Afraid to be happy? - Page 4

Yes indeed sabah I-F does make you behave in a strange manner.. It is more or less what we do in real life. To be accepted we mould ourselves to others views. And it does take time to build your conviction. We learn over a period of time to be what we are, to be true to ourselves and allow the world to accept us who we are while taking its own sweet time...

Thanx for replying Sabah I always look forward to your replies.

Divya first of all thanx for the reply...

Divya,I am unlike you am not very diplomatic, polite maybe. But I like and prefer the truth over sugar coated words. Its just the way I am.. I liked MJHT fer a no of things other than MN. Its just the way i see things or the way I AM.

I-F has made some positive influence on me, it has made me patient and given me some awesome friends. I have learnt how to interac with people of entirely different set of ideals, background age.. Something I would not have managed in real Life. In the process I have also learnt how to be true to my beliefs and not change it to suit others. I did do that and I have learnt.A non genuine response from my side will eventually always leak out since i dont hide well so i thought whats the point...The mood factor is probably so controllable, as deepti said things affect you if you let them affect you and I guess I am learning that thing pretty well....

Thanx again for replying.
Rinky

Quite an interesting post Rinky..........

@Divya,

This what you said "I have learnt to be abundantly patient as I wait endlessly for my fav characters to turn up on screen with some real good scenes written for them."

Made me fall for you all over again!

@Rinky/Divya, I think that is one of the reasons that forums are so interesting. People are more open than in real life where we seemed to have cotton woolled ourselves from feeling 'pain' but at the same time every other beautiful emotion. I would hate to see people trying to do the same here.

Yes to Etiquette, no to self -hypocrisy, that's the way to go!

agree sabah... yes to ettiquette and no to self hypocrisy...cheers

Rinky....nice post...

i agree...........................waise i really dont know.............as this is the first soap i am watching and i was mainly attracted by mn............................waise i love the whole show but would have stopped watching if mn were not there....................................you are totally right.....................i mean watching a seriel never allows you to think about the screenspace , character deviation.................we just forget all that and wait eagerly for the next day......................but on if the day on which screenspace was less is discussed and those discussions made me think that yaaaaaaaaa screenspace was less...................guys here we fight with real persons for the fictional favourites ...................i mean we fight to give the characters support...........................we have learnt to argue on each and everything which can be neglected. easily .......................if made us to think about each and every prospective as millions openions clash here.....................i mean lets talk bout pbm sequence..............i myself did not like intimacy ............... i would have skip it......................and i would not have mind showing intimacy on telivision but when we discussed it here .................i really minded..................................................i mean i started hating that sequence ...............................for some days even i felt bad that why i watch mjht................its no more a youth seriel........................its not my cup of tea...................i should stop watching it ............if infuence me a lot.................the thing would have not affected me if i was not on if ..................................ok lets discuss about sajan case ..............................when mayank was caught with a ladder.................................i did not found that mayank lost his character as i was thinking that he was there for his love and we all say na everything is fare in love and war.............................but discussions here made me think that no.............my mayank changed for some days..................i mean i was never worried about character deviation before if..................................and lets take an sajan example..............................when samrat used ladders for going in gunjan room..........................i found it ridiculous as in my openion if he can use gate ...why he entered through windows...................its a bad thing.........................you should not enter through windows in a girl house but people here made me think that no samrat is really sweet doing so.😕😕.....i mean what when gunjan parents will come to know ........................my openion changed...................................................personally i always found gunjan ............the sweetest sister ........................i too loved nupur to core but never compared the two.............but if proved me that the love was onesided for sometime .......................and then in that nupur case where nupur asked gunjan to stay away from samrat.......................i was totally with her as i was knowing she was right...........ofcouse samrat was wrong kissing her in front of everyone and then entering the girls washroom.........................i mean that was a limit for me...................it was never sweet for me..............................but when i visited if ...............i was made to hate nupur ....................that she is doing wrong with gunjan ..................she should give her sister space 😕...................................i was with bauji when he told mayank to leave from there ....................my father would have done the same but more............he would have killed me 😆😆😆😆😆........but if made me hate bauji for doing that and like this if really effect my openion .............................i am influenced a lot by if...................😃

u think MN characters hv been deviated bcoz IF MAKES U THINK SOOO.........

Originally posted by: Azzmi

u think MN characters hv been deviated bcoz IF MAKES U THINK SOOO.........

for me dey bod r still da same.....as sumtimes weird bt nt 2 much xtent....n dat hs happend wid sajan also.........i stilll luv dis MN......watchin MAYUR ftr ma hectic colg schedule iz lk a refresher...stress buster....i knw dey do comedy n stuff bt atleast mujhe pakate ...rulate aur bore toh nahin karte....i lk dis romantic comedy couple...datz usp....such a REALISTIC couple.....

bt here in IF ppl views changes in seconds......

i'l say stick 2 wat u think......n follow it.....juzz coz oder says mn wer butchered......dun let it effect ur pt........

2 remain stick 2 ur point........shows ur inner strength......

dear my decision is that time influenced not forever............................i mean what should i say that time when someone said that mayank is not that kind of person who will use ladders to reach nupur and will ask her about running away.....................and will read 100 comments saying the same thing........................................ofcourse my alone view will not affect their views ....................

but i totally agree.........................mn are a unique couple .....i loved them to core..........................i love them in each and every prospective.......................................and ya they are funny and the most romantic couple........................