The Compro Marraige - Page 2

On anyday LIFE is a more serious business than marriage. VV has done the right thing to go ahead and live life the way it will make him happy than suffer in silence in a compromised marriage. He is responsible for his own happiness, he is in no way responsible for the happiness of others like BB, D, IMV yaa XYZ.

I don't understand, why everyone notices only negative side of imv:…

How do you all find sabina's love good for v v. Sabina will not be able to face her dark past & will her haunting past not rip out the complete virani family? Will she be able to stand up to vv in his hard times? I don't think so, she is mentally weak person. She can't face imv's cruel strategy."Love strengthens the man, not weakens".Sabina's love is not strength of vv. she is his weakness while devki is his strength..IMV had selected D as a perfect partner for vv who will not left vv alone in any circumstances. She is strong person with mind & heart.& she has good sense of business &she can takes his business to another level.Only D can change:at present she is the biggest weakness of imv & she is the only person, who can change the direction of imv's life.The evil smile of IMV is a blessing for D. it show how much he likes him.D is the best as dinlaw & wife, IMV can cross any limit's to ensure D remains in vaibhav's life.one cannot broke out of all his relations for the sake of one. I firmly stood behind my point that if vv may have got in to an affair with any girl of a good family then imv may support his love. but Sabina is a different case her dark image can destroy his business & family.

Cp & Sabina: CP & Sabina are basically of opp. characters. CP left the ashram the day she came to know that IMV is charu's husband, while sabina is always there making"special appearance" in VD life.why she is trying to be great? Vd will succeed to have strong bond, if Sabina stays out of their life.( kya zaroorat thi fake hubby intro.. karne ki & love guru ma banne ki).People said D is trying to be "Mahaan."...There is no need for D to be mahaan as she is dof "CP" uski ma ke sanskar hai,jo vv ko bandhan se mukt kiya koi aur hota toh kabhi na karta.VV is not a perfect match for D as he always takes advantage of her emotions. He can't take his decisions properly.When he feel low, then he always looks for support.(D ne kaha aur saboo aunty ke peechu bhaga.totally idiot person with out mind).he has not achieved any big deal in business. He fails even to carry his dreamproject "MUMBAIFLOATS" while DEVKI has successfully proved herself as a businesswomen in "SWING AIR" & Film production" even after losses suffered due to actions of "IMV" .IMV will make all efforts to ensure that she does not follow her mother's way towards life & accordingly he will support her life in all possible roles as a father, fin law or mentor to guide D properly. IMV is a businessman & family person. He loves his family & protects them from every problems. May be some time he wld be wrong but he can't hurt his family.(use zindagi ka tazurba hai ki waqt per koi saath nahi deta ) He wants his legacy to be carried further by his son's but they are failing.( ek painting mein &😆ek saboo aunty ke pechu & v ind bhaad mein jaye😆 )Therefore, he selected a perfect girl for his son, which can be a good supporter business as well as to family.
In my view, imv is a"anti hero" who can prove his wrong decisions as the right ones as no one else can.

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

ok I completely relate to you taking offense about messing around with the sanctity of marriage.. much as ppl may say IMV played with marriage.. no he did not.. he wanted D as his BAHU.. it was on his son to say NO I DONT WANAA BE MARRIED.. TO ANYONE.. period.. chalo compro kiya kiya.. like PK said.. ab uska ISHTEHAR dogey kya.. telling the family itself is blasphemous.. now telling outsiders.. might as well tell viraj.. and publish it.. W*F.. there is something called PERSONAL LIFE.. wonder where that has gone. .D has been extremely stupid.. V has no spine what so ever.. and the jokers.. have upheld this extreme stupidity ie making a mockery of their own life and are running home with it like its some trophy.. I side with IMV.. is he the only one who sees this as an ultimate stupidity.. NOPE SIR.. WE DO TOO...

my big grouse Kools apart from what you said is WHY SHOW LOVE LIKE THIS... yuckksss I am beyond disgusted.. first V, then S and now D.. does love make people lose pride.. self-respect.. i love makes you a loser.. if love makes you blind towards practicality.. towards the greater benefit.. towards other's sentiments.. LOVE of such kinds may as well not exist.. and NO I dont think IMV cares to force VD to love each other.. he just wont tolerate ultimate non-sensical behavior like this.. jeopardizing his empire and domesticity.. he has accountability..

