Why you don't like Sakshi? - Page 3

I simply don't like her because uske aane ke baad se the writer have taken a 360 u turn with Purvir's characterization they are making them behave in a way they would never! If the characters remained intact and into their bodies even after her return I would have never mind her being in the show... I don't know about others but I watch a show for the characters... they are making the viewers connect with Sakshi and sympathize with her but in the process I started sensing them use Purvir's characters and putting them at stake for it I will obviously start disliking her! Mera clear hai koi ho show mein na ho I don't care, Let my characters behave in a way they will normally don't make it complicated and unreal!

Originally posted by: reshmi1968

He will also do the same if purvi disappears and then may be fall for another molki that is teh difference some people lives with the memories of their wife or husband some moves one no one is at fault but then please do not give heavy weight dialogues

Maybe he will, maybe he won't. Molki's are still people. Yes, some people move on some don't. As I said, there's nothing wrong with that. I just didn't agree with the point that you said Vir was shallow for moving on after five years.

Regarding heavy dialogues, I was just giving my opinion, as you did yours. Not everyone will have the same point of view. So lets agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Hum bhi ussi din ka intezaar hai kabse...par yeh jaati hi nahi😕

On a more serious note, the kids are very young. Manas has no memory of Sakshi at all. Purvi, on the other hand, gave them love and acceptance at time when their own father was distant with them. Of course they love her more.

Sakshi's priority is Virendra, not the children. And that is very evident in the way she sticks to Vir. She wants to feed and be fed the first bite from Vir, but has not been shown to feed the children?

She was oh-so-eager to have a second honeymoon with Vir and had no qualms of leaving the kids with Purvi, whom she thought was a servant.

I'm not sure what efforts of her are you referring to?

It depends on the kid some get close to their step mom some how small they are they do not want to replace their mom

She gave priority did not she go with the kids and ask purvi to be the artist to virendra thinking kids are requesting though the kids just acted under their fathers direction I can give you other examples but do not want to start fan war. what is wrong in giving husband priority husbands come first then the kids

If she leaves then serial wil come to an end

Purvi virendra starts their conjugal life have their own kid the end or May be after having her own child purvi becomes an ugly step mom and the drama continues

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Hum bhi ussi din ka intezaar hai kabse...par yeh jaati hi nahi😕

On a more serious note, the kids are very young. Manas has no memory of Sakshi at all. Purvi, on the other hand, gave them love and acceptance at time when their own father was distant with them. Of course they love her more.

Sakshi's priority is Virendra, not the children. And that is very evident in the way she sticks to Vir. She wants to feed and be fed the first bite from Vir, but has not been shown to feed the children?

She was oh-so-eager to have a second honeymoon with Vir and had no qualms of leaving the kids with Purvi, whom she thought was a servant.

I'm not sure what efforts of her are you referring to?

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Whatever efforts Sakshi is putting now is just plain wrong.The upcoming drama of killing herself is psychotic. Nobody can(should not) force another person to love them.

A happy marriage and family is not a coincidence. Everyone involved has the onus to make it work. In Sakshi's case, she was missing for a good chunk of time, esp the formative years of the kids. That mother-child bond is not easy to establish, sometimes cannot be established at all unfortunately. Reg. her relationship with Vir, as said above, she cannot force him to like her. If she had an self-respect, she would first think of getting out of the marriage and not forcefully woo him.

Secondly, there is mountain of difference in Vir's imagination and the real Sakshi chars. Perhaps, if she was like his imagination, she would not have a hard time fitting back in to her family.

Overall, Sakshi's char has not been fleshed properly in the story. This coupled with very poor scripting, acting (lack of it) and being a thorn for PurVir etc contributes to viewers not liking her char.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

This is hilarious...matlab I'm at a loss for words🤣🤣🤣

Mukhi ka slang mein humara hosh udgayee

Okay..a bit late to the party here but here you go...

I will start with - Purvir are very wrong not to tell S the WHOLE truth. All of us here have been advocating for S to know the entire truth from the beginning. That is the right thing to do. Everyone deserves to know the truth. Had it been the old Purvir, the truth would have been out long, long back.

