Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #1 - Page 78

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Swara in her insecurity has wronged both Ajay & clown. How much ever justification she gives it's unacceptable. Tanvi being miffed at Swara Ajanta's budding friendship is as u said illogical & blaming Ajanta for Rahul's accident too. But can't blame her too completely cos Ajanta has in her love for Manas blamed Rahul n no of times drng the Manas track.

As u've said Ajanta can't be blamed for Dumbnoj leaving the house that was his own choice.

I don’t think they blame her, but there is a lot of resentment which makes sense because Manoj never disclosed about his relationship before leaving the house.

And I think Ajanta also had a superiority complex which showed in the beginning. As a viewer, even I could sense that she looked down on the others for some reason. It could be because we were also biased against her but she was very snooty.

I think Tanvi is weirded out by the timing. There was never a talk between everyone or anything, just suddenly they are BFFs which is very sus, no?

Isliye I also think she will not sympathise with Swara’s lies when they come out. I would not if I was Tanvi or Ajay or Janki or Vaibhav.

I agree with all of your points regarding Swara-Tanvi relationship.I don't think Tanvi is not happy with Swara's budding relations with Ajanta just because of egg wala kand or Rahul's accident in both cases Ajanta is not guilty and it was not her fault.Tanvi hasn't come to terms or you know kind of forgived Ajanta for what she has done the in the past as she still holds responsible Ajanta for their home wreckage.It could be possible that if it had didn't happen Tanvi would have seen Vaibhav his son though adopted to Swara his childhood and his growth in her own eyes in one home.She didn't have to be seperated from her son and they all could be lived as one big happy family and could have provided help to Vaibhav and Ajay instead of them seeking help to his Mama.But because of Ajanta this family got seperated and Tanvi got seperated from his son she still holds her responsible and I know Dumbnoj played his part too but I think she is little biased to him as he is his husband's brother or probably blame Ajanta for this too.

Comparing Ajanta and Swara's motherhood both have their faults and shortcomings as a ideal mother.Ajanta was not insecure but she was so into her 'putra moh' she even defended all the wrong doings of his son till the last moment and Swara's insecurity is there for everyone to see.I agree Swara will become a headache and all the possible drama or issues in Vaibhav's truth storyline will be at Swara's end only.And if by any chance Vaibhav jumps ship to Tanvi (after revelation)then I can't imagine how will swara react.Swara in her insecurity can and will cause damage to all her existing relationship.

Rather than them I will prefer Janki maa she was neither insecure nor she was blinded by any of her son's and daughter love.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

I don’t think they blame her, but there is a lot of resentment which makes sense because Manoj never disclosed about his relationship before leaving the house.

And I think Ajanta also had a superiority complex which showed in the beginning. As a viewer, even I could sense that she looked down on the others for some reason. It could be because we were also biased against her but she was very snooty.

I think Tanvi is weirded out by the timing. There was never a talk between everyone or anything, just suddenly they are BFFs which is very sus, no?

Isliye I also think she will not sympathise with Swara’s lies when they come out. I would not if I was Tanvi or Ajay or Janki or Vaibhav.

Well I do think they blame Ajanta not fully maybe but somewhat cos she was the reason Dumbnoj left the house. I feel Tanjay more cos they still keep addressing her as khubsurat bala which kinda shows their resentment since Vijay was more close to dumbnoj & the most affected by him leaving after Ss Devi & Manisha.

Agreed Ajanta had this strange superiority complex in the initial episodes. Like she is some hoor ki pari or some maharani but they've toned it down recently. If u remember she wasn't even a bit interested in returning to MWG in the initial episodes. Definitely she was snooty we being biased or unbiased doesn't make a difference.

Yup Tanvi is more miffed at the suddenness of this friendship than the friendship itself. As a viewer it is weird for me too. So no wonder Tanvi is thinking like this.

