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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dnt agree...first ho chahe 100th time ho..he attempted to rape a girl..tht is the biggest insult to a woman's life and mind..am not talking of honour here coz its sumthng the society has made up..rape is not abt lust only..its abt power,most of the times..look am in a position where i can degrade u.and u cnt do anything..tht is what it is..
and what gaji did,is not pardonable..and i dont like how u put it,frankly,wid due respect..tht anyways she is dead and punishing him wnt bring her back..punishment dsnt undo any crime..it dsnt mean tht we let criminals go scotfree..his family will suffer,yes..bt ds tht mean tht the poor girl who got killed and almost raped is forgotten??y??
i ahve always been a gaji fan..so its not bias or anything..bt sia is not wrong if she want him punished..i do agree abt nobody doing anything when amba almost got killed..tht was quite convenient..bt this..no way does gaji deserve any mercy..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

i dnt agree...first ho chahe 100th time ho..he attempted to rape a girl..tht is the biggest insult to a woman's life and mind..am not talking of honour here coz its sumthng the society has made up..rape is not abt lust only..its abt power,most of the times..look am in a position where i can degrade u.and u cnt do anything..tht is what it is..

and what gaji did,is not pardonable..and i dont like how u put it,frankly,wid due respect..tht anyways she is dead and punishing him wnt bring her back..punishment dsnt undo any crime..it dsnt mean tht we let criminals go scotfree..his family will suffer,yes..bt ds tht mean tht the poor girl who got killed and almost raped is forgotten??y??
i ahve always been a gaji fan..so its not bias or anything..bt sia is not wrong if she want him punished..i do agree abt nobody doing anything when amba almost got killed..tht was quite convenient..bt this..no way does gaji deserve any mercy..

ya that s wt i said before itself-this is my view and most ppl wont agree to it.m not saying that he should not be punished.his truth should be brought in front of the family and he should be disgraced in such a way that he cant show his face to any1 in the family.what i am saying is that an opportunity should be given to every1 to change themselves.from a mother s point of view ammaji is not wrong.no mother will want to see her son behind bars if she can help it.but ofcourse ammaji herself will never punish her sons whatever they do.that is wrong.but punishment is not the end of every crime.a person should be made to realise that wt he did was wrong.
Edited by harshajkarthik - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

i dnt agree...first ho chahe 100th time ho..he attempted to rape a girl..tht is the biggest insult to a woman's life and mind..am not talking of honour here coz its sumthng the society has made up..rape is not abt lust only..its abt power,most of the times..look am in a position where i can degrade u.and u cnt do anything..tht is what it is..

and what gaji did,is not pardonable..and i dont like how u put it,frankly,wid due respect..tht anyways she is dead and punishing him wnt bring her back..punishment dsnt undo any crime..it dsnt mean tht we let criminals go scotfree..his family will suffer,yes..bt ds tht mean tht the poor girl who got killed and almost raped is forgotten??y??
i ahve always been a gaji fan..so its not bias or anything..bt sia is not wrong if she want him punished..i do agree abt nobody doing anything when amba almost got killed..tht was quite convenient..bt this..no way does gaji deserve any mercy..

dear anu lagta hume ek aur srkluvr mil gaye hai par aab iss NAIDL forum par.šŸ˜‰šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
and yaar i can't believe that anybody can go 2 such level in defending the bad & evil!!😲😲😲
@harshaajkarthik don't attack any actor prsnlly.if u don't like natasha & like meghana its fine but don't degrade her.and i'd also seen dat video & didn't find anything wrong wid her accent. or u've sumthing prsnl wid natasha dats why r u calling her names. and just bcoz u don't like natasha it doesn't mean u shud support evil ckt.
and abt saying that any mother wud've done like ammaji including u den i say if u can't b gud human being den u can't b a gud mother 2. and by giving gajji 1 more chance den i think all the 1st time terrorists & rapists shud also b given a chance. wow yaar kya mindset hai.šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ˜²šŸ˜²šŸ¤¢šŸ¤¢šŸ¤¢
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hmmm.its true that there are no bad children only bad parents.the reason why people like gajji do wt they do is because they know that ammaji ll get them out of the mess come wt may.the problem is not with gajji its with ammaji.when your son does something wrong like this its the mother s duty to correct her children.she has failed as a mother.but i still repeat that most mothers would do wt she did.ofcourse the other mothers would probably ensure that their sons dont repeat the mistake.sitting over here and discussing about hypothetical characters like gajji and sia is one thing and facing it in your real life is something else alltogether.
ps no i don have anything personal against natasha,infact i havn even met her.i dint even know that a character by that name exists until few weeks ago when i started watching laado.its just that i find her highly annoying and irritating.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshajkarthik

hmmm.its true that there are no bad children only bad parents.the reason why people like gajji do wt they do is because they know that ammaji ll get them out of the mess come wt may.the problem is not with gajji its with ammaji.when your son does something wrong like this its the mother s duty to correct her children.she has failed as a mother.but i still repeat that most mothers would do wt she did.ofcourse the other mothers would probably ensure that their sons dont repeat the mistake.sitting over here and discussing about hypothetical characters like gajji and sia is one thing and facing it in your real life is something else alltogether.

ps no i don have anything personal against natasha,infact i havn even met her.i dint even know that a character by that name exists until few weeks ago when i started watching laado.its just that i find her highly annoying and irritating.