Look at V.. when he told D the truth.. in the begining he said IF I had to marry someone you are the best choice coz my parents love you.. SO WHAT CHANGED.. Have you given a thought if your parents wld love Sabina.. or does it not matter.. then accept and proclaim it.. whats this farcical behavior.. grow a pair.. tell your dad.. I am moving out.. giving up all and living with my love.. to hell with everything.. if not.. snap out and live a life of dignity not wagging your tail behind a fantasy while your STILL MARRIED WIFE sits at home..

coming to the WIFE.. uff she is annoying me.. I once said she has CPs pride.. I guess the maker's are paying me back.. I defo take back tht statement.. she has just as much pride or lack of it.. as much as V or S in the matter.. innocence is one thing.. being downright stupid with no self respect is another.. how dare she force that disrepute actor down her in laws throat.. she has no right to force her opinion on anyone.. if Charu said I dont agree.. she has the right.. as a matriarch.. you signed that paper.. now pack the bags and LEAVE.. what is with calling your hubby.. and asking abt his ex lovers whereabout NOT YOUR PLACE.. gaaahhh.. and why for the love of BB has she NOT TOLD that old man yet.. so that he finds out from some news report.. or from a court summon.. and dies on the spot.. why show young minds to be suck fickle minded morons once in love.. I OBJECT.. I have been in relationships but that hasnt distracted my focus one bit..

and Finally Sabina.. mess that she already made.. I disagree Sowmya.. she has not held her pride either.. not wanting to give herself the benefit of a better life.. by herself or with someone else is rather self-depricating.. whats with chand lamho ke pyar ke liye sari zindagi guzaar dungi.. if thts how everyone lived.. there wont be any genesis😆 and now conveniently VO says she is incommunicado.. W*F if tht is true.. does she have no accountability towards the mess she made in VOs life (not tht he is any less accountable).. so now what she decides to head to timbaktoo while the miserable husband wife wreck not just their life but other's too in this endless crusade with no sight of destination...

and how do I blame the youngsters if the adults are being so juvenile.. Charu has cowered from her responsibilities in accord with the self-imposed guilt .. this woman is supposed to be humane who takes old people's cause.. does she not fathom tht love affair wld cost a lot of ppl in terms of loss in business.. where is her benevolence now.. is she tht blinded by her love for her son and D.. Baa less said the better.. I have concluded she is an idealistic fool.. Sid time to watch your back.. and one more thing.. last time D stood up for Sid's cause.. why did ppl aka jokers not support it as much as they are support her now.. is Sid's cause or love less worthy.. heck his affair with art has more intensity than Vs chand lamhe.. I am hoping she hears one from Rajvi again if her madness.. somehow involves Rajvi's mess..😆 I had loved how Rajvi had told D during the sid track.. only you are smart and intelligent. .the rest have presumably no brains of their own😆

kaka came across as the sane man in his rant to V.. then why does he feel compelled to dig his self respect more by folding hands to a VO.. why is he being a party to V advertising his marital status.. without giving him a tight slap across the face.. why is he still sitting pretty with V when D has hit troubled waters..