Ofcourse she won't sympathise with Swara when the truth comes out that's for sure. I don't think anyone will apart from someone(iykyk) 😉😉.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

I agree with all of your points regarding Swara-Tanvi relationship.I don't think Tanvi is not happy with Swara's budding relations with Ajanta just because of egg wala kand or Rahul's accident in both cases Ajanta is not guilty and it was not her fault.Tanvi hasn't come to terms or you know kind of forgived Ajanta for what she has done the in the past as she still holds responsible Ajanta for their home wreckage.It could be possible that if it had didn't happen Tanvi would have seen Vaibhav his son though adopted to Swara his childhood and his growth in her own eyes in one home.She didn't have to be seperated from her son and they all could be lived as one big happy family and could have provided help to Vaibhav and Ajay instead of them seeking help to his Mama.But because of Ajanta this family got seperated and Tanvi got seperated from his son she still holds her responsible and I know Dumbnoj played his part too but I think she is little biased to him as he is his husband's brother or probably blame Ajanta for this too.

Comparing Ajanta and Swara's motherhood both have their faults and shortcomings as a ideal mother.Ajanta was not insecure but she was so into her 'putra moh' she even defended all the wrong doings of his son till the last moment and Swara's insecurity is there for everyone to see.I agree Swara will become a headache and all the possible drama or issues in Vaibhav's truth storyline will be at Swara's end only.And if by any chance Vaibhav jumps ship to Tanvi (after revelation)then I can't imagine how will swara react.Swara in her insecurity can and will cause damage to all her existing relationship.

Rather than them I will prefer Janki maa she was neither insecure nor she was blinded by any of her son's and daughter love.

P.S : I ran through an issue tagging you as I never used tagging option before.But I will seriously loved all of your thoughts on this matter.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

I agree with all of your points regarding Swara-Tanvi relationship.I don't think Tanvi is not happy with Swara's budding relations with Ajanta just because of egg wala kand or Rahul's accident in both cases Ajanta is not guilty and it was not her fault.Tanvi hasn't come to terms or you know kind of forgived Ajanta for what she has done the in the past as she still holds responsible Ajanta for their home wreckage.It could be possible that if it had didn't happen Tanvi would have seen Vaibhav his son though adopted to Swara his childhood and his growth in her own eyes in one home.She didn't have to be seperated from her son and they all could be lived as one big happy family and could have provided help to Vaibhav and Ajay instead of them seeking help to his Mama.But because of Ajanta this family got seperated and Tanvi got seperated from his son she still holds her responsible and I know Dumbnoj played his part too but I think she is little biased to him as he is his husband's brother or probably blame Ajanta for this too.

Comparing Ajanta and Swara's motherhood both have their faults and shortcomings as a ideal mother.Ajanta was not insecure but she was so into her 'putra moh' she even defended all the wrong doings of his son till the last moment and Swara's insecurity is there for everyone to see.I agree Swara will become a headache and all the possible drama or issues in Vaibhav's truth storyline will be at Swara's end only.And if by any chance Vaibhav jumps ship to Tanvi (after revelation)then I can't imagine how will swara react.Swara in her insecurity can and will cause damage to all her existing relationship.

Rather than them I will prefer Janki maa she was neither insecure nor she was blinded by any of her son's and daughter love.

Bang on dude. The main issue Tanvi has with Ajanta is her being partly responsible for home wreckage. Egg wala kand, Rahul's accident r nthg in front of that. Ajanta too wasn't saintly in the earlier episodes as we've seen & both Tanvi & Swara were equally pissed with her.

Swara & Ajanta's friendship can de described as chor cho mausere bhai. Both have their shortcomings as a mother & have done a whole lot of mistakes Ajanta in her Putra moh & swara in her insecurity which is why Swara sympathises with Ajanta. This was clearly shown in their convo after Rahul's accident.

Sabha sampat Devi might be better but still she has her own shortcomings I mean who fixes their own son's marriage without asking his wish that's a different story that Dumbnoj was an idiot & didn't had a spine. Overall I would say all the parents 1st & 2nd gen r messed up the levels & situations vary. I really wonder how come Rahul, Rohit, Golu & Mini r so sorted ( not including Mauli cos she's adopted).

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Bang on dude. The main issue Tanvi has with Ajanta is her being partly responsible for home wreckage. Egg wala kand, Rahul's accident r nthg in front of that. Ajanta too wasn't saintly in the earlier episodes as we've seen & both Tanvi & Swara were equally pissed with her.

