Originally posted by: nycgal
Okay..a bit late to the party here but here you go...
I will start with - Purvir are very wrong not to tell S the WHOLE truth. All of us here have been advocating for S to know the entire truth from the beginning. That is the right thing to do. Everyone deserves to know the truth. Had it been the old Purvir, the truth would have been out long, long back.
No one here is happy seeing VPS playing ghar ghar with 2 wives. Wrong on so many levels. Most of us here want Purvi to walk out. We also happen to not support Purvir behaving like this with S- giving her false hopes and complicating the matter further.
Now, with that out of the way let's talk about why S is not everyone's favourite.
- Not every member of the audience will like every character in a show. It is sometimes as simple and petty as that.
- VPS had given us this beautiful picture of S whenever he used to talk about her with so much love and respect. The S we see falls very, very short of the person that VPS projected to us.
- S has been more on wifey mode proactively than mommy mode since she came back. There does not even seem to be a balance. She does things for her kids but only after they ask her to. Ever since she has come back she has not even once wanted to sleep with her kids cuddling them. I do not understand HOW the kids are at fault here? There is something called nature vs nurture. Being a birth mother does not trump everything if you can't give time to your kids.
- S is justified to feel angry about the past 5 years but those 5 years should have also taught her humility, being more appreciative of smaller things in life as life can be so uncertain. She will obviously be hurt that he married again. BUT her reasons are selfish with any regard for her family's happiness. She resents him moving on after 5 years all because of the promises of loving each other forever? She wanted her family to wallow in pity and grief for 5 years and do the same for the rest of their lives just because she suffered? She is implying that he moved on while she suffered. Ummm how would he know??
Unpopular opinion here. I had discussed this with a fellow member and posted it too once I think.
It is ok if VPS feels he needs to sacrifice his love to be with S so that his kids can have their biological mom back and they can be family. Purvi and he have to go their separate ways. Heartbreaking but as I mentioned earlier no one here is fond of this triangle.