Preeti is an immature idiot, yes.But Mohit is PSYCHO,he shld be jailed

So a few people on here have stated that just because this utter loser and waste of space, Mohit, has basically kidnapped and forcibly carried Preeti around a fire in her BEDROOM that they are legally married. And honestly, I wasn't sure if this was accurate or not so obviously I looked it up in a search engine- and I wasn't surprised to find that my initial thoughts were about right. Whatever weird ritual he thought he was doing in that room was a load of horsesh*t and I'm sorry- but you cant call that a legal or solemnised marriage. Just because the fire was there and he tied the knot does not make that a marriage, just a ritual. I agree that in India according to the citizens, the ritualistic actions of the marriage are widely accepted or "considered" legal- but according to the LAW in most states it is a load of crap. Its not considered legal unless a whole lot of paper work, APPROPRIATE witnesses, and bureaucracy is involved and RIGHTLY SO. Or else any psycho can go and call walking round a fire a wedding. Its not, it's a farce. If that's the case then drag a dead body round the fire too and call that a marriage too- come on people- whatever Mohit did was done without consent, without the appropriate witnesses (Shanti, nimmi and Riya do NOT count as witnesses- I mean what if they were backing Mohit up? They would be party to a crime- appropriate witnesses means people who are LEGALLY qualified to solemnise/sanctify the marriage, not just a bunch of random people who happened to be there!) Whatever Mohit did was also done with about three dozen marbles missing from his brain- null and void. Unless an ACTUAL priest was there (not a bloody voice recording) and unless there were people there to witness that the marriage was mutually consented to and unless papers were signed by both parties then whatever the crap happened in that room was literally just a kidnapping and nothing more. So please- whoever thinks that THAT was legal/acceptable marriage "vows"/a real marriage in any shape or form- seriously- stop sending this insane message to people. Here's a whole list of things you require for a ritualistic marriage to become official:

1. Religious Marriage Ceremonies in India

In India, a religious marriage ceremony is considered a legal marriage. However registration of marriage is now a legal requirement in most of the states in India. Moreover, for visa and immigration purposes a formal marriage certificate from the Registrar of Marriages is required. There are different rules and regulations for different religions. For example there are Hindu Marriage Act, Muslim Marriage Act, and Christian Marriage Act and for the Parsee there is Parsee Marriage and Divorce Act.

(a) Hindu Marriage Ceremony

The Hindu Marriage Act of 1955 is applicable to Hindus, Jains, Sikhs and Buddhists. A religious marriage which has already been solemnized can be registered under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. The Hindu Marriage Act is applicable in cases where both husband and wife are Hindus, Buddhists, Jains or Sikhs or where they have converted into any of these religions. The Hindu Marriage Act provides for the conditions of a marriage where under the bridegroom should be the age of 21 years and bride of 18 years, they both should not be within the degree of prohibited relationship.

The documents required for registering a marriage under the Hindu Marriage Act are as follows:

• Application form duly signed by both husband and wife
• Documentary evidence of date of birth of parties (Matriculation Certificate / Passport / Birth Certificate) Minimum age of both parties is 21 years at the time of registration under the Special Marriage Act
• Ration card of husband or wife whose area SDM has been approached for the certificate
  Affidavit by both the parties stating place and date of marriage, date of birth, marital status at the time of marriage and nationality
• Two passport size photographs of both the parties and one marriage photograph
  Marriage invitation card, if available
• If marriage was solemnized in a religious place, a certificate from the priest is required who solemnized the marriage
• Affirmation that the parties are not related to each other within the prohibited degree of relationship as per Hindu Marriage Act or Special Marriage Act as the case may be
  Attested copy of divorce decree/order in case of a divorcee and death certificate of spouse in case of widow/widower
• In case one of the parties belong to other than Hindu, Buddhist, Jain and Sikh religions, a conversion certificate from the priest who solemnized the marriage
• All documents excluding receipt should be attested by a Gazetted Officer

Verification of all the documents is carried out on the date of application and a day is fixed and communicated to the parties for registration. On the said day, both parties, along with a Gazetted Officer who attended their marriage, need to be present before the SDM. The marriage certificate under the Hindu Marriage Act is issued on the same day or within a few days.

Registration of Marriage in India

A marriage in India is required to be registered in most of the cases. The state governments have or are planning to make the registration of marriage compulsory in all the cases. A marriage certificate is also required in most cases for visa purposes.

Moreover, the Indian Special Marriage Act, 1954, which applies to all citizens irrespective of their religion, requires the registration of marriages by a marriage officer.

Registering of Marriage will be made Compulsory in India

Recently, the Supreme Court of India gave the final deadline to the states and Union Territories to frame laws to make the registration of marriages compulsory, as a majority of them have failed to comply with its earlier order of February 2006 in this regard.