i don't think dat its always bad parenting but yes in dis show ammaji really done such thing.sumtimes parents try everything 2 give dem gud sanskars etc alongwid gud educn but still they choose 2 go on wrong path. so more or less it always depends on ur prsnl choice of bcuming gud or bad. but i m sure of 1 thing dat if i m 2 face such situation in my life like ammaji as she knew abt gaji's crime & most probably abt his intentions 2 den i"ll never ever try 2 protect such prsn.though i agree i may've sum soft corner 4 him/her but trying 2 protect no way!! its really disgusting as indierctly i"ll b ruining his/her life only.🤢🤢
and may b these r hypothetical ckts but still supporting evil even in fiction/reel life is not human. only wats ur reaction 2 even the reel life situations make out ur prsnality in freal life 2 sumextent also!!
u say u find sia annoying & irritating but majority of da ppl not. i don't like sum actors 2 but ya
ar it doesn't mean u start calling her names. so plz try 2 refrain from such comments.i m simply giving u advice.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

i don't think dat its always bad parenting but yes in dis show ammaji really done such thing.sumtimes parents try everything 2 give dem gud sanskars etc alongwid gud educn but still they choose 2 go on wrong path. so more or less it always depends on ur prsnl choice of bcuming gud or bad. but i m sure of 1 thing dat if i m 2 face such situation in my life like ammaji as she knew abt gaji's crime & most probably abt his intentions 2 den i"ll never ever try 2 protect such prsn.though i agree i may've sum soft corner 4 him/her but trying 2 protect no way!! its really disgusting as indierctly i"ll b ruining his/her life only.🤢🤢

and may b these r hypothetical ckts but still supporting evil even in fiction/reel life is not human. only wats ur reaction 2 even the reel life situations make out ur prsnality in freal life 2 sumextent also!!
u say u find sia annoying & irritating but majority of da ppl not. i don't like sum actors 2 but ya
ar it doesn't mean u start calling her names. so plz try 2 refrain from such comments.i m simply giving u advice.

its true that ppl choose their own lives of becoming good or bad but a parent plays a very important role in the upbringing of their children.i m not supporting evil,ofcourse wt gajji did was very wrong.putting him behind bars will not ensure that he ll change once he is out of jail.for all u know he may become all the more bad n commit greater crimes.the solution does not lie in punishing the crime but in correcting the criminal.this is what i have been trying to say from the begining,guess my message has been diluted.but never the less i hope i have made myself clear
and yes thanks for your advice.just got carried away.........but then sometimes it just so happens that u dislike some for no rhyme or reason that one becomes aggressive in putting across their view points.and yes i apologise to all the people who are offended by my post and my explicit reaction towards some actors in the show.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshajkarthik

see that ammaji sia and raghav s interview on headlines today!she and her stupid accent in which she talks english!!duh!!i mean natasha if u havnt already noticed!!



Viewbie's note:

I respect that you don't like Natasha, but attacking an actress for her accent isn't a very tactful thing to do. People don't control the way they pronounce stuff. It depends on where they were raised. I'm not saying that you have to like her accent - you're entitled to your opinion. Try not to insult her so blatantly though.


Edited by sarah1024 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarah1024



Viewbie's note:

I respect that you don't like Natasha, but attacking an actress for her accent isn't a very tactful thing to do. People don't control the way they pronounce stuff. It depends on where they were raised. I'm not saying that you have to like her accent - you're entitled to your opinion. Try not to insult her so blatantly though.


i have already apologized for it right?!now could v please let the matter rest??!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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looks like i have offended a lot of people by my post.i would like to make myself clear once and for all.when i say i'm happy for ammaji,neither am i justifying what gajji did nor am i supporting evil character.its not easy for a mother to sit back and watch her son being sent to jail.all i am saying is that sending a person who has committed a crime to jail is not the only way to punish him.when such an action is taken not only is his life ruined for the time spent in jail but his entire life is ruined.he is not the only one goin to be effected by his crime.his family is also involved.what he said to sia about a women s place is only in the kitchen is very wrong.the sole purpose of punishment should be such that the person in question should repent for his crime and he should rectify himself.as i have already said earlier,there are no bad children only bad parents.when a person does somethimg as lowly as to try to rape a girl at gun point the mother in ammaji has failed.what has lead gajji to do this is the firm faith in his mother that whatever he does she ll be there to get him out of the mess.even if ammaji does not send him to jail she should punish him herself.if i were in ammaji s shoes i would have probably chucked gajji out of the house and removed him from the will.i think for a person like gajji this punishment is more appropriate than sending him to jail.ofcourse if he even thinks of repeating this crime i would[had i been his mother] be the first one to send him to jail!
as i said,this is entierly my point of view.agreeing or disagreeing is purely a personal choice!
Edited by harshajkarthik - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshajkarthik

hmmm.its true that there are no bad children only bad parents.the reason why people like gajji do wt they do is because they know that ammaji ll get them out of the mess come wt may.the problem is not with gajji its with ammaji.when your son does something wrong like this its the mother s duty to correct her children.she has failed as a mother.but i still repeat that most mothers would do wt she did.ofcourse the other mothers would probably ensure that their sons dont repeat the mistake.sitting over here and discussing about hypothetical characters like gajji and sia is one thing and facing it in your real life is something else alltogether.

ps no i don have anything personal against natasha,infact i havn even met her.i dint even know that a character by that name exists until few weeks ago when i started watching laado.its just that i find her highly annoying and irritating.

I think i disagree. Very good humans and parents can also have very bad children. It all depends on your friends circle(classmates, colleagues, family friends, cousins, distant relatives with whom you have friendship) apart from immediate family whether you become bad or good as you grow up. The friends circle can instigate you to do bad things just to remain in their group. That is where youngsters learn to smoke, drink, take drugs, bunk school and college etc-it is the friend circle especially after the age of 13-14 till 30-35 which influence a person more than family. Very few people remain true to family values in this age and are influenced by friends circle. I trully appreciate such people who do not succumb to peer and friends circle pressure.

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