No one here is happy seeing VPS playing ghar ghar with 2 wives. Wrong on so many levels. Most of us here want Purvi to walk out. We also happen to not support Purvir behaving like this with S- giving her false hopes and complicating the matter further.

Now, with that out of the way let's talk about why S is not everyone's favourite.

• Not every member of the audience will like every character in a show. It is sometimes as simple and petty as that.
• VPS had given us this beautiful picture of S whenever he used to talk about her with so much love and respect. The S we see falls very, very short of the person that VPS projected to us.
• S has been more on wifey mode proactively than mommy mode since she came back. There does not even seem to be a balance. She does things for her kids but only after they ask her to. Ever since she has come back she has not even once wanted to sleep with her kids cuddling them. I do not understand HOW the kids are at fault here? There is something called nature vs nurture. Being a birth mother does not trump everything if you can't give time to your kids.
• S is justified to feel angry about the past 5 years but those 5 years should have also taught her humility, being more appreciative of smaller things in life as life can be so uncertain. She will obviously be hurt that he married again. BUT her reasons are selfish with any regard for her family's happiness. She resents him moving on after 5 years all because of the promises of loving each other forever? She wanted her family to wallow in pity and grief for 5 years and do the same for the rest of their lives just because she suffered? She is implying that he moved on while she suffered. Ummm how would he know??

Unpopular opinion here. I had discussed this with a fellow member and posted it too once I think.

It is ok if VPS feels he needs to sacrifice his love to be with S so that his kids can have their biological mom back and they can be family. Purvi and he have to go their separate ways. Heartbreaking but as I mentioned earlier no one here is fond of this triangle.

Originally posted by: nycgal

Okay..a bit late to the party here but here you go...

I will start with - Purvir are very wrong not to tell S the WHOLE truth. All of us here have been advocating for S to know the entire truth from the beginning. That is the right thing to do. Everyone deserves to know the truth. Had it been the old Purvir, the truth would have been out long, long back.

No one here is happy seeing VPS playing ghar ghar with 2 wives. Wrong on so many levels. Most of us here want Purvi to walk out. We also happen to not support Purvir behaving like this with S- giving her false hopes and complicating the matter further.

Now, with that out of the way let's talk about why S is not everyone's favourite.

• Not every member of the audience will like every character in a show. It is sometimes as simple and petty as that.
• VPS had given us this beautiful picture of S whenever he used to talk about her with so much love and respect. The S we see falls very, very short of the person that VPS projected to us.
• S has been more on wifey mode proactively than mommy mode since she came back. There does not even seem to be a balance. She does things for her kids but only after they ask her to. Ever since she has come back she has not even once wanted to sleep with her kids cuddling them. I do not understand HOW the kids are at fault here? There is something called nature vs nurture. Being a birth mother does not trump everything if you can't give time to your kids.
• S is justified to feel angry about the past 5 years but those 5 years should have also taught her humility, being more appreciative of smaller things in life as life can be so uncertain. She will obviously be hurt that he married again. BUT her reasons are selfish with any regard for her family's happiness. She resents him moving on after 5 years all because of the promises of loving each other forever? She wanted her family to wallow in pity and grief for 5 years and do the same for the rest of their lives just because she suffered? She is implying that he moved on while she suffered. Ummm how would he know??

Unpopular opinion here. I had discussed this with a fellow member and posted it too once I think.

It is ok if VPS feels he needs to sacrifice his love to be with S so that his kids can have their biological mom back and they can be family. Purvi and he have to go their separate ways. Heartbreaking but as I mentioned earlier no one here is fond of this triangle.

@bold lol it's actually made me thinking about this scenario

I mean this is not bad actually it's more logical

Well purvi is really young she has her whole life left she can move on if she wants and viru will back to his own life it's not like he is uncomfortable with sakshi 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Ha but ye scenario soch ke mere ko rona agaya so I will pass this option🙃🙃🙃🙃 Thank God this is itv esa kuch nai hoga yaha 😗😗😗😗

Originally posted by: nycgal

Okay..a bit late to the party here but here you go...

