something to ponder upon(must read article) - Page 2

Thank you guys please don't assume about Arjun.😃 I'll believe he's single until he doesnt say so himself.😃 and until then I can keep hoping.
But seriously people need to relax. I remember around the time kumkum was on air when Hussain married Tina people based her for no reason besides the fact that they wanted him to marry juhi. Same goes for manoj (kzk) his wife was bashed horribly because people wanted him with Tina parekh and she was already married at that time so I have no idea what expectations they had. But I definitely feel sorry for gurmeet and debina and even drishti.

Originally posted by: asmeen

i Can see many similarities btw guru n ajun both r comitted in real life but fans love their onscreen pair poor girls drashti n rati r made victims ithout der fault i hope ppl stop linking rati with arjun se has her own life

@Asmen...u also bashing arjun becaz he cleared many times he is not commited to anyone...so plz dont talk about Arjun personal life...yeah Guru commited to Debolina but dont spread rumors about Arjun...its can cause fight on forum....😊

sonu seriously very brooding article , this is in every case true they only gave two example but we have many of ya i agree being fan ppl have their own curiosity to know abt their fav 's personal life but we can't be judgemental i saw many actors for example angad who did hide his personal life his wife and kid from fans so that his own professional life would not get effected when he started his career i mean they have their love for their fans which made them to do this and they always try to hide only the reason they don't want to hurt their fav but on the other hand its so difficult when fan's such a obsession become pain for them feeling bad for those actor and actress bcz in the end when they disclosed their lives infront of all fans they got abused by their own fans and those fans judged their partners saying they r perfect for them or not that's seriously sad thing in this industry 😔

thank u for article

i had read those comments about debina...how fans stoop low on comments....when gurmeet is already committed fans should respect that his relationship is since long when even not they were in industry.....point is its something people know since long.......it was always open ...where recent fan base forgot that point.......
forgot in real & reel.......

about AB his mentioning again & again telling same thing he is not than also he was bashed he is not than also he is being.......till he himself doesn't come out people also respect that much.......

on one more thing this is not new for tv actors if it comes from fan side just bcoz they small medium not in large base.....

for bollywood actors its from media side on each moves of them media had an eagle eye..........they speculate cross all the lines.
just they had have large point that media can't be pin pointed on this.....but fans r bcoz they declared as crazzy ........where as if same is media does it thats declared as publicity & news.

for tv actors its small thing no medium where media won't even interested in doing such stuff bcoz half the junta even don't know that properly........ its from fans side.
i'm not defending fans but point is its all 1st started from media side with those bolly actors .......
now its only for tv actors.....that small base.......
ok i think my whole point from this article has gone somewhere else......when people know what real they know it they should differ it.

thnxxxx for sharing dear

excuse me gure ki girl firend hai.

100% true article.....Thanx 4 sharing. Poor , so called "Single" Celebs😭 B'coz Fans R very interested in their personal life.Some fans forget 1 most important thing......Celebs is also simple human being, and Acting is only their profession.....their personal life is different from their professional life. Fans should respect that their personal relationship.

I Love artical's which r written by Niha.. True n sensible..
All i can say..
Its ok to like/Love/admire/appriciate an actor/actress but obsession which a fan should not do coz End of d day its only goona harm ur mental state n embarrase d actor. (if anyway dey can read ur reviews)
Ex- When an actor get to read a viewers view like-"I love him"I appriciate his work " He's an excellent actor"-Dat surely made him happy,a comment as such-"He/she needs to improve"-dat 'd make him/her aware abt der shortcomings.
But when its about der personal life,Its my opinion dat one should not intefear..Dey r actors who works for themselves 1st n den for viewers.(Dey works coz dey want to earn money)
But we r noone to tell me whom dey should be wid n what dey needs to do in der life.
Yeah from many source we get to know what dey r doing,Whom dey r dating,/Divorceing,Dancing,singing,talking wid but we dont get to know what r d real reason behind all this.We just know what media provides n dat too d same media ppl who r bashing a person today,prasing d same some tomorrow.So we actually shouldnt go into all this & Just coz IF is a public forum,We r having some ppl wid whom our thoughts match so dat we can go n on wid dem abt those actors(whom we dont like/We like to see dem d way we want),bash dem here,der n center,criticize dem for those things what dey r not responsible (Who knows d truth anyway)

I-E-Karan singh grover-as Niha said in d artical-Der were no girl who didnt like KSG as Armaan but now those same fans thas turnned into ultimate bashers coz of his personal life,Dey almost bring his personal life in every discussion abt him,nomatter what..Its not coz dey r now fan of some other actor,Its coz dey were so obsessed wid him,Dey were so much into his personal life,dey couldnt handel d truth abt him n so der love trunned into hate n now dey bash him for anything n everything,no matter if he did d ":thing" or not.& d other fans who r dat much obsessed wid him k dey have acept him wid his fault n go to any extent to defence him.
Abt Gurmeet-Its different but yet somewhere similler.PPL dont like his pair wid Debina n dats y all this fuss .Im among those ppl who dont like D pair but yet i dont think for dat i need to go to his blog n write bad things abt his GF.
Everyone has different perspective looking @ things.
Discussing things in "fun"(Fun which doesnt hurt other ppl's sentiment) manner abt whom u dislike wid ur friends its ok..but One shouldn't go overboard n say it to d celeb what dey need to do n what not..or what dey did its correct n what not..

A pair we like today,If dey r dating oviously we'd be happy but if dey break up tomorrow n most of d time Media says "Oh!So now he's wid her"?" doesnt mean ppl have to start saying(Fans/Non-Fans) "See told u dey were fake"Or he/she r charecterless.
We dont know d real reason behind it,Media provide us those news what happen infront of camera or if by chance dey see d person wid some other one..But dey demselves dont know d actual reason.All dey need is "gossip" n we r d one who take d gossip seriously n make it d ultimate reality for us..As we just-
"Love to see,hear,Know,Understand what we want to see,hear,Know,Understand"

^^(Biggest problem of fans )

We should leave d actors wid der personal life wid der Reel,Real partnner choices n everything else//N should appriciate or criticise dem for der work or what r truly visible infront of our eyes bit nothing else..

Like/Love/Dislike/Hate-All has der different meanings.n everyone has der own choices,If we cant like a person we can keep dat feelings to ourselves instead of making it public,which can embarrase d actors demselves or can lead to a "bashing war" among different groups of fans"


OKey Im out lol..It was way too long n plz dont qoute my post for any reason.
Thanks

Originally posted by: MayUr-ArTi_fan

Who is Arjun committed to? I get the drashti-guru thing but the ArTi one makes no sense. Who's Arjun committed to? 😕

he's committed to .............me😛...................🤣

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yeah agree with this article- dreaming about ur favs is not bad- rumors.gossips & link ups are a part & parcel of celeb life- it's the masala dose for page3 coverage too
some actors like the publicity it gets- example - rakhi sawant
but not all actors are the same- some are emotional from inside & after a while cheap shots at celebs get on to them & they have every right to express their hurt/ disapproval

speaking for arjun's bashing that had been done on his blog for some obnoxious pics/ links up extra was completely wrong- we need to differentiate btw reel & real

dreaming abt something u wish would happen is not wrong but it turns wrong when u try to impose ur wish upon the actors
what has to be - will be- they is no point whatsoever in abusing someone we don't even know personally