EVEN if the above wasn't true and outdated- nothing about what happened with Mohit and Preeti was even remotely sacred, the rituals of marriage weren't even performed by ANYONE. Just an insane man walking around a fire with a girl trapped in his arms. I'm sorry but I just had to post this, if people don't like it then so be it but I just cant understand why anyone in their right mind would think that this was in any way a marriage or wedding or is legal or should be. If that were the case (Im laughing here because its so utterly ridiculous) then even the actors who are ACTING out these scenes are really marrying each other! Come on! To those who think Preeti is in any way married to this freak now- you really need to think that through again. If you think that was real in any way then what a mockery of the sanctity of actual marriage vows and prayers and sacred rituals properly performed- there's no need then, who needs a priest or family around if that's all it takes to get married?! Shes not married to him- nothing even happened apart from a bit of smoke and fire and she should be free to marry Vyom properly. Also if Vyom DOES find out and makes a big hoohaa about this joke of a "marriage" that Mohit forced on her- then I reallly hope everyone finds out that hes been sleeping with his wife's-to-be cousin. I mean surely that trumps a fake marriage. And Mohit is disgusting- he is completely insane, and makes my skin crawl. Imagine someone like that coming after you, you'd kick him in the bloody nuts until he fainted never mind whacking him over the head. He was "OK" to begin with- but the moment he started living in Shanti Sadan pretending to be someone else- that's when the psychopath showed itself. Creepy. He deserves psychological therapy, to be kept far away from all females- the psycho obviously has mummy issues or something. No good woman deserves that kind of hell. Ugh, yuk. Preeti annoys the hell out of me, yes- I mean I don't even know where to start- she cries and cries and cries and gets herself in trouble and never speaks up for herself OR her SIL when she's the one on her side, and she CRIES and mopes and whines and is not happy with ANYTHING no matter how many people are trying to make her life tolerable again- did I mention she cries? And shes been a nasty cow to Nandu (who at FIRST didn't deserve it- he does now though cuz he is creepy as hell too now). Ugh- and she criiies. All the time. No matter what. Literally a worm has more backbone. BUT that doesn't mean that what happened with Mohit was ok and doesn't mean she deserved it and doesn't mean she's a w***e (as some foul people have been calling her). Shes not any of those things- shes just spineless and terrified of her own shadow and very slow. I don't care how NICE and lovely and charming and romantic Mohit was to begin with- when things got tough, he showed his real character and it sucked balls. HORRIBLE true character. Preeti fell in love and made a big bloody mistake continuing to see that loser- she made a HUGE mistake and it is her naivety and stupidity that's got her in this mess- but it doesn't mean that its ok for Mohit to bloody well go psycho on her. Whatever Mohit did was wrong- Riya was right, the police SHOULD have been called- but of course if that happened then Preeti really would have to go and throw herself over a cliff because apparently women in that town don't support each other when a man attacks you- no it's the woman's fault of course and how dare she even look at a man, how dare she even like a man- because that would of course make her a w****, right? But if a man kidnaps you and forces you to marry him- then lets hope the poor guy ends up with a more "deserving" decent girl who appreciates him. And that's why people, the human race is doomed.

Dear we all know logic & legal terms

But television world sets these trends & MAM CV are most illogical

So in tele rule they are married 😆 😉

Hi Dollbeans
Thanks for your comment. I know and am aware that there are many MANY users in this forum who understand that this is just a tv show (myself included) and that all of this pertains to the world of MAM (and I do agree that this show is ridiculously illogical). But when I get a chance I read up on some of the comments of other users and you would be surprised to read what some of these people have written. Gosh, there is one user in particular who uses such foul language and is so prejudiced and hateful, I have no words. And my comment is really aimed at anyone who think it's ok to vilify a girl just because she fell for the wrong guy. No matter how irritating she is- doesn't justify his insane behaviour. My comment is a serious response to those who actually- in reality- think that if these things were to happen in the real world then their opinions are "moral" or "justified". If this happened for real- that guy would have been beaten to death or imprisoned. There is an individual here who has actually called Preeti a "w***e" and believes that if this were a real scenario would be deserving of such a horrible word even then. I've aimed this comment at such a person and the people who would agree. You obviously understand real from fiction- there are people in the world who aren't able to distinguish between the two and that's what was bothering me. I just had to post and sprinkle in some "facts" in there because honestly- there are, believe it or not, crazies in the world who would stone a girl to death (verbally or physically) for falling in love with a man and then falling out of love with him. My response was aimed at the mindset of people who are self righteous, not people who have a shred of common sense.

