::Nupur's behaviour : Is that really justified??:: - Page 2

Originally posted by: gina87

okay parizie I am too lazy (I am sure you are shocked🤣) to type this stuff again so I am gonna copy and paste what I wrote this morning in the other post😎....at first I was kinda scared to write anything here but then I thought what the heck...lets go for it 😉 🤣

DISCLAIMER: this post it not bashing Nupur....actually my opinion has more to do with any girl in this situation, be it Nupur, Gunjan or anyone else 😳

In my opinion parizie, what Nupur is doing is not right at all!.... she chose to give in to a blackmailer rather than have faith in herself, the guy she loves, her sister or her friends....making a choice to give in to a bad situation doesn make anyone "perfect "or "mahan", it makes them weak....so the only way now everything can be better is if she realizes that the choice she made is wrong and the only way to deal with this situation is to have faith in her own strength and the people who love her and fight for her and their life....and when I say life I dont mean only being alive because what kind of a life are they living right now....she needs to give them all a chance to get their real life back!

Someone asked me what I would do if I were in that situation and to tell the truth I will do exactly what I am asking Nupur to do....I would fight for my life and the life of my family....because giving in to a blackmailer is letting him win.....that means that you let him succeed in destroying your life and your family because you didn think you, your husband, sister or friends could deal with this guy....

the whole concept of what they are showing right now is crap because if you take it as a domestic abuse victim then I can definitely understand why she would stay....because it is very common of the women stuck in this situation to believe that they love this guy and they dont want to leave him....but when it comes to blackmail, the only way to deal with it is to fight that person....giving in will definitely make the situation worse....

if I were mayank I would be pissed big time because this shows that nupur chose to not have faith in his ability to protect her, himself and their life together....I definitely sympathise with her situation but calling it a right choice and calling her perfect for making this choice is definitely wrong....last time when Sayank were threatened by the politician, She chose to fight him and the situation and that was the right choice....but this is wrong on a lot of levels....

as a woman myself, I would never support another woman giving in to physical abuse of that level for any reason...women are much stronger and smarter than that and we all should chose to fight if we ever find ourself in similar situation...

Originally posted by: mjhtrocks2010

didn't watch the episode.

loved the mohit part dear.

He is always a distraction for us. 😆

Originally posted by: gina87

parizie I thought that crying baby was so darn adorable so I stole it for my siggie dubba 😎 🤣....smile?? 😡😕😆...

Originally posted by: -Sajjal-

hey dear...

Well i can't say if it is justified or not because everyone has a different view on it, for some it is while for others .....its as if she is just a look a like of nupur because her behavior shows no such resemblance to the nupur we know and love.

Even I'm confused today when she had mayank protecting, she still chose to stay quiet, but why? so i feel as if there's more that the CV's are not showing but then again.....who knows? I feel as if theres some big secret to be revealed....or maybe NOT? who knows...

I guess we just have to wait and watch. But i will definitely say the nupur i saw today is NOT the nupur who taught us how to stand up for yourself.

Wonderful post!

Cheers

Originally posted by: -MohitzPari-

OMGGG BJ...GOSHH u cant believe....I was looking at ur post in shruti's b'day thread and was blushing.....was missing old days...and I saw ur reply here then.......
where the hell r u girl??? u better be here in december!! OMGGG that was so unmanageable....cant we have a topic or sentence without him??🤣.....everything starts with him and ends with him...u should see the precap.....and be prepare to see the heaven😍

Originally posted by: -Ragini-

OH FREAK 🤣 RESSSSS

Originally posted by: -MohitzPari-

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by god.....should I change the title or what??🤣
I wont be surprised if this gets converted into a drooling post🤣....I will enjoy it the most though🤣</font>

Originally posted by: -MohitzPari-

SHOCKED😲😲😲😲😲.....r u feeling lazy??😲😲😲😲
and u took so long to edit...I thought u will write something new...goshh tu bhi na🤣
I saw ur reply in the other thread....and loved it!!!
all I can say is I AGREE....and u know me m not gonna write an essay once again....heck no🤣

sorry I was totally gonna be fast but you siggie dabba distracted me!!😡...couldn stop staring at my baby and daydreaming 😉 ☺️ ....thats why I took so long.😆..

Originally posted by: mohitkideewani

Blushing? 🤣 yeh kaise dostana, blushing when you see my post? 🤣🤣 I know yaar. Me missing the old days!
Yaar stupid Uni has taken over my life officially. And the Ramadan has just finished and we had Eid so busy with the family. Right now I am supposed to be writing my humanities paper 🤔 I know yaar especially him in yellow 🤪 ☺️
Shit choco he is my heaven 😉😍