Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #1 - Page 77

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Night duty so didn’t watch episode yet but caught a few scenes.

Rati is noticing the closeness between MauRa and acting on it. It’s going to be a cluster-eff if engagement happens. She won’t let go without causing a huge hungama.

The breaking of the kangans implies that nope, the wedding isn’t going to happen. Chachi being chuffed at that is just so funny. Lol

Tanvi isn’t going to forgive Swara easily if she realises that Swara kept Vaibhav away from the family and with his Mamas who treated him bad, when the truth comes out. Truthfully speaking, they actually might have come to an understanding about finances for Vaibhav in childhood but Swara in her insecurity has caused Vaibhav a disservice (although I hate the clown). Why did she ask her insufferable brothers and not the two people who would have happily given Vaibhav everything without telling him the truth that they are his parents. As a mother, I think Swara messed up big time. She put herself and her feelings and insecurity about Vaibhav’s feelings which is wrong and makes me hate her. Ajanta is better imo. She put Manas above everything, even her marriage - she did a lot of wrong things but kept Manas in the front of her mind and helped him in what way she thought was fine.
Even now, she is thinking about herself, and not seeing how much Vaibhav relishes the opportunity. This is not motherhood or mamta - Mamta hoti toh she would have been happy about the opportunities he is getting. Crappy mother all around.

Rati is getting dirty & it's very clear. Like u said she won't let go of it easily if the engagement happens another reason I don't want the engagement & Rahul's realisation soon.

Yup the kangan breaking is a good sign. Well chachi wasn't chuffed about it. Infact no one knows yet.

Agreed things r gonna get very ugly between Swara Tanvi when the truth comes out about her insecurity & how Vaibhav had to suffer bcos of it & her being miffed at Swara Ajanta's closeness is also adding to the fire.

As I've said earlier the parents in this NWG r all messed up no one is sane. Everyone wants things to go their way without thinking about the children.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Night duty so didn’t watch episode yet but caught a few scenes.

Rati is noticing the closeness between MauRa and acting on it. It’s going to be a cluster-eff if engagement happens. She won’t let go without causing a huge hungama.

The breaking of the kangans implies that nope, the wedding isn’t going to happen. Chachi being chuffed at that is just so funny. Lol

Tanvi isn’t going to forgive Swara easily if she realises that Swara kept Vaibhav away from the family and with his Mamas who treated him bad, when the truth comes out. Truthfully speaking, they actually might have come to an understanding about finances for Vaibhav in childhood but Swara in her insecurity has caused Vaibhav a disservice (although I hate the clown). Why did she ask her insufferable brothers and not the two people who would have happily given Vaibhav everything without telling him the truth that they are his parents. As a mother, I think Swara messed up big time. She put herself and her feelings and insecurity about Vaibhav’s feelings which is wrong and makes me hate her. Ajanta is better imo. She put Manas above everything, even her marriage - she did a lot of wrong things but kept Manas in the front of her mind and helped him in what way she thought was fine.
Even now, she is thinking about herself, and not seeing how much Vaibhav relishes the opportunity. This is not motherhood or mamta - Mamta hoti toh she would have been happy about the opportunities he is getting. Crappy mother all around.

Swara is selfish is true but even if she had kept Vaibhav in MWG instead of her brother's house, Vijay and Tanvi were not here. Neither did they reach out to the family to find out how everyone was.

So either way, Vaibhav would be having the life what his father Ajay could provide.

Of course there would have been a huge difference in the terms of the love he received from the grandparents in MWG as compared to his Mamas house.

Swara has wronged her husband Ajay who doesn't know the truth that his family refused the money from Swara's family. And as you said yes she has wronged Vaibhav by keeping him away from his real home.

Tanvi doesn't like Ajanta and she's not secure with the budding friendship between Swara and Ajanta.

Is that because of the egg issue? In that case Tanvi should know the truth of who really did it.

Frankly I didn't expect Janki ma to let the blame remain on Ajanta.

And Tanvi shouldn't hold Ajanta responsible for Rahul's accident. To Ajanta's credit, she helped to get Rahul admitted in the hospital and encouraged Mauli to do the treatment. She informed the family. She did all the right things there.

Tanvi's anger towards her seems baseless.

Ajanta maybe a messed up woman in terms of Manas but she has not harmed anyone in that house. Whatever her mistakes are is limited to Manas, Mauli and Manoj. Nowhere she went beyond that.

