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Posted: 15 years ago
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nupur really over reacting i know mayank did onemistake but wtever yesterday nupur told its really useless i hate it she always thinks she only right i hate youuuuuu nupur 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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why nupur is making demands ?this question has clear answer that mayank did not trust her ,😡😡😡. he trust everyone in excel except nupur . last night , he did not bothered to listen a word from her and let her go 😭😭😭😭😭, and now today he want her back . none of the girl in this world can bear this type of behaviour . than how can we expect this from nupur😡😡😡 . mayank never solve problems , he make them bigger and bigger 😡😡😡. when he is knowing that nupur hate hiding their relationship , then why he repeats mistakes again and again . why he lied to bui😡. he could have never lied to his own mom , and if nupur did that , he will yelled at her .😡😡😡😡 thats the thing he can do the best . bui is like nupurs mom only na 😊😊😊😊.. he did not bothered to think when bui will come to know the truth , the situation will be worst for nupur😭😭😭😭 . he has set his mind that i am here too woo my girl 😳😳😳, and i will do it in any way , bas meri image par koi daag na aaye😡😡😡 , thats what he thinks , he is overconfident and thinks that he is the best . , nupur is the same bubbly girl😊😊 , see the episode and see her expressions again when she said mayank mujhe chod do😭😭😭 . she is now irritated by his method of hiding relationship . she said that when no option was left for her 😭😭😭😭😭. she challenged mayank to tell everybody about their relationship kyunki mayank sahab par bharosa nahi kita ja sakta 😃😃. she said na aaj mujhse dil laga lia aur agle din tod diya 😡😡😡. mayank never realised his mistakes through heart as after talent parade , how can he repeat the same mistake again 😡😡😡. in his anger he lost his brains 🤢🤢. mayank now cares for himself only 😡 , he never cares for nupur anymore . and i dont want nupur to kept wrat for him ,😭😭 because he will butchered her feelings by saying ki ye sab dikhava karne ki kya jarorat hain😭😭😭 . . ya thats truth mayank compares nupur feelings to dikhava 😭😭😭😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u guys have labelled mayank as a perfect person n i guess because he is so perfect thats y he's been a loner most of the time. i seriously dnt want a bf like mayank...its a taxing job 4 a girl to live up2 his expectations.

all of us are complaining regarding mayur rship but i guess that is the objective of cvs...maybe they are trying to show what happens to a rship when u rush into it...mayur fell in love but their foundation is not strong enough...they didn't bcme frens...god know hoiw they ended up 2gthr.

so my friends...it takes many things like becoming friend, trust, respect for u'r partner etc. 2 make rship strong...only love will not keep the rship going, mayur are in a critical position n they have 2 take correct decision. i guess 1st they have to become frens to gain one anothers TRUST.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonamd

u guys have labelled mayank as a perfect person n i guess because he is so perfect thats y he's been a loner most of the time. i seriously dnt want a bf like mayank...its a taxing job 4 a girl to live up2 his expectations.

all of us are complaining regarding mayur rship but i guess that is the objective of cvs...maybe they are trying to show what happens to a rship when u rush into it...mayur fell in love but their foundation is not strong enough...they didn't bcme frens...god know hoiw they ended up 2gthr.

so my friends...it takes many things like becoming friend, trust, respect for u'r partner etc. 2 make rship strong...only love will not keep the rship going, mayur are in a critical position n they have 2 take correct decision. i guess 1st they have to become frens to gain one anothers TRUST.


Bold - my thoughts exactly!
My two penny's worth on the MN relationship (NO offence to MN fans - this is just my reading and I could be dead wrong - this was written a little while ago at the time of the last MN fight.)

I really wonder where the MN story is heading. If I was the writer, I would be doing a compare contrast between SG and MN - one pair building up love through friendship, where both are interdependent on each other and have complete trust in each other - and the other , a love story which started on the basis of almost nothing and still seems to me to be more infatuation than love. Where is the love story in MN? They started off by fighting - one of the most cliched, hackneyed starts which so many stories have used, including Armaan Riddhima - they carried on fighting and they still continue fighting, on the smallest of issues. Their story has progressed at breakneck speed - they met, fought, got attracted, confessed, fought, made up, fought again, made up again ... and are still fighting.
So my question - are they really in love at all?

Mayank - studious quiet guy, not exactly a nerd - all the girls wanted to get near him, but he wasn't interested. So why did Nupur manage to get under his skin? Because she was bold and bubbly, because she was everything he didn't like - loud, filmy, over the top, a chatterbox ... and yet, completely comfortable in her own skin? As he was - is that what attracted him? Or what it just an attraction to the first girl in his life whom he could not ignore? Nupur is the first girl who managed to get close to him, she got under his skin so he had to notice her, interact with her, had to spend time with her (ahmedabad trip among other things) - but does he really know her? what makes her tick? And if he doesn't, isn't this just infatuation - and not really love? Add to it his obsessive need to keep their relationship secret ... isn't that a sign that he himself isn't sure where they're heading?

