no way affected...

my love for nanhi grows everyday...she is the only one who noticed every bit of hurt that mohan felt be it from papaji, addu or manav...she is the one who constantly encouraged mohan to befriend addu...

i really wish mohan finds another girl in his life...only thing is that i wud hate to see nanhi and mohan separate...

and calling mohan irresponsible...
this irresponsible mohan saved her from stampede during shivratri enduring wat cud hv been a fatal injury...only to get indifferent looks from megha...

this irresponsible mohan knocked the door of vyas house to find the truth about amar before publishing the article...it was the so called responsible megha and her family who shut the door on his face...

this irresponsible mohan found ingenious ways to alert her of pratiek's intentions...and it was megha who behaved dumb all thru...

this irresponsible mohan did not support the mrs. bhatnagar wala natak...he even manipulated the situation so he cud go to the farmhouse alone...and it was so called responsible megha who decided to bring her entire family to the farmhouse...

this irresponsible mohan used his tactics to befriend addu in the farmhouse and made him enact his role as his son...if now again addu starts behaving rudely with mohan it cannot be mohan's fault...

this irresponsible mohan although was always in love with megha...stood beside her hearing her amar mantra...always being patient and letting her express her pain...in bhopal house he stood silent witness to her pain...it was megha who although being a widowed bahu of vyas family ran all the way to stop mohan from leaving the mohalla...

only wen megha started gving all kinds of signals that even she feels something for him...did he start his campaign of patao-ing megha...his process maybe a little kiddish but his heart was always in the right place...

i can go on and on...but who cares...it seems megha is determined to behave as if mohan's love is an inconvenience in her life and so she must escape by marrying tom, dick or harry...she calls mohan irresponsible who cant take care of her children...but she is ready to trust a stranger who will look after her kids...

if this is the true megha...then mohan is well off widout her and i hope he realises that soon...

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sitamma

@sitamma

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Posted: 13 years ago

really the same feelings i had since today morning...and i have posted in the thread http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3045740

but, dear, we are only making ourselves unhappy by bashing out at megha..i realised it today evening..so let us just watch how mohan responds to it..i hope they don't butcher his character also.

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Koms9

@Koms9

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Posted: 13 years ago

I posted similar topic too, I am upset beyond words

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3047170

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

let me add here the letter issue...

the letter which megha believes is written by amar...after reading the letter she now believes that noone can love her more than amar...and so she readily agrees to remarriage...irony as long as amar was alive till the two years since he died megha was not aware of him being the "greatest' lover on earth till the letter was found...

and instantly all her mantras that noone can replace amar in her life went out of the window by agreeing to marry a stranger...

another irony is that she can decipher true love from the words of a letter but fails to see the same in mohan's eyes...more because the letter is actually reflection of how mohan feels for megha...

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 13 years ago

very well written post. wonderfully explained. loved reading your post. Mohan has had enough of insult, humiliation and rejection from Vyas family including Megha. Nanhi being a child is much more matured, understanding and empathetic.

Megha was so rude with her statement. she has totally forgotten all that Mohan has done for him ( all the points were very rightly stated by you in your post). It's so sad watching Mohan being shattered every time.

as they say, " You can't buy love but have to pay for it" same is happening with Mohan.

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sravaran

@sravaran

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Posted: 13 years ago

I know that it'll take infinite patience and a huge leap of faith, but I think we should give her some more(!) time. She is clearly in denial.

The only plausible explanation for her current behavior is that she's doing all this deliberately just to dissuade Mohan from getting any closer to her. Her method is wrong, but I think her intent is just to keep him away. Mostly, for Indu's sake. And the only way she can get herself to do all this is to convince herself that she has no feelings for Mohan.

I wish we were let into her thoughts a bit more. For instance, tomorrow, after scarring Mohan so much, it would be soothing to know that she is equally hurt. That would help.

Those were my two cents. Did not mean to intrude, but could not resist either. Ciao.

Edited by knownturk - 13 years ago

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: knownturk
I know that it'll take infinite patience and a huge leap of faith, but I think we should give her some more(!) time. She is clearly in denial.
The only plausible explanation for her current behavior is that she's doing all this deliberately just to dissuade Mohan from getting any closer to her. Her method is wrong, but I think her intent is just to keep him away. Mostly, for Indu's sake. And the only way she can get herself to do all this is to convince herself that she has no feelings for Mohan.
I wish we were let into her thoughts a bit more. For instance, tomorrow, after scarring Mohan so much, it would be soothing to know that she is equally hurt. That would help.
Those were my two cents. Did not mean to intrude, but could not resist either. Ciao.

y do u feel u r intruding...this is a public forum and my threads r also public...anyone is welcome to agree or oppose my view...i am someone who will welcome both sides of the coin...we all r viewers of same show and every viewer can have her own perspective...

wat u gv as explanation is plausible of course...but pushing someone away who is madly in love with her is not a wise thing to do that too widout explanations...love is not something that is a commodity for sacrifice for so called greater good...
i always feel being honest in relationship is the best thing...i mean if indu is the reason then megha can easily say that to mohan that indu does not approve this relationship...then mohan can solve that problem in his own way...i guess this shud be done rather than inventing tactics to hurt mohan to keep him away...

psychologically speaking hurting someone can hv an adverse effect for life...mohan can lose trust on love for the rest of his life and may never allow anyone near him...considering megha will be the second girl in his life who is rejecting his love...

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Nidaal

About the logic that maybe she is only doing it to push Mohan away from her, well then why does she look and sound cold and emotionless even when she is thinking about Mohan. Her voice or face shows no remorse, sadness, hurt when she thinks aloud abt him even in private.

She doesn't need to PRETEND being unconcerned in private does she? Then why doesn't her sorrow at what she is doing comes across even when she is alone and pondering over Mohan?

She is being BRUTAL and RUTHLESS with regards to Mohan both in Private and Public. Period.

i think for this i shud blame akanksha's lack of emoting skills...i dunno wat other explanation is there...because if this is not the reason then as u said megha is brutal and ruthless...

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poojabi

@poojabi

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Posted: 13 years ago

she should not talk about maturity,being a widow and mother of two son how mature it is to pretend to be wife of someone after facing serious harassment from her boss just a day before,she was jumping like a kid in excitement,very eager to polish her "acting talent".life is not a drama stage megha.

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sravaran

@sravaran

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@adoremevirgo: I used the word intrude because I'm a relative stranger in this forum. I have known forums where people are not as welcoming, so thank you 😊

@Nidaal and @adoremevirgo: Megha is neither cruel and ruthless nor is she unfeeling. In fact, I think she is feeling a lot more than she can handle and that's the reason for her recent behaviour. At the heart of everything that's happening around her, there is a deep-seated fear. She does not have it in her to go through another relationship that might not be good for the man she loves so much. Try as she might, she cannot let go of this dread that she might be unlucky and jinxed for the men who love her.

She needs a strong dose of courage. And courage is not merely the absence of fear; it is the ability to overcome fear. Hopefully Dr. DoLittle will help her in this.

The angst of the character is understandable, but @adoremevirgo you're right when you blame Aakanksha's lack of emoting skills. She is unable to get across that angst effectively. Her dialogues and her expressions are a big let down. Its surprising because she is capable of so much more, but nowadays, she's not doing anything apart from standing and blinking. If her character is going through so much inner turmoil, then it does not show anywhere. In focusing on Mohan's excitement and family interactions, the CVs have forgotten to add some layers to Megha who is right now in an unenviable situation. It does not seem as though they are thinking of her at all.

Tonight should be decisive and I really hope we get to see a side of her that shows us how unhappy she is to hurt him. Fingers crossed!

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