The decision for Manoj to leave the house all those years ago was his own. He didn't have the guts to tell his parents that he wanted to marry a girl of his choice.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

The episode begins with ball going in the air everyone anxious. Ball finally crosses the boundary & it's a six 🎉🎉. Everyone happy & r hugging each other. Dinosaur aunty what a priceless expression 😂 😂. Maja hi aa gaya. As expected Rauli run towards each other & hug 🤗 🤗. Mauli ke shot se us se jyada Rahul khush lg rha tha. 😍😍. Ms. Dumbnoying notices this & man the look is so satisfying 😉😉. Tanvi takes the kangan out but it's lock is broken ( waah universe ka ishara 😍😍) I so so loved it. Team takes the trophy & Sabha samapt devi invites the choudhary family for mehendi rasam. Dinosaur aunty & useless Vicky r making faces but Bheegi billi uncle agrees ( this guy is genuinely nice yaar). Maran take blessings from bheegi billi uncle & Dinosaur aunty ( which she didn't give but bheegi billi uncle made her to give). Dinosaur aunty in full on revenge mode.

Wedding preparations going on. Bade dadu & Narayan dadu discussing about preparations & Dinosaur aunty ( chote dadu called her kalesh machane wali 😂😂). Sabha samapt devi asking insecure swara & cutie chachi to grind Mehendi. The grinding begins Ajanta & Tanvi enter. Insecure Swara speaking nicely with Ajanta makes Tanvi uncomfortable ( she sounded insecure to me though). Ms. Dumnbnoying enters & swara explains the importance of grinding mehendi on silbatta & she's fascinated ( I feel pukish 🤮🤮). Tanvi puts a mehendi spot on her hand saying tumhare haath pe bhi lagegi ( sorry to break ur delusion Tanvi aunty pr Aisa kuch nhi hone wala) & she acts blushing ( I'm annoyed more 😠😠) & cutie chachi rightfully annoyed by her.

Mauli getting Manisha ready & asks her to focus on the current happiness & share a cute moment. Then Mauli leaves to get ready. In the hall Rahul is trying to fix a bulb standing on a broken stool, he stumbles Mauli thinks khudko na hurt krle at tha same time Rahul looses balance about to hit the door but Mauli mahan to the rescue. She holds him, he turns back & eyelock (ve kamleya song in the bg). Both r immersed,

M: toote stool pe khade hoke kaun light fix krta hai

R: (makes a cute face) oops sorry

M: tumhe to pata hi hai haath toote sar phoote Dr. Mauli haina dawai deneke liye

R: ye baat mujhe acche se pata hai ki mujhe kuch bhi ho jaye sabse pehle meri help krne tumhi aogi ( this guy needs to stop with his antics till he realises ☺️☺️)

Again eyelock. Ms. Dumbnoying enters asks Rahul to come with her he refuses she drags him practically. Mauli mahan upset seeing them. Jate jate bhi Rahul utters ur wish is my command to Mauli. ( Uh this guy what is he upto). Clown couple r excited about getting passports. Sorted bhaiya asks them to wait a little.Choudhary's enter. Vile aunty is planning smthg & has sent Vicky to meet someone.

Rahul Golu Mauli discussing hw this marriage is happening & how loving partner is necessary. Mauli says not everyone is lucky. Ms. Dumbnoying enters & starts bakwas abt her married life, Golu teasing Rahul ( is it only me r was Rahul actually uncomfortable with this whole convo). Ms. Dumbnoying wants to be Mauli's friend so that she can find out about her feelings for Rahul she's getting uncomfortable ( I'm satisfied).

Rahul starts clicking pics if everyone. Mauli's turn her bindi is not right he goes to adjust ( Gosh he wants everything about her to be perfect 🤭🤭). Mauli refuses him to clicking pics but he clicks saying photo ki khubsurti dekhne wale ki Nazar me hoti hai. He then asks Rati hws Mauli looking in the pic she says I don't know. Mr. Smartie says jiska Dil Mauli ki tarah Sundar ho wo hamesha Sundar hi lagte hai be it in pic or irl. Function ends. Vile aunty talks to Vicky & he says the guy wants to meet her. She says I'll destroy this house. Episode ends.

