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Originally posted by: an12345678

I can understand that. What you plan to do after your BA, pursue literature or take a detour?

for now i intend to pursue literature..........but u never know................i might change my mind and do my masters in a totally different field like journalism...........though the chances for this r pretty low.........i really like my subject 😊 .however after my masters i intend to give my exams and join the services.....hopefully foreign service..............one of my teachers has...it will be fun😊

Bugs ............. your "How I met my Husband ." was cute ..........

@ranjana - lolzzz.....tht was a nice peice of story u hav shared! ragging is gud till it is healthy and bad when it turns ugly!!during my first day ..luckily i never faced any ragging as at tht time sumthing drastic happened and ragging was banned .....all police officials used to be there arnd colleges to make sure no ragging is taking place and if they caught anyone ....then tht person wud b suspended!! so i got saved 😆😆

Ranjna............i dont like teachers who like to be chummy with there students...................if the teachers r good at what they do and r paid to do i.e. teach and at the same time maintain a friendly environment thats great ............................ but they r some who do everything else in the world except teach😡 i have one.........she gives tips on how to properly apply lipsticks......saw her stopping her car in the middle of the road and applying lipstick😆...........talk about her colg days.....................julie garwood..........boys............jokes that she thinks are funny but they arent ( i was watching the movie 40 yer old virgin with my mother and i told her that he's a forty year old virgin and i m soon going to be a thiry year old virgin hahaha).....................first time we had her.........she was supposed to teach us a novel............we only did one....no two pgs with her in the class and did the rest of the novel by our selves.....luckiliy it wasnt a very difficult read so v managed well there but she also gave us this critical book as a side reading.....we were suppsoed to present on chapters form that book..and we hardly understood what the writer was saying in it...i read my chapter 4-5 times b4 i grasped some of what the writer was trying to say......we told the name of that book to another teacher and her eyes literally popped out.........she didnt say anything but it was obvious that she thought the book was too advance 4 r level............we ended up reading that book in the class that semester instead of the novel😡............and r juniors.... unfortunatley she'll be teaching them this really beautiful play.....its a pretty difficult one as well...we were lucky cos v got a good teacher and she worked really hard with us and we loved the play bcos we understood it so well..........but the juniors....i m feeling sorry for them already....

as for the ragging part😆 i was luckier thn most i suppose😊 in my colg ragging has never gone byond throwing water or glitter on first years or making marks on their faces with lipstick...making them dance etc....the first part happened to me but luckily i wasnt forced to dance....off course officially ragging is banned in the colg but the student council can only go so far in stopping it

this year it was really funny.........a couple of my friends were mistaken for being first years...one of them M was like yeah we r first year (she was happy that she looked younger tghan she actually was😆)and at the smae time the other one was trying to tell them thatt v r final year students....they didnt believe ehr until they saw the id cards....but on the same day M was mistaken for being a teacher🤣 poor M😆😆😆

in some of the other colgz ragginng is far worse..........heard that in another col they actually removed a girls eyebrows with hair removing cream😲 i hope it was just a rumor

my brother lives in ahostel cos his colg is in another city.........some of the story that he has to tell.....cold showers in freezing weather........there was this ground on the campus where rain water with rain water that was at least a foot deep and first years were forced to swim in it *yuck*....when the seniors declared ragging to b e officially over......some 3-4 months after colg had begun......they gave a treat to the first years...with the seniors footing the bill............my brother and other first years in his hostel block bought alot of coke and juices and buscuit...lays etc..............they ate as much as they could and took the rest to their rooms... at night the seniors asked all the first years to gather in one of the rooms given to first years...my brother lived in it with two other studernts.........and the seniors forced them to eat eacha dn everything that was left😆 the poor kids were filled to capacity as it was and still😆😆😆 when the forced party was over..my brother an his room mates stayed up til 3 in the morn...cleaning up the mess...the room floor was..well.....juices and coke ahd been spilled on it and on top was a layer of lays and well u cna imagine the mess that was created..............off course this un sab ne gin gin kar badle liye hain..apne juniors se😈

Very interesting experience Arwen. I guess some people refuse to grow up. Yeah ragging stopped inmy college after our batch so we were that last ones to suffer. And it was very bad what I mentiond here is a small part of it. But never mind I think it is alright now.

