why do they exist? Is The Big Question !!

Annoying girlfriends are generally insecure women. They constantly look for attention -- a byproduct of their desire for affection -- and for some kind of recognition in a world that doesn't give them any.

Some have "annoying girlfriends"; that is, girls who feel the need to check up on their boyfriends every minute of the day, questioning their every move, asking irrelevant questions and making their lives miserable. Although they are well aware of their behavior, they continue to do it since their boyfriends put up with their insistent queries.

But that isn't the whole truth. These women -- the kind that men consider annoying or constantly suspicious -- are often this way because they are insecure within the relationship.

Of course, there are women who were born to nag and add an extra coat of stress to our already stressful lives. Most women, however, are not maddening by nature, but become so when their partners fuel their insecurities. Women can be very complicated, but the reasoning behind their feelings is often simplistic: They want to be loved. This feeling ranges from the strongest of feminists to the meekest of shy girls. Most women need validation in life, and the best way to validate them is to let them know that they're cared for.

If she is naturally irritating, there isn't much you can do beyond ending the relationship. After all, you can't force someone with a whiny voice to stop talking, nor can you force someone who is naturally aggravating to stop being that way.

If, on the other hand, your girlfriend is annoying because she doesn't trust you, you have another problem. Women generally like to share their feelings and will likely tell you all about their emotions. Unfortunately, men are not quite as forthcoming with that type of information.

What ends up happening? Women begin questioning why they tells their mates everything when their men aren't as open and honest. If they don't receive the same daily update from their partners, they become suspicious.

As boyfriends or husbands, men should try to alleviate these suspicions. Even if you aren't typically affectionate, a simple gesture, like a note that just says "I love you," can go a long way.

You don't have to recite the minute details of your entire day to avoid women's interrogations. All you have to do is make them feel secure and trusting, and the rest will fall into place. It's a question of analyzing the problem before finding a solution. The easiest thing to do to avoid women's nagging is to simply answer their questions.
ease her mind
If your girlfriend is just insecure, you can easily save your relationship. Indulge her insecurities with nice gestures every so often and her whining will probably stop.
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other part of the article, where " Heidi Muller" gave some more opinions too.

(why don't u mention that, u only copied the article, u didn't write it )

Originally posted by: Huduga

If she is naturally irritating, there isn't much you can do beyond ending the relationship. After all, you can't force someone with a whiny voice to stop talking, nor can you force someone who is naturally aggravating to stop being that way.

If, on the other hand, your girlfriend is annoying because she doesn't trust you, you have another problem. Women generally like to share their feelings and will likely tell you all about their emotions. Unfortunately, men are not quite as forthcoming with that type of information.

What ends up happening? Women begin questioning why they tells their mates everything when their men aren't as open and honest. If they don't receive the same daily update from their partners, they become suspicious.

As boyfriends or husbands, men should try to alleviate these suspicions. Even if you aren't typically affectionate, a simple gesture, like a note that just says "I love you," can go a long way.

You don't have to recite the minute details of your entire day to avoid women's interrogations. All you have to do is make them feel secure and trusting, and the rest will fall into place. It's a question of analyzing the problem before finding a solution. The easiest thing to do to avoid women's nagging is to simply answer their questions.
ease her mind
If your girlfriend is just insecure, you can easily save your relationship. Indulge her insecurities with nice gestures every so often and her whining will probably stop.
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other part of the article, where " Heidi Muller" gave some more opinions too.

(why don't u mention that, u only copied the article, u didn't write it )

Originally posted by: RAJAYE_HIND

This person is a nutcase and a fraud just ignore him, he is giving everyone a hell of a time on this Forum Moderators please note this and other my dear friends on this I-F check his Peronal profile, He is 108 years old and no one knows anything else about him. Not real name, work, email address hobbies or anything. Moderators please take action on him as he has threatened me on this forum. The proof is as below:

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why r u posting same thing again n again..
answer here..

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