Precap: vile aunty meets that guy & he seems to have a hidden agenda with the family & he too seeks revenge.

Loved all the Rauli moments. Rati is in full on vamp mode now & I won't be surprised if she joins hands with Dinosaur aunty & new Gunda uncle. Do comment ur thoughts guys.

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All RauLi moments were beautiful.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Liked all the RauLi scenes today.

Rahul makes me think that uske mind mein, he has friendzoned Mauli so hard that he doesn’t see how any of his actions can be construed as romantic.

I love him but itna dense hai woh in these matters. Rati is able to see his feelings better than he is.

Mauli really needs to concentrate on the wedding and completely ignore both Rahul and Rati except in friendly situations. Rahul needs a kick in the pants for his realisation.

I think they will have a big revelation on the engagement day where either he realises that he loved Mauli or that Rati has done some vampish stuff to separate RauLi.

Trying so hard to use RauLi instead of MauRa 😂

At this point of time I'm so frustrated with Rahul ki kya hi bataun. The guy goes all praises for her gets close to her flirts with her does everything but there is no realisation. I really wanna know what's going on in his mind. I do love Rahul 🙈🙈 a lot but seeing him being so dumb regarding his own feelings is disappointing. The only way for him to realise his feelings as of now is Mauli's ignorance. She needs to avoid him like he doesn't even exist, be rude with him & shouldn't even allow him to come close to her ( like maintain 1 hand distance). Maybe then his realisations will kick in.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Swara is selfish is true but even if she had kept Vaibhav in MWG instead of her brother's house, Vijay and Tanvi were not here. Neither did they reach out to the family to find out how everyone was.

So either way, Vaibhav would be having the life what his father Ajay could provide.

Of course there would have been a huge difference in the terms of the love he received from the grandparents in MWG as compared to his Mamas house.

Swara has wronged her husband Ajay who doesn't know the truth that his family refused the money from Swara's family. And as you said yes she has wronged Vaibhav by keeping him away from his real home.

Tanvi doesn't like Ajanta and she's not secure with the budding friendship between Swara and Ajanta.

Is that because of the egg issue? In that case Tanvi should know the truth of who really did it.

Frankly I didn't expect Janki ma to let the blame remain on Ajanta.

And Tanvi shouldn't hold Ajanta responsible for Rahul's accident. To Ajanta's credit, she helped to get Rahul admitted in the hospital and encouraged Mauli to do the treatment. She informed the family. She did all the right things there.

Tanvi's anger towards her seems baseless.

Ajanta maybe a messed up woman in terms of Manas but she has not harmed anyone in that house. Whatever her mistakes are is limited to Manas, Mauli and Manoj. Nowhere she went beyond that.

The decision for Manoj to leave the house all those years ago was his own. He didn't have the guts to tell his parents that he wanted to marry a girl of his choice.

Honestly, it’s always upto the party who needs the help to seek out the other one. TanJay didn’t need it but SwarJay did and on top of it, their son needed it. A son who biologically belonged to someone else who could and would have helped with no strings attached if they wanted or knew about the Maayka conditions. I sympathise with TanJay a little more because they have shown time and again on the show that Swara does not want them to have a bond with Vaibhav. She is passive aggressive and very manipulative about it and I don’t know what rights they would have had at that time. They couldn’t and in principle shouldn’t have maintained a relationship with Vaibhav without their consent which Swara would not have given without a fight. Not even telling them about Vaibhav being married or having a kid was the final nail in that coffin. All TanJay have been doing since they have caught a glimpse of Vaibhav is trying to level the playing field between their children as Chacha-Chachi. Which is fine because they held up to their decision to not pursuing a relationship with their biological son to the best of their ability till Vaibhav started to actually whine to them about it. Jab woh help maang raha hai, toh they would have to be monsters to not do it.

Swara is actually the biggest villain in the show at this point and I think I talked about it 2-3 weeks ago extensively. Because she has lied and manipulated her husband for 24 years. He believes he sacrificed his life for his family while his family lived in poverty. I feel terrible for him because he lost everything and all the love he could have had because of someone else’s lies.

But I just think that this is not motherhood. It’s selfishness and very abusive at that. In reality, most people would divorce their spouse for such a huge lie. But here they will show that it was done due to motherhood and mamta which grates my nerves. Because it is not that. Not by a long shot.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Nice episode yesterday.