I will start with - Purvir are very wrong not to tell S the WHOLE truth. All of us here have been advocating for S to know the entire truth from the beginning. That is the right thing to do. Everyone deserves to know the truth. Had it been the old Purvir, the truth would have been out long, long back.

No one here is happy seeing VPS playing ghar ghar with 2 wives. Wrong on so many levels. Most of us here want Purvi to walk out. We also happen to not support Purvir behaving like this with S- giving her false hopes and complicating the matter further.

Now, with that out of the way let's talk about why S is not everyone's favourite.

• Not every member of the audience will like every character in a show. It is sometimes as simple and petty as that.
• VPS had given us this beautiful picture of S whenever he used to talk about her with so much love and respect. The S we see falls very, very short of the person that VPS projected to us.
• S has been more on wifey mode proactively than mommy mode since she came back. There does not even seem to be a balance. She does things for her kids but only after they ask her to. Ever since she has come back she has not even once wanted to sleep with her kids cuddling them. I do not understand HOW the kids are at fault here? There is something called nature vs nurture. Being a birth mother does not trump everything if you can't give time to your kids.
• S is justified to feel angry about the past 5 years but those 5 years should have also taught her humility, being more appreciative of smaller things in life as life can be so uncertain. She will obviously be hurt that he married again. BUT her reasons are selfish with any regard for her family's happiness. She resents him moving on after 5 years all because of the promises of loving each other forever? She wanted her family to wallow in pity and grief for 5 years and do the same for the rest of their lives just because she suffered? She is implying that he moved on while she suffered. Ummm how would he know??

Unpopular opinion here. I had discussed this with a fellow member and posted it too once I think.

It is ok if VPS feels he needs to sacrifice his love to be with S so that his kids can have their biological mom back and they can be family. Purvi and he have to go their separate ways. Heartbreaking but as I mentioned earlier no one here is fond of this triangle.

I agree with your views yaar.

It's all about how sakshi take the bitter truth of vps love with purvi.

In reality any man or woman can't mourn over death for ages..it's not that they r yarning for physical relationship it's that life must go on..we can't keep on live in past ..Kids ll growup get married...vps need companion...he can't be orphan..he who know sakshi ll come back after death

Okie she came .any aadmi ll see purvi in one side selfless sacrificing for family and on other end sakshi behaves agressive..accept any wife ll react same..But instead of confronting when lot of chances proved vps has changed outlook to purvi..

By commiting Sucide you can't force a guy to change his opinion .it's not love..it's called agreesive attitude

Vps bagwan nayee to have no emotion..if a question of purvi gayaab for five years he ll stick to next molkki..that's not story to tell about reality....it's about vps and Purvi unique love story

Originally posted by: Nezuko

@bold lol it's actually made me thinking about this scenario

I mean this is not bad actually it's more logical

Well purvi is really young she has her whole life left she can move on if she wants and viru will back to his own life it's not like he is uncomfortable with sakshi 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Ha but ye scenario soch ke mere ko rona agaya so I will pass this option🙃🙃🙃🙃 Thank God this is itv esa kuch nai hoga yaha 😗😗😗😗

As I said, heartbreaking for us! The points you say make sense.

I just am so pakkao-ed with VPS playing ghar ghar with 2 biwiyaan and being comfy with both.

Just come to a resolution already!

It's not like I hate her but I don't like her either...not bcoz she came in between purvir....when she made her entry I watched with open mind but wht I saw is sakshi is a person who is baised on the status of ppl around her I am sorry but a mukhiyayni or any human should not have that....purvi is a molkki that's true but when she knows that purvi never wanted it to be then she should think that before tagging her that..atleast she can have that sense but she never did that..and again saying this is my house yes indeed it's her house but degrading a girl who just wants to save someone's life is bad...she should have told it in a cool manner too...but she dint...it's her ego that purvi took the decision that radhika will stay back....

And again now she is feeling bad that mukhi took purvi side but what did she do that mukhi will take her side...she believed creeps like vikas and aarti... can understand aarti is her friend but it's a simple logic radhika came to meet mukhi she can say that once she meets mukhi she will send radhika back...but she gave up saying doosro ke ghar ka mamla hai....