Why should VV fall in love with D?

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Amit

@anupditto

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Posted: 14 years ago

Why should VV fall in love with D? He has to be stupid, a complete moron to fall in love with his business rival. It's like sleeping with enemy. Rivals outside but still lovers in home might sound great (wow what a great couple, not letting professional rivalry spill over personal relationship, what a mature handling of the situation) but is completely a bookish and cinematic concept developed by pseudo intellectuals.

The whole concept is hilarious. I love as a spouse at home and hurt as a competitor outside.

Once I step in home I become a spouse and love and then once I step out I become a competitor and hurt. What a joke and foolishness regarded as mature handling by so called relationship counselors.

Human beings are not robots which can switch between different modes and is just a wishful thinking and escaping from bitter truths. You don't hurt the professional career of those who you love for your professional career. And so if you are professional rivals in domains like business where it's a zero sum game (one gain and success is other's loss and failure) and an animal kingdom (eat else get eaten), love at domestic front is just a lie, a faade.

D maintains she would never want loss of Vaibhav group or bad of Vaibhav group. Sure she wouldn't as she is not their enemy out on a mission to destroy their business. But if her business hurts their business she is not going to pull back and will let their business be hurt. If her business interest would need her to defeat their business she would do so, may be reluctantly but definitely. And if she hesitates, Baa will make her do it for sure. D might help VV in his business in ordinary situations but every time her business falls into competition with his business she would want her business to win and that too by competing with his business and not because Vaibhav group steps out. She won't even let Vaibhav group to step out because of two reasons. One, she wouldn't want her in laws to scarify for her. Two, she would want to know if she is deserving and good enough to win in presence of strong competitors and that her victory is not because the strong competitors pulled out.

There's so much hype around IMV that people don't get that defeat of Vaibhav group is as much a defeat of VV as IMV. And as a person running BB's business, D is as much a competitor of VV as of IMV if not more. So victory of BB's business over Vaibhav group is victory of D over not just IMV but equally over VV too. When D surpasses and outshines IMV, she also surpasses and outshines VV equally. It's pretty obvious that defeat of Vaibhav group at the hands of BB's business run by D would be as humiliating for VV as it would be for IMV if not more and why not?

Virani family especially Baa doesn't like IMV that's fine but why do they want D to do better than VV as D doing better than IMV also means her doing better than VV.

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Amit

@anupditto

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Posted: 14 years ago

Don't they realise what they are wishing for? They wish for D's professional success more than VV's. They wish that D be professionally more successful than VV, get ahead of VV. Why would they want that? To teach a lesson to IMV? They want to crush IMV's ego but it would be a greater humiliation and shame for VV.

Because BB's business winning over Vaibhav group's business would establish beyond doubt and certify that not just IMV but both IMV and VV are less capable than D. D is better, greater, bigger, superior and more capable while not just IMV but both IMV and VV are relatively lesser, smaller, inferior and less capable.

For IMV, it will only crush the ego of the businessman in him. As a FIL there's no shame in being lesser than DIL. Older generation feels better to see younger generation better them as it's a sign of progress.

For VV though, it will not only crush the ego of the businessman in him but might also put his husband-ego to shame. People believing in new age pro-equalist definition of manhood and husband might feel there is no shame or dishonor in being lesser than wife and that this has nothing to do with manhood and does not emasculate you but people believing in original, orthodox definition of manhood and husband might feel otherwise.

May be VV will have mixed feelings, happy for and proud of D but at the same time sad for and ashamed of self.