Nupur - is she in love with Mayank? Or is she in love with Raj ... with Mayank's face? Her thought processes are easier to follow if I assume the latter. She was always ready to fall in love, she was on the lookout for her Prince Charming, her Raj all along, unlike her studious, quiet sister. And the first guy who first confused the wits out of her, then aroused strong emotions of anger, even hate in her then started behaving strangely, giving her long deep meaningful looks - (at least I think that's what they were supposed to be!)... no wonder the girl started thinking there was something between them. And he was always the one pushing her to declare her feelings - she was never sure it was love - the part I find very believable!!! It was the events in her sister's life which pushed her into declaring her feelings, which made her feel that she was luckier than her sister to have a boy who loved her and she should probably hang onto him. But does she really, truly love him? Or does she love Raj?

It may build into love ... later. As they get to know each other, flaws, warts and all. But to me, at the moment, it isn't love - yet. And if I watch the story from that perspective, then the MN story still has a long way to go. Because it really hasn't started yet.


Edited by DiyaS - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OMG guys...dint know i wud receive sooo many comments here..hehe
Thanks to all of you for explaining ur viewpoints! Acc to me Nupur did overreact....But in a way mayu is wrong too...so its a two sided issue :D
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ DiyaS
I understand ur point, but can i request you not to compare SaJan with MayUr, SaJan have always had this bond of friendship, which is unbreakable...but whats with their love story ? Its been dragging since ages..Agree MN have no story either, they just continue to fight n fight all the time..but my point is about Nupur overreacting...not about SG..they have nothing to do with MN story...! SG are different & so are MN...
Thanks!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yammi
u said it all
mostly everyone in here
thinks that too
and u said it very well
that love has up and down
and I too hated the way Nupur said
"Mayank mujhe chorr do"
It came out of her mouth all of a suden
that I was totally shocked.
I swear
what waz Nupur thinking.
I know if I were in her place I wouldn't forgive Mayu that easily
but that was just too stupid. Why did she say that.
Ughh that scene ruined my "Mayur Magical Moment".
and why did she say
twhen Mayu was hiding behind the clothes, when bui was coming
that "U hide" Blah blah blah
if I waz Mayu then I would do the same
because I woundn't want an elder like bui to see me with anyone like that, like that I mean he waz sooooo close to her, and I think I should stop writting since my post is already too long.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rkmnkp

Yammi

u said it all
mostly everyone in here
thinks that too
and u said it very well
that love has up and down
and I too hated the way Nupur said
"Mayank mujhe chorr do"
It came out of her mouth all of a suden
that I was totally shocked.
I swear
what waz Nupur thinking.
I know if I were in her place I wouldn't forgive Mayu that easily
but that was just too stupid. Why did she say that.
Ughh that scene ruined my "Mayur Magical Moment".
and why did she say
twhen Mayu was hiding behind the clothes, when bui was coming
that "U hide" Blah blah blah
if I waz Mayu then I would do the same
because I woundn't want an elder like bui to see me with anyone like that, like that I mean he waz sooooo close to her, and I think I should stop writting since my post is already too long.

LOL Lina..Np yaar..i love long posts!😃
I know...It was so frustrating to watch and hear Nups do this...i mean whats with her all of a sudden..Its just soo lame man...i know nups has the full right to say whatever she wants...but this line was a lil too strong for us and for Mayu
Thanks..and im glad u agree with me😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yamini.K

LOL Lina..Np yaar..i love long posts!😃
I know...It was so frustrating to watch and hear Nups do this...i mean whats with her all of a sudden..Its just soo lame man...i know nups has the full right to say whatever she wants...but this line was a lil too strong for us and for Mayu
Thanks..and im glad u agree with me😊

Of corse Yami
Almost everyone here agrees with u.😃
and m glad u ike my long post.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonamd

u guys have labelled mayank as a perfect person n i guess because he is so perfect thats y he's been a loner most of the time. i seriously dnt want a bf like mayank...its a taxing job 4 a girl to live up2 his expectations.

all of us are complaining regarding mayur rship but i guess that is the objective of cvs...maybe they are trying to show what happens to a rship when u rush into it...mayur fell in love but their foundation is not strong enough...they didn't bcme frens...god know hoiw they ended up 2gthr.

so my friends...it takes many things like becoming friend, trust, respect for u'r partner etc. 2 make rship strong...only love will not keep the rship going, mayur are in a critical position n they have 2 take correct decision. i guess 1st they have to become frens to gain one anothers TRUST.

oh u took the words out of my mouth !!!

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