NONE of these people have half as much of convictions really.. NONE of them.. coz they hardly have a MIND to think abt WHAT THEY STAND FOR.. OR WANT.. each of them have myopic vision.. and the only man who is willing to fight for the global benefit.. is a thorn to people's eyes..😆

my verdict.. makers if you WANT to show IMV as villain.. you have to give us a HERO.. coz as I see it.. none of the other jokers have it in them.. to even stand up for their own cause.. forget fight IMV.. even now if IMV is so-called EXPOSED.. what will happen.. none of the losers have the guts to stand up to him.. who will? V with his wimpy self.. or D with her resolute idiocy.. in this whole stupid affair.. IMV and now Viraj hold my interest for being passionate for a cause.. and in theory using their mind.. the rest are just being shallow idealists.. who love big talks.. but are ghastly projected as incompetent to follow up..

so in the kingdom of inanities galore.. the DARK LORD stand rather tall and apart.. the day ONE CHARACTER comes close to his convictions.. we shall talk😉

Sonali, I agree with most of your post. @ the underlined parts, I believe one has the right to be happy if one has the courage to fight for it. Greater benefit of who, one must first be happy with themselves. Sacrificing your own happiness for the greater benefit is foolishness. But it's wise if you know it's an uphill battle and don't have the courage or the will to face it. Sabina understood the practical side of things, she knew she couldn't let her mom's story come out, she knew how difficult it would be for herself and for Vaibhav if they got together. So she stepped back. She didn't do it so Devki could marry Vaibhav, she did it because she couldn't. She understood her limits and she took a decision. That was the end of it, her part, atleast in the beginning before all this recent mess. She didn't ask Vaibhav to promise that he would marry Devki, she didn't ask Devki to marry into the Virani family or anything of the sort. She took a decision to let go and she stepped back, not getting involved in it further. That's where Devki irritates me. She has absolute right to divorce Vaibhav, she should in fact. He has played her fabulously. But this encouraging to go after Sabina and extracting promises from all and sundry that they should bring back Sabina and accept her; that's crossing the limits. She's not naive anymore, she's foolish. Less said about Vaibhav the better.

Again about Sabina, since we agree about V, D and IMV and everybody else. I think it's her choice to remain unmarried with memories if she so chooses. I would be aghast if she had married somebody on rebound and still be immersed in V's memories or do a compromise marriage like V did. It's fine to feel she will not love anyone the way she loves V right now, after all it's not been that long since she fell in love and the wounds have been reopened. That may change with time and distance. Even if it doesn't, if she has the courage to live alone, then it's her choice too. Or adopt a child and become a family. Many, many people do that. Either way, it's her choice what she wishes to do with her life. She's not answerable to anybody, not even family because she doesn't have one. And she seems wise enough to take decisions to suit her. I would say the same for Vaibhav if he did not marry Devki. There's a reason why spouses are called life partners and not parents or siblings or the rest of the family.

About wrecking a marriage, I'm not sure you're talking about Vicky or VD. Either way, all people involved in these marriages (except Vicky's wife who we know nothing about) are all adults and supposedly mature, intelligent people. And Vicky should be more concerned about his marriage, why should Sabina be held responsible if Vicky took a conscious decision to pose as her husband. And less said about VD, the better. It's disgusting the way both have behaved. V in his craziness on seeing Sabina again and Devki in her craziness on pleasing V. Sabina's fault is in doing the fake marriage act, I agree. But wrecking other people's marriages, not so much.

Originally posted by: janavii

I dont accept this. He never loved anyone except himself. even not D. May be CP. but defo not D. If he loved, he would not have sent her to jail for a business contract. Now, also he doesn't care a penny for D. He hates BB, so he arranged V's marriage with D, so that he can take his revenge. Now, he hates S, so he wanted D to stay in her marriage. Nothing more than that. I don't see love for D anywhere. If he would at least cared her as CP's daughter, the he would not have said " Mere saath rahoge tho kamyabi paogi. Nahi tho barbad kar daloonga". Do u say this is love for his DIL.

He never placed D above the money or above his ego. He wanted his ego to win, so he wanted D to be his bahu rather S. About money, he never wanted her to win and return his money. He wanted always her to be debited for him. Its not his money he lost in movie flop. Its BB's money, isn't it? So, IMV is a damn egoist who never thinks more than himself, his revenge and his profit.