I have been a silent reader of this forum but couldn't stop myself from commenting here. I find this show fascinating because it shows such layered characters from a small town which I could never have seen closely.

i didnt said it was a legal marriage
i said that was a marriage and even mentioned unless it is registered it cant be legal
so plz read the post clearly first and then can start pointing out
but even if the marriage is done as per whatever u said like rituals u have to register it
then only it would be termed as legal marriage
here we are not talking abt society or real marriages
we are talking abt reel marriages and in telly world even if the bride/groom is kidnapped or forced to marry against there consent it is still considered as legal marriage,even if marraige is done inside ghunghat by exchanging places still it is considered as legal marriage itself i can give 1000 of serial egs to prove my point
whatever i mentioned in my post was abt fictional marriage and fictional character called preeti and not real marriage or for real people
so until they nullify the marriage it still considered as marriage in telly world
even putting just a sindoor is considered as marriage in serials
so instead of bashing someone without even reading what they have posted is called stupidity
it shows who is immature and who is calling real people names and abusing them for some fictional non existant character

Muktha_cute, Mate, you need to not take my response so personally. My response wasn't aimed at you or what you said or did not say specifically in your comment. If you once again read what I said (not that I would bother myself, because it was so long!!) you will see that I wasn't bashing you; I'm not bashing people. I haven't called anyone names or targeted anyone in particular- there are no particular users' names mentioned in my comment. But YES, there is one particular user in this forum who has the habit of using horrendously foul, derogatory and nasty language. And honestly I'm commenting on that user's posts and to those who outright agree with that user. As I said- very clearly and several times- I'm aware it's fiction...but there are many people who don't give a fig if it's fiction or not. There are many who don't distinguish between real life and telly world. There are many who just don't understand the difference. YOU obviously do- there is some intelligence behind your comment, as you have clearly stated that telly world is portrayed differently and that telly "rules" are different. You would think that "everyone" understood the distinction- but they don't. I'm not responding to your opinions. I'm commenting upon the opinions of those who can't tell the difference between real life and telly world. If you just try and get what I'm saying you'll see that after all is said and done, the real issue behind all this drama is the way society treats women and women's rights and how women treat other women (as one commenter previously stated very eloquently and intelligently). That's what I'm alluding to- not the semantics of the differences between telly world and the real world. I GET that it's make-believe on the television- MOST people do, such as yourself- but there are people out there who don't care and would treat a woman just the same. You would be surprised how many people use television as there "role model" for life. You would be surprised how many people literally translate this "telly world", this drama and entertainment, into their everyday life. You are obviously of the majority who understands that there is a difference. Again- not aimed at you in any way, Muktha- I've not even mentioned your name in any of my posts. But many users and silent readers know of whom I'm speaking about when it comes to this particular user who can't speak with a bit of dignity and be able to intelligently back up their use of such derogatory language. I've chosen not to report this person, but I'm sure someone will eventually. But it's interesting to see how some people can't at least come up with a moderately intelligent argument before they post. You might argue that they are just talking about the fictional characters in a tv show- but there are some people who would insult and debase a woman in real "actual" life for exactly the same mistakes and circumstances as depicted in the show. Owing to some positive response here to my post, I wager many would agree with me. I've used bad language myself on occasion in this forum when frustrated, but I certainly don't resort to calling women w****es. I am referring to THAT kind of immaturity. If you wish to call me immature, be my guest, but I've put forward my reasoning and I haven't aimed insults at anyone in particular nor have I replied in someone else's post and called them names. Some people are bound to get defensive, some go on the offence and some understand what I'm actually trying to say. Sorry, but you seem to have mistaken the entire point I've been trying to make. I'm not bothered about petty name calling, I'm bothered about the mentality of some people towards women and the rights of a woman as a human being- otherwise I really wouldn't be wasting my time yabbering on trying to name and shame people for no other reason than that.

To Aarti16, thank you very much for your comment. Was answered eloquently and intelligently and made complete sense to me. Like the reference to the acid throwing, was very apt considering what we're actually talking about here.

it was me who created that post so i thought ur targetting me and calling me a foul person
i understood now that u werent calling me names

totally agree with you, in all ur comments...

Originally posted by: anjs

totally agree with you, in all ur comments...

that is not a 'marriage' and if people think that it is a proper marriage, then they are the same people who think that the rape victim should be married off to the rapist...this type of thinking is totally disgusting.

i have read that topic n even replied against it...and when that TM used foul language against my comment, i reprimanded the TM too...she or he, very easily use the f word...and obviously calling Preeti horrible names is like a regular thing for her...and why, just cause preeti isnt strong enough to stand for herself...so what, there are quite a few women who are like that...she didnt speak up even when shantiya ordered her to leave her job, then how can we expect her to defend Riya...

and she feel in love with Mohit...its pretty normal, just like how so many female fans here love Karam Rajpal...now fortunately or unfortunately for her, Mohit reciprocated her feelings and became a psycho stalker now...that doesnt mean she is evil...she does have little grey shades, but nothing which should call her a 'w***e'

and i agree with ur details post too, even a proper marriage with all rituals, isnt considered legal till it is registered, that too needs documents like the marriage hall venue bill etc etc, and the priest's signature stating that he conducted the ceremony with all the rituals.

R u serious
im the TM for that post
i dont knw what ur talking abt
i didnt used any Fword or any foul language for preeti
nor i did use any foul language on u
ur mistakening with some other member and saying TM is using abusive lang
just bcz of ur confusion dont spoil my image and name
i even mentioned the same thing on my post abt registering marriage and legality of marriage
may b u didnt read all my points
what ever i told abt marriage is abt serials marriage not real life marriage