Vish you got a beautiful RauLi hug. Mauli also was happy in that winning hug.

Only Rati was not happy and that was expected.

Oh I just loved Dinosaur ka chehra

But Billi uncle seems a better person than his wife and son. Shayad isliye Karan is a good man. Vicky sirf apne maa pe gaya hai.

Nice and cute RauLi moments yesterday. Mauli saving Rahul from falling down and the bindi adjusting moment ❤️❤️❤️

Rahul's dialogues to Mauli are so beautiful that she gets lost in them.

And Rati ko lag jati hai aag😆😆

Chalo buaji ki mehendi rasm is done.

As expected Dinosaur is planning to take revenge.. Ye aunty kabhi sudhregi nahi. She's getting Mauli ka agla mission ready.

Yesterday's episode was good only bcos of Rauli moments. That hug 😍😍. Both were so happy & Rati so gross 😂😂. I enjoyed it thoroughly I'm glad we didn't get to see Sabha samapt devi & her unch neech wala mind voice small mercy 😁😁. Dinosaur aunty oh how I loved her look & how pissed of she was 🤣😅. Obvio bheegi billi uncle is a genuine guy & is coming across better than the useless mother & son.

I much as I'm loving & enjoying all the Rauli moments I'm getting irritated with Rahul & his oh so casual behaviour 😌😌. He can sense Mauli's inner turmoil by looking at her but can't get the direct hints she's giving. What the hell is wrong with him? And I could've understood if all eyelocks were one sided but he too is equally involved in them. Yet he's too casual. ( Sry for the rant blame Rahul & his incoherent behaviour 😜😜).

Dinosaur aunty aur uska nikkamma beta kbhi nhi sudharne wale. Kaand pe kand krte rhenge. Now this new Gunda uncle who is supposedly Manisha's ex fiance seems trouble. Let's see how this goes.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Swara is selfish is true but even if she had kept Vaibhav in MWG instead of her brother's house, Vijay and Tanvi were not here. Neither did they reach out to the family to find out how everyone was.

So either way, Vaibhav would be having the life what his father Ajay could provide.

Of course there would have been a huge difference in the terms of the love he received from the grandparents in MWG as compared to his Mamas house.

Swara has wronged her husband Ajay who doesn't know the truth that his family refused the money from Swara's family. And as you said yes she has wronged Vaibhav by keeping him away from his real home.

Tanvi doesn't like Ajanta and she's not secure with the budding friendship between Swara and Ajanta.

Is that because of the egg issue? In that case Tanvi should know the truth of who really did it.

Frankly I didn't expect Janki ma to let the blame remain on Ajanta.

And Tanvi shouldn't hold Ajanta responsible for Rahul's accident. To Ajanta's credit, she helped to get Rahul admitted in the hospital and encouraged Mauli to do the treatment. She informed the family. She did all the right things there.

Tanvi's anger towards her seems baseless.

Ajanta maybe a messed up woman in terms of Manas but she has not harmed anyone in that house. Whatever her mistakes are is limited to Manas, Mauli and Manoj. Nowhere she went beyond that.

The decision for Manoj to leave the house all those years ago was his own. He didn't have the guts to tell his parents that he wanted to marry a girl of his choice.

Swara in her insecurity has wronged both Ajay & clown. How much ever justification she gives it's unacceptable. Tanvi being miffed at Swara Ajanta's budding friendship is as u said illogical & blaming Ajanta for Rahul's accident too. But can't blame her too completely cos Ajanta has in her love for Manas blamed Rahul n no of times drng the Manas track.

As u've said Ajanta can't be blamed for Dumbnoj leaving the house that was his own choice.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

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All RauLi moments were beautiful.

😍😍. Those were the only good parts of an otherwise okish episode.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Honestly, it’s always upto the party who needs the help to seek out the other one. TanJay didn’t need it but SwarJay did and on top of it, their son needed it. A son who biologically belonged to someone else who could and would have helped with no strings attached if they wanted or knew about the Maayka conditions. I sympathise with TanJay a little more because they have shown time and again on the show that Swara does not want them to have a bond with Vaibhav. She is passive aggressive and very manipulative about it and I don’t know what rights they would have had at that time. They couldn’t and in principle shouldn’t have maintained a relationship with Vaibhav without their consent which Swara would not have given without a fight. Not even telling them about Vaibhav being married or having a kid was the final nail in that coffin. All TanJay have been doing since they have caught a glimpse of Vaibhav is trying to level the playing field between their children as Chacha-Chachi. Which is fine because they held up to their decision to not pursuing a relationship with their biological son to the best of their ability till Vaibhav started to actually whine to them about it. Jab woh help maang raha hai, toh they would have to be monsters to not do it.

