something to ponder upon(must read article) - Page 3

Originally posted by: SHAMSHIR-MJHT

100% true article.....Thanx 4 sharing. Poor , so called "Single" Celebs😭 B'coz Fans R very interested in their personal life.Some fans forget 1 most important thing......Celebs is also simple human being, and Acting is only their profession.....their personal life is different from their professional life. Fans should respect that their personal relationship.

yeh but monaya 7 hain to hmko kia gham😆

I read this in the DMG forum as well. The article really makes a lot of sense! As I'd once said, I really feel bad for the actors! I remember Sam's dialogue to Nupur in MJHT, "Yeh saare actors Nupur Bhushan ki tarah sarak par golguppe nahi kha sakte." Undoubtedly, they're doing very well in life and I'm sure they're happy and all, nonetheless, somewhere I do feel bad that they can't enjoy these little things in life. Something as small as enjoying street food makes life just so much more worth it! All I can say is, I hope one day, fans understand that we should only be concerned with what actors do 'on-screen'. Their off-screen life is none of our business!! Who they're friends with, who they date, who they hate, who they broke up with is none of our concern! Not only fans, Media should also be a bit sensitive. These people are after all humans! Give them a break!! Anyways, come what may, end of the day I love all these actors for what they do and not what they are and nothing can change this fact.

i agree..... at the end of the dey, apart frm being actors, they are simple human beings... dey too wud get irritated n frustrated if they get linked up for no reason inspite of clarifying.... it shd be our duty to distinguish between reel n real life... n v need to respect their personal life n give them space.....

Originally posted by: ght_sajan

Thanks guys for the wonderful replies'..sorry can't hit the like button due to some technical error''..i am glad most of you'll identify with the plight of the actors'..the article is about fans unnecessary intrusion in an actor's personal life'.but a line that particularly caught my fancy was this''No wrong action against the actor was tolerated, so much so that the makers of the show could never explore the character beyond what they had initially set for him'' this is a problem which mostly tv stars face'..the fear of being typecast wherein fans are unable to accept any change thus restricting the groW*H of the character''.we have seen this happen in mjht itself where gunjan mayank etc were criticized for not behaving the way their fans wanted them to'''.thus forcing the creatives to stop experimenting eventually restricting the groW*H of the character'''it's not only limited to this now the fans also want to see monaya & arti together always''''we need to distinguish between fiction & reality & not let our unreasonable demands hamper their professional aspirations' I think that somewhere down the line we have started looking at them as monaya arti & not mohit & sanaya arjun & rati''..thus proving a treat to their individuality 'we can't throw a fit saying that we would like to see a particular actor with this particular actress only''.we as fans should trust their instincts & accept them gracefully'''offcourse it's not wrong to hope & pray for these couples to come together but we should be gracious enough to accept it if it doesn't happen .......

sonu i totally agree with ur point after mjht its now turn to face reality as well being fan we should demand them together but seriously speaking our love should not be hurdle for their career as well ya it will be treat to watch our fav together once again if they also want to come back together but our so much expectation or i can say obsession can also become one of obstacle for their professional life u said right we should at least trust their capabilities and potential to do something new bcz if we fans won't support and trust them then who else can ,now we should start to get them back with new avatar new char not as sajan and mayur but individually mohit ,sanaya ,arjun and rati who proved themselves in mjht now new char will show us their new flavor of their talent ,sometimes heart always win over our mind be we can't avoid this fact that they also want to do something new why should not give them chance why we always expect them only as sajan or mayur yes they did outstanding job in it but then their talent should be wasted if they only known for sajan and mayur ,i also want to see our fav in such a role which can give them satisfaction that yes this role i wanted to do

thnx for sharing!

@aashi: well said dear.........i hope our mjht actors hit the jackpot with their next show as well......i want to see them very successful.......i definately want to see monaya work in films eventually beacuse they are cutout for bigger things in life............

Originally posted by: ght_sajan

@aashi: well said dear.........i hope our mjht actors hit the jackpot with their next show as well......i want to see them very successful.......i definately want to see monaya work in films eventually beacuse they are cutout for bigger things in life............

sonu thats what i also want they also want to work on big screen and they have that talent then why not i also want monaya to do any movie of yashraj as they want may be they said it for fun but i seriously want they will work in any beautiful movie which give them deserving name and fame and they will fulfill their dream doing extra ordinary roles in movies and also in shows bcz only shows r not life end but there is lot of things for any talented ppl so i want them to do any kind of superb work in any show in any movie and also if they want then in play as well bcz it will give them more and more confidence with superb experience 😳

Okay this article is about KSG and Gurmeet ...so why to bring other actors ...

I persoanlly think we cannot blame fans only .. blame goes to media as well actors equally 33.33333 % each... I have nothing to say about KSG because i have no respect for him after what he did to his wife sharadha. I am glad Shradha is doing well with her career and has got good surrounding.

BUT i respect Gurmeet a lot because of his honesty and i am so happy him and his GF are together and going stronger day by day ...Good Luck to them ..minority of fans are bashing gurmeet to be deblinaa than its not gurmeeet problem at all n he shud ignore it and enjoy his life with his GF😊

hey you are right that after packup actors are also comes in normal person category . i am also an crazy arti fan and want to see arti together and at a particular instant i also done the same thing but now i understand everything that hamare chahne se kuch nahi hota sabki apni personal life hai.

jo hona hoga wahi hoga


i want to see arti in real and real life

but i am not obsessed about it anymore. let time deside what is good for our favorite one . i am going to except which comes in front of me.