Changed stance on Intimacy? MOD Note. Pg. 49 - Page 18

Originally posted by: faranzafar

I really dont understand y Mayur fans cant see Sajan romantic scenes Or i can say y dey cant see Sajan happy..
Dey hav nothing to do except bashing Sajan or gunjan..
those who wanna quote me nd reply me den its ur wish bt i'll not reply to u coz i really dont hav time 4 ur fights bt most of da Mayur fanz hav really nothing to do except bashing Sajan.. lol
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..

Originally posted by: aparajita.s

hi guys...my first post in da MJHT forum on I-F...I really did not want to be a part of this discussion, becoz i dont want to end up virtually dead on I-F in just one post...🤣

But Ive come across some words which are really confusing me:

Firstly, Pure and Innocent - Well, as far as i can see, yday's sequence can, in no way, be termed "Innocent"... It was passionate, intimate, and also pure, because the feelings of love had evoked them to engage in such a thing (Just like da sequence aired on Mayur) but to term it as innocent? 🤔

Secondly, following the Pehli baar sequence, I had actually read ppl terming M as Out of character for doing wat he did because he is perceived to be a sensible guy, with values and family traditions...If dat was a problem then, how is it now dat emotional bonding justifies the out-of-character act of, well, You-know-who? 😃

I was never against MN intimate scene, and nor am I against SG's, though I obviously hv my own preferences, and liked one better dan the other. but saying something for somebody and forgetting it later on for somebody else....I think dats da whole point of the topic....!!!

Rather than making this a war-zone, why not concentrate on the justification part?😉

Hey😆 Ive just been floating around here and there😛

Originally posted by: aparajita.s

hi guys...my first post in da MJHT forum on I-F...I really did not want to be a part of this discussion, becoz i dont want to end up virtually dead on I-F in just one post...🤣

But Ive come across some words which are really confusing me:

Firstly, Pure and Innocent - Well, as far as i can see, yday's sequence can, in no way, be termed "Innocent"... It was passionate, intimate, and also pure, because the feelings of love had evoked them to engage in such a thing (Just like da sequence aired on Mayur) but to term it as innocent? 🤔

Secondly, following the Pehli baar sequence, I had actually read ppl terming M as Out of character for doing wat he did because he is perceived to be a sensible guy, with values and family traditions...If dat was a problem then, how is it now dat emotional bonding justifies the out-of-character act of, well, You-know-who? 😃

I was never against MN intimate scene, and nor am I against SG's, though I obviously hv my own preferences, and liked one better dan the other. but saying something for somebody and forgetting it later on for somebody else....I think dats da whole point of the topic....!!!

Rather than making this a war-zone, why not concentrate on the justification part?😉

Originally posted by: shinz

and here comes appu...the diplomacy queen..! 🤣
appu...i so love u for this...thats what we all are yelling here....that we think it shuld not be double standards..! atleast i think so LOL..!
if its acceptable for one..than it shuld be for the other one too..!
now i see sensible replies..!!

heck i was supposed to go and study...if u guys keep on posting how would i...and then i cannot resist replying to u..! 😆 😆
looved ur POV...!! u are always neutral..! 🤣

Originally posted by: thornewood9

Hey😆 Ive just been floating around here and there😛

I have to admit Ive kind of found another Jodi to go GaGa over😆 I can't help it Im just weird this way😉 Unfortunately though the Jodi Im Loving isn't being Loved by anyone else on that Forum😆 So I came back here😆

Okay Im going to answer the question of why the issues came up about the MayUr Scene.

It was because of the Barn.🤓 Seriously.

I'll explain.

When that MayUr Scene was shown it was shown in parallel to SaJans First Date🤔

How STUPID is that?🤔

Cause there we had SaJan acting all Januable and Shy and Sweet, Holding Hands and talking to the little Fishies and wandering through Flower Petal Showers

And then we had MayUr in the Rain. Alone at night. In a BARN of all places

When someone says "Barn" and "Jodi" the negative aspects of intimacy DO come to the frontline.

I think the Creatives messed up there with the MayUr Scene.

Plus they ended it on a Black out Another dumb move because then it made you think --->😲 What the HELL are they doing???

SaJan Scene ended yesterday because the Episode ended so we didn't get this --->😲

we got more this --->😳

The way a Scene is edited makes a huge impact on the meanings coming through it.

MayUr Scene was edited badly and they made a huge error in putting it in Parallel to SaJans Cute First Date Scene. Cause then MayUrs Passion DID seem Over-The-Top and Too-Far.

SaJan: Cute. MayUr: Passion.

Thats what it came across as🤓

Creatives bhi nah....

Aisha xxx😉

Originally posted by: myownarea

thanks Anu for saying that (abt loving my topics ) :D

I found your POV very interesting, actually, its true to a large extent

we are all biased by our love for our couples...

we end up loving exactly the things we hate when its our couple involved :)

That is the truth....

Again, our entire perception cant be that biased ...like if we find a look say not so pure

then it cant all be bias, then it becomes blind bias ...I feel we are all biased yet

we can surely see the difference between certain looks..so sometimes ..love

of a couple is not necessary to identify certain expressions as not so acceptable.

ok, thats just my view..

thank u for the views :)

I know I have been feeling this for a while, I knew it may not turn out to be the most peaceful of discussions

but it warranted a discussion surely!! :)

Originally posted by: myownarea

ROFL 🤣 🤣 🤣

ok, U like a jodi that nobody likes 🤣

oops off topic...may be u shud try Adhani ,,they r happening these days :D

@Aisha..thats interesting ...but again I think its the bias coming into picture

yes the barn n the twig n rain makes its sound less decent :D

but then if people had seen the scene I m sure u cant really call it that!!

somebody pointed out clothes too...

Again, UR impression of the Sg date is different from others

people felt G was not appropriately dressed

then looked over made up n then the scenes were intimate

ended more or less in a similar manner

so I guess its the way we perceive things that changes the situation:)

ah abt the cvs:) ...we have an old enemity that lives on I guess 😆

Originally posted by: myownarea

ROFL ...u kidding me ?? 🤣 🤣

The whole topic has nothing to do with Mayur fans bashing Sajan fans or anyone else:)

I m not sure if you were active during the pehlibaar phase ...if u had seen the posts then , you would most definitely not have been saying this :)

Fans of one couple bash fans of other couple,...MN, SG no bar...only bashing bar bar 🤣

but seriously , nobody is (or shud be ) saying that SG fans r wrong to enjoy this song...the question is if its wrong for Mn why is it right for SG :)