Swara & Ajanta's friendship can de described as chor cho mausere bhai. Both have their shortcomings as a mother & have done a whole lot of mistakes Ajanta in her Putra moh & swara in her insecurity which is why Swara sympathises with Ajanta. This was clearly shown in their convo after Rahul's accident.

Sabha sampat Devi might be better but still she has her own shortcomings I mean who fixes their own son's marriage without asking his wish that's a different story that Dumbnoj was an idiot & didn't had a spine. Overall I would say all the parents 1st & 2nd gen r messed up the levels & situations vary. I really wonder how come Rahul, Rohit, Golu & Mini r so sorted ( not including Mauli cos she's adopted).

I also not like Janki maa that much but compared to Tanvi and Swara she is way better the children are sorted probably they never got involved in this kind of family which really improved their self growth as an individual varna yaha thode din aur rehenge toh unka bhi dimaag kharab hona shuru ho jaaiga(some effects can be seen in Rahul at brief moments) and Mini did kinda done some dumb things in her storyline.Borderline point is the main problem is all the people in that house they are not united still in their minds and they still have issues to deal with.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

I also not like Janki maa that much but compared to Tanvi and Swara she is way better the children are sorted probably they never got involved in this kind of family which really improved their self growth as an individual varna yaha thode din aur rehenge toh unka bhi dimaag kharab hona shuru ho jaaiga(some effects can be seen in Rahul at brief moments) and Mini did kinda done some dumb things in her storyline.Borderline point is the main problem is all the people in that house they are not united still in their minds and they still have issues to deal with.

Agreed. Yeah the children r quite sorted but as u said the effects of being in this NWG can be clearly seen in them too. Mini yes all this himmat, sass, giving it back to Vicky were all absent in the initial days. She was too meek there wo to after her rishta broke with Vicky she's got her voice credits to MauRa for that.

Rohit & Golu nthg much about them they appear sorted but kuch mamlon me unka bhi dimag kharab hi hai.

Now coming to my fav man who's not leaving a stone unturned in irritating me these days 🤣😜. I feel staying in this NWG has done the most harm till now to my Mr. Smartie & his smart brain cells. Ab lag rha hai ki jo bache kuche braincells hai wo bhi mar Jaye is se pehle he should leave this NWG asap with Mauli mahan ofc.

Ok so let's discuss how irritated r u all with Rahul & his lack of realisation express in a crazy way & do give crazy scenarios for his love realisation.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Agreed. Yeah the children r quite sorted but as u said the effects of being in this NWG can be clearly seen in them too. Mini yes all this himmat, sass, giving it back to Vicky were all absent in the initial days. She was too meek there wo to after her rishta broke with Vicky she's got her voice credits to MauRa for that.

Rohit & Golu nthg much about them they appear sorted but kuch mamlon me unka bhi dimag kharab hi hai.

Now coming to my fav man who's not leaving a stone unturned in irritating me these days 🤣😜. I feel staying in this NWG has done the most harm till now to my Mr. Smartie & his smart brain cells. Ab lag rha hai ki jo bache kuche braincells hai wo bhi mar Jaye is se pehle he should leave this NWG asap with Mauli mahan ofc.

Ok so let's discuss how irritated r u all with Rahul & his lack of realisation express in a crazy way & do give crazy scenarios for his love realisation.

I’ll give my thoughts on the idiot we love later 😂

But Mini was not sorted. Not just the spine thing but she was horrible to Manisha in the beginning about not wanting the brothers in the house. She said something like Manisha doesn’t need to come to the wedding or something like that. Golu and Rohit are like 20 year olds so they have time to mature.

All the mothers have their Mahabharat complex -

Ajanta - Gandhari

Swara - Also Gandhari

Tanvi - Kunti-ish

Chachi - does not have a voice. Too meek. Too subservient.

Janki - I think she did ask before Manoj’s wedding, he left like one day before the wedding, nahi? Isliye baraat went back. I think he just lacked a spine which he till date lacks.

I like that he trusts Mauli but he tends to make everything her issue. And just expects her to solve it.

What is nwg??

Originally posted by: Satrangi_Curls

What is nwg??

It's nasamjho wala ghar