IMV doesn't hate Sabina. If he did, he would have published the story about her mom immediately after Vaibhav's marriage. He's doing it now because that's the only way he thinks is left to him to ensure Sabina doesn't return and to make sure Devki remains indebted to him coz like she said herself, she can't sleep peacefully remaining indebted to the Viranis. He did say" Mere saath rahoge tho kamyabi paogi. Nahi tho barbad kar daloonga" and isn't he doing everything to make sure she continues to stay as his bahu. Don't you think the best way to ruin BB is to tell him that VD had a compromise marriage and Devki is now divorcing V and encouraging him to go back to his past love. And the money is not BB's money. This is Vaibhav's and in turn, Virani money that Devki has lost due to the film. In the beginning, I do believe it was revenge for BB that got Devki as his bahu. But it's not revenge when he bent the rules he himself made in his personal and professional life for Devki, that's affection for CP's daughter and for Devki herself. It's not revenge now when everybody including devki herself are bent upon this new fad and only IMV is doing anything to prevent Devki from leaving, it's his affection for Devki.

Originally posted by: sree.m

On anyday LIFE is a more serious business than marriage. VV has done the right thing to go ahead and live life the way it will make him happy than suffer in silence in a compromised marriage. He is responsible for his own happiness, he is in no way responsible for the happiness of others like BB, D, IMV yaa XYZ.

This is true as long as he had not married Devki. Fake or real, marriage is a marriage. Sabina didn't marry, did she? Why did Vaibhav then? Since he did marry, he is answerable to Devki and BB, and his family who is also losing the bahu. If he hadn't married at all, then no issues. And no, IMV is not responsible for Vaibhav agreeing to marriage. He is an adult, a supposedly intelligent businessman. IMV did his best to make sure Sabina was out of V's life and presented Devki as the best choice, but Vaibhav himself agreed to it. And he himself is responsible for his choices, nobody else.

@Sowmya: completely AGREE with your inputs.. the thing is.. I have always believed in individuality.. heck I supported CPs stand of leaving her domesticity.. in wake of feeling incomplete.. something she needed to do for herself.. I am a strong believer in you gotta be at peace to spread it around.. having said that BOTH Vaibhav and Devki lack CPs courage.. they DONT seem to have that conviction where society be damned.. my family be damned.. their expectations be damned.. my individuality needs me more right now..

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

This is true as long as he had not married Devki. Fake or real, marriage is a marriage. Sabina didn't marry, did she? Why did Vaibhav then? Since he did marry, he is answerable to Devki and BB, and his family who is also losing the bahu. If he hadn't married at all, then no issues. And no, IMV is not responsible for Vaibhav agreeing to marriage. He is an adult, a supposedly intelligent businessman. IMV did his best to make sure Sabina was out of V's life and presented Devki as the best choice, but Vaibhav himself agreed to it. And he himself is responsible for his choices, nobody else.

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

This is true as long as he had not married Devki. Fake or real, marriage is a marriage. Sabina didn't marry, did she? Why did Vaibhav then? Since he did marry, he is answerable to Devki and BB, and his family who is also losing the bahu. If he hadn't married at all, then no issues. And no, IMV is not responsible for Vaibhav agreeing to marriage. He is an adult, a supposedly intelligent businessman. IMV did his best to make sure Sabina was out of V's life and presented Devki as the best choice, but Vaibhav himself agreed to it. And he himself is responsible for his choices, nobody else.

It is beyond my comprehencsion what you mean the first line in bold, it is true because he is married to D in a compromise.
Life is beyond marriage, it exists before and after marriage, if any of the partner in a marriage dies, life still goes on it doesnt stop, so why live like dead, in a compromised marriage , when you have only one life to live. Getting married is not the end of the world. If he agreed to marry then he has the right to change his decision later.
@green bold exactly, that is the reason why he has the right to choice, IMV should just mind his own affairs with CP and Charu and stop bothering VV regarding S.

And no, IMV is not responsible for Vaibhav agreeing to marriage. .