Originally posted by: Bugger

lol dawn ..........my story is actually very filmy and full of co-incidences!! but ......ya ...we were destined to b togetehr ....... 😊

i met him when i was in first yr of my college .......we were classmates .......and as we shared the same surnames our roll no.s were juss aage peeche, we were grouped together for sum project ...and bcame gud frends!!

even during the exams ....as he used to sit behind me ......we used to cheat a lot ......or i muss say help each oethr during teh exams!!😆

we were not best of frends but used to enjoy each otehr's company as our group of frends were different we never actually went out togeehr anywhere except once or twice!! but ya ...we used spend to lot of time togethr at a bus stop ..waiting ofr our respective buses!!😉😆

we actually strted to lose touch when we reached our final yr ...as in final yr ......we both hav taken diff subjects .....so we landed not only in different class but also diff floors!! 😭

in final yr i strted taking my car .....and he used to take his.. ....so no bus stop meeting also.......once in a blue moon we used to see each otehr and say hi ......and then actually we strted sensing sum attraction towards each oethr.....but obviously we were big time ghochus ...so didnt speak anything .....beyond hi how r u ......😆...and time passed!!

after college we completly lost touch ............untill one day ....say afer 2 yrs ..i met him in one of my cuzins wedding !! we talked bout our lives .....and thts all ....still cudnt say anything else ......it was just aakhon hi aankho mein thts all!!😳😳😳

after tht also we met for several otehr functions as we were of teh same caste so our social group was same and our attraction towards each oethr was juss growing day by day.............but still we never confessed!!

then.......i dunno ....after few months........in my house .....my marriage talks strted .....sum rishta came for me ......and my dad met the guy n everything was fixed ..only i and the guy had to meet ...........i was very very confused ....but as we never confessed anything i cudnt tell bout him to my parents either .........but decided to meet the guy...when i came to know his name is rajiv(my husband's name)

so i had the doubt and wished tht it was him .........went for teh meeting and no points for guessing tht it was rajiv only .....who sent the rishta .........tht moment when i saw him there........wat i felt i still cant explain .....😳😳😳.....everyhing was fixed there n then ..............i got engaged 4 dayz later .......and got married last yr ....on 1st feb ...........

u wont blive .....my frends still think i was going around wit him since coll ....😆😆..and never told them .........it was very tuff o make them blive tht aisa kuch nahi tha and i didnt hide anything frm them!!

so this was it .......God has been very kind to me ....tht without any mehnat ...he has given my luv and happinness !!😊

Originally posted by: Bugger

@ranju - thx a ton yaar 😊😊

@ranju - wat u saying ......?? u got married in 1942 o wat?? lolzzzzzz jokes apart ......so urs was the arranged one ! well even in my family ...love marriages r quite rare ...they r mostly arranged ones only.........mine was a complete co-incidence ....tht he was of my caste and everything juss fell into place!! according to my parents it was stil a arranged one 😆😆

Yeah our was an arranged marriage after decades of people witnessing love marriages our was an arranged one and I told you that it was arranged to the extent I didnt know anything about Atul thats the name of my husband. by the way I was same age as you when I got married and that was quite a while ago (not revealing age for sure) lol

@ Arwen: IFS, wow, cool... please do try for that. All the best. 😃

@ Ranjana: Your story is a sweet one, something to boast about... 😊

My friend's elder sister got married without meeting the guy... guy's elder brother and his wife came over, did a ceremony and the marriage happened. And she is the happiest among all the sisters, according to my friend.