Why is Nupur over-reacting? Can someone explain? - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeh she is over reacting....i mean as much as he shud understand her...and he as at fault in that dep...she shud understand him...but she isnt....i mean they need to sit talk and come up with some where inbtwn...like tell their friends....he doesnt need to advertise it to the world...bcuas e he doensnt like that and she needs to understand that....i think nupur i being reallyyy silly. and if i was nupur i wud hate that my bf does something like that just because i want him too....cz it wud have noo meaning!!! and why put some1 u love thru all that.!! agreed mayank was harsh...but he came all the way to morena to say sorry....she showed a bit of attitude...fine...i would too....i would even playfully show some more...LOL....but thiss is defo OTTTT.....saying to break up, and then AGAINNNNN testing his love...and that to with something so silly....why cudnt she just ask him whether they can at least now show their love inffornt of their freindss...act like a couple in front of them??? why does he have to appologise infront of every1??? he didnt shout at her infront of everyone?????hi mistake wasnt THATTT big....at the end of the day she was a tad at fault too!!! i think nupur is now being downright unreasonable!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shambhavi13

i think she did the right thing......... personally i wanted it to happen....... mayank should realize how she feels....... any girl would feel the same if his bf hides her as if she is a stolen object or something..... also mayank has hurt her too much........ he must suffer........ if i was in her place i'd have asked 4 a break up then and there when mayank yelled at her.

Yeah ur right 😃
But its a little too much, but thanksss for commenting hun
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Minal..thanks for ur comment dear!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: xOxMwahxOx

yeh she is over reacting....i mean as much as he shud understand her...and he as at fault in that dep...she shud understand him...but she isnt....i mean they need to sit talk and come up with some where inbtwn...like tell their friends....he doesnt need to advertise it to the world...bcuas e he doensnt like that and she needs to understand that....i think nupur i being reallyyy silly. and if i was nupur i wud hate that my bf does something like that just because i want him too....cz it wud have noo meaning!!! and why put some1 u love thru all that.!! agreed mayank was harsh...but he came all the way to morena to say sorry....she showed a bit of attitude...fine...i would too....i would even playfully show some more...LOL....but thiss is defo OTTTT.....saying to break up, and then AGAINNNNN testing his love...and that to with something so silly....why cudnt she just ask him whether they can at least now show their love inffornt of their freindss...act like a couple in front of them??? why does he have to appologise infront of every1??? he didnt shout at her infront of everyone?????hi mistake wasnt THATTT big....at the end of the day she was a tad at fault too!!! i think nupur is now being downright unreasonable!

Totallyy!! i have to agree here..!
I agree Nups is really really hurt, but she doesnt let Mayank talk, its a little too much from her side!
Nups also has the right to be angry & mad at Mayank, but as u said they can always sit down and clear out the matter, but i guess its too much to ask for !😛
Thanks for commenting!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't know who else she wants to know about the relationship. The whole gang knows. With the family being very conservative, they're not going to be happy about Nupur and Mayank being boyfriend and girlfriend. They would at least get her engaged. So, I don't understand what more she wants. Maybe to have Mayank properly accept Nupur as his girlfriend.

I think what she said was quite normal but I really feel for Mayank. You'd be so lucky to have such a perfect boyfriend who practically bows down to all your demands. But, he himself said that shes sensitive yet he still hurt her, which is wrong.

I don't know. Both are at fault for the current state but I think Nupur, for once, should be the bigger person by forgiving him. Mayank accepts his mistakes and always makes an EFFORT in keeping their relationship strong. I think Nupur should give something back rather than expect more in return.

Naina
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumonetolub

I don't know who else she wants to know about the relationship. The whole gang knows. With the family being very conservative, they're not going to be happy about Nupur and Mayank being boyfriend and girlfriend. They would at least get her engaged. So, I don't understand what more she wants. Maybe to have Mayank properly accept Nupur as his girlfriend.

I think what she said was quite normal but I really feel for Mayank. You'd be so lucky to have such a perfect boyfriend who practically bows down to all your demands. But, he himself said that shes sensitive yet he still hurt her, which is wrong.

I don't know. Both are at fault for the current state but I think Nupur, for once, should be the bigger person by forgiving him. Mayank accepts his mistakes and always makes an EFFORT in keeping their relationship strong. I think Nupur should give something back rather than expect more in return.

Naina

Hey Naina!
I agree with you, you said it all👏
Thankssss hun
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Cant agree with u. She's not at all overreacting.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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over-reaction is an understatement for her behavior.

may be there is something from her past, which makes her so insecure.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completly agree with sweet-knife....😊
Nupur's main reason to b angry & hurt is bcoz he never really appreciated her .. for him smartness is a copy of how he is.. i mean being good at acedamics, career oriented etc.. there is nothing wrong in being average in studies, serious about a relationship ... 😒
I agree she is kind of exaggerating her feelings .. but wen u recap the dialouges he said about her during his yellings he did mention about she is interested only in chattering and that he is fed up of it..
It is too much .. i mean Nupur is all about talking and that is her identity.... 😡
and also remember they were not frnds like Sajan... so their level is totally diff.. 😔
He has to learn to respect her as she is .. 😃
Though i dont agree with her demands and i hope Mayank does not do that..
But her anger is justified and she needs time to heal.. 😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@sweet-knife .....u said it all.....i think wat ever z happening with mayank its bcz of his own acts......im so much agree with nupur means if u cnt confess ur love in public so 1 larkhi kisey trust karey k wen she needs u he will b there???.....

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