Swara is actually the biggest villain in the show at this point and I think I talked about it 2-3 weeks ago extensively. Because she has lied and manipulated her husband for 24 years. He believes he sacrificed his life for his family while his family lived in poverty. I feel terrible for him because he lost everything and all the love he could have had because of someone else’s lies.

But I just think that this is not motherhood. It’s selfishness and very abusive at that. In reality, most people would divorce their spouse for such a huge lie. But here they will show that it was done due to motherhood and mamta which grates my nerves. Because it is not that. Not by a long shot.

I totally agree with you. Tanjay r just trying to help out their child & not claiming any rights on him as of now. Yeah they're going overboard but still understandable at some point. But Swara & her insecurity isn't. The son whom she's so possession about isn't actually hers in the first place. Imagine if at all Tanvi hadn't given up on Vaibhav willingly she wouldn't even have a child.

Plus Tanjay both have clearly said that all they want is Vaibhav's happiness & nthg else. But insecure Swara is not even seeing the opportunity her clown son is getting which he wouldn't even stand chance if not for Tanjay.

All in all they're just complicating the family dynamics by all these nuances so that Mauli mahan steps up & salvages the situation 🤣😁

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Honestly, it’s always upto the party who needs the help to seek out the other one. TanJay didn’t need it but SwarJay did and on top of it, their son needed it. A son who biologically belonged to someone else who could and would have helped with no strings attached if they wanted or knew about the Maayka conditions. I sympathise with TanJay a little more because they have shown time and again on the show that Swara does not want them to have a bond with Vaibhav. She is passive aggressive and very manipulative about it and I don’t know what rights they would have had at that time. They couldn’t and in principle shouldn’t have maintained a relationship with Vaibhav without their consent which Swara would not have given without a fight. Not even telling them about Vaibhav being married or having a kid was the final nail in that coffin. All TanJay have been doing since they have caught a glimpse of Vaibhav is trying to level the playing field between their children as Chacha-Chachi. Which is fine because they held up to their decision to not pursuing a relationship with their biological son to the best of their ability till Vaibhav started to actually whine to them about it. Jab woh help maang raha hai, toh they would have to be monsters to not do it.

Swara is actually the biggest villain in the show at this point and I think I talked about it 2-3 weeks ago extensively. Because she has lied and manipulated her husband for 24 years. He believes he sacrificed his life for his family while his family lived in poverty. I feel terrible for him because he lost everything and all the love he could have had because of someone else’s lies.

But I just think that this is not motherhood. It’s selfishness and very abusive at that. In reality, most people would divorce their spouse for such a huge lie. But here they will show that it was done due to motherhood and mamta which grates my nerves. Because it is not that. Not by a long shot.

I do get what you're saying. Swara has made her husband live a life of lie. He did not deserve that because he sacrificed himself for his family's financial crisis and ultimately they didn't even use it.

She did wrong Ajay and Vaibhav too.

Even I don't think her selfishness can be attributed to motherhood. A mother thinks more about her child's welfare and future more than their own issues.

Yes Swara is a villain and she would totally deserve it if Ajay and Vaibhav disregard her.

I do feel for Vijay and Tanvi. They do care for Swara and Ajay's feelings and helping out as chacha Chachi. The only thing they are helping without being asked. Vaibhav did not ask them. He just lamented his feelings to Vijay and TanJay decided to help him. It's not wrong. Unfortunately they didn't think to include Swara and Ajay in their plan. While Ajay is sorted and wants the best for his son even if he can't provide it, Swara is not so sorted. Her mind is only fixed on keeping Vaibhav close to her and not let him have even a decent uncle aunt relationship also with TanJay.

She is messing up the things herself and defo going to face backlash.

My post was only about Tanvi and Ajanta's equation.

But though till now Ajanta hasn't done anything, she may probably speak in support of Swara..😂 then her redemption will again go to hell.

I may have missed your earlier posts.