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shivani9

@shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

Very apt description of the entire situation Anup, I agree with everything u said, there is no way u can swtich mode like maichines rivals outside home and sweet loving couple at home, I dont think no sesible couple wud ever want such a relationship 2 live with, coz tht is only gg 2 give trbls n no true joy, u can wrk in tandem and b happy than wrk against each other, its such a simple concept even a layman wud know and its surprising the so called intelligentia of MB world are so lamely ignorant abt

Edited by ladybird9 - 14 years ago

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Amit

@anupditto

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Posted: 14 years ago

But it's fiction so anything's possible😆

VV already fallen for D though he doesn't realise. He called D's father as his FIL in public which was nice to see. He offered to step aside from the tender for aviation and is ready to harm his business to see D's business prosper. This however was a favor offered and would have meant only small economic loss and not the reputation, honor and stature of Vaibhav group. He like most others take it as given that if both BBE (now as CPE) and VG stays in bid VG would win. The fact that VG can lose to CPE hasn't ever crossed anyone's mind except I guess IMV. Would be interesting to see what happens when CPE wins even in presence of VG. That would hurt the reputation and stature of VG badly and might even hurt VV's ego hard. Would be interesting to see how he reacts. Or may be he has become a selfless, completely egoless achha bachcha and would still rejoice D's victory over him.

D too seems to respect VV a lot but only as a human being (don't think she regards him much as a businessman like she respects IMV) and perhaps also has romantic inclination. But I won't say she loves him. Though she told that she doesn't want him to make sacrifice for sake of her business and that she wouldn't want mind losing to VG as she would be losing to her own in laws and she sees her in laws victory (over her) also as her own, what she didn't say explicitly but is obvious is this.

She wouldn't mind defeating VG either and in which case she expects that her husband and in laws too shouldn't mind losing to her as they would be losing to his own wife and their own DIL and see her victory (over them) as their own. Seems like a fair deal. Just that CPE' won't get hit as badly as VG would from the loss in terms of reputation. Loss would be far more humiliating and damaging for VG than it would be CPE.

Also the dynamics of husband wife relationship works a bit differently than other relationships. Whereas a wife generally doesn't feel shame in losing to her husband vice-versa is mostly not true even in this day and age. Globally a husband mostly even today feels it a shame and dishonor to lose to his wife, a complete disgrace, an emasculating experience.

You may say bad, bad, bad. They shouldn't feel that way. MCPs. Shame that they still live in dark ages. If it's not a disgrace for wife why should it be for husband? We are all equal after all. Everything's so true but nothing will change no matter how strong an argument and how convincing a logic is given. It's a feeling, an emotion and not a rational, intellectual response. So while the intellect of these husbands surely gets convinced by the logics and arguments dished out to them, deep down this emotion and the ego still stays, sometimes without their own knowledge. That's the way they are wired. Some handle and manage it better than others.

But then it's TV and life has the license to be ideal and fairytale here though with innumerable twists and turn😛.

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shivani9

@shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

well u can show a vampire sucking blood in fiction but they really cant kill the naturality of a story in the name of fiction i hate tht...if they have 2 really claim its a fiction then IMV's objection to VV mariied To Sabina is not valid these ppl r so stupid...they kill the naturality of a story thnaks their inefficiency...i wish i was in this industry..i wud have failed all these stupidities coming out in public in the name of cheapp entertainment😳😆.therez no real entertainment avlb...in the industry 😛i am yet 2 watch the episode..will catch up soon and also read u lovely post afte ri finish watching ..

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Amit

@anupditto

Beginner

Posted: 14 years ago

One way out is to take a nap and imagine and visualise what you want to see. That won't be real and so is the serial!!

But I got what the problem is, which is very natural. One, it annoys and puzzles why they don't see what's so obvious to us. Two, its saddening and frightening to see them glorifying what we feel is so wrong, stupidity shown as intelligence, selfish acts depicted as selfless acts, portraying what so obviously negative as positive. Its disappointing to see they haven't paid attention to details and have missed the finer points. Seems they haven't put enough effort and brains or perhaps they have twisted brains. Irks us to go their and correct the things.

However we can relax, it's good there are differences, we have annoying agents, we have laughing stocks and we also have few at same frequencies as ours in certain aspects. That's makes the world colorful so lets enjoy. We can enjoy the anguish, frustation, dissappointment, hilarious stupidity, annoying stupidity, our own stupidity.

And may be watch more of SAB TV instead of dramas

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