Raghav-Pallavi, a happy ending??? |DT P.2, 9 - Page 6

Originally posted by: euphoric

Just because he has abandonment issues doesn't make him a coward. It's his issues that he keeps fighting with. He was mustering up courage to tell her... Not sure if you have seen the episodes but he did try telling her... Infact he did confess but she didn't hear. The day she found out, he had resolved to confess and face the consequences.

Where was this guilt when arranged for a honeymoon? Like really? According to him, he had slept with another woman but still he arranges for honeymoon. How sweet and good of him. I'm proud of R here 😊

There's a difference of intent over here. He wasn't actively cheating. Emotionally manipulated, yes! He was not a consensual partner that night.

Sorry he was not emotionally manipulated to spend the night. Esha didnot force him to stop by. It was his choice. We donot know what happened so let's reserve our comments about the ONS night. The events before and after the ONS is more disgusting because ONS could have been a ploy, but him hiding the truth from Pallavi was not. It was a choice he took consciously. Choices donot deserve second chances. Period..

Pallavi is no docile damsel in distress to begin with to be stuck in a toxic marriage. Thank God for that!

Nobody said Pallavi is a damsel in distress. Neither is Raghav. Not my original post nor my friend mentioned that. She is not abla naari. But yes Pallavi is stuck in a toxic marriage. It is just that the producer doesnot have the guts to show that the lady has dumped her cheating husband.

And if I had someone like Pallavi as a close associate I would rather let them take their own decision instead force my opinions on them. I would support the choice irrespective of the fact if it's reconciliation or divorce. Afterall, she has to live her life and the aftermath of her decision not me, so who am I to judge.

It is Pallavi's opinion finally. Nobody is saying if Pallavi goes back to her husband she is wrong or she would be judged. Just that it is something that I wouldn't recommend. There is not one word about us judging Pallavi.

Sorry to jump and quote. I just had to say a few things.

Two things Sonia. First, it is not necessary that everyone should accept and see eye to eye on a perosn's characteristics. Not necessary. Everyone are allowed to have their opinions. After all, nothing world changing would happen if you and me don't agree .

2. You want happy Ending for Raghav-Pallavi? Great. I donot want such an ending. It is my perspective and there is no one in this damn world who can make me think differently. It is not necessary to make a counter post in my thread to convey your comments. I hope you will understand.

Peace ✌️

Originally posted by: fria319

I just wanted to reply to this part:

I know multiple people that did go through something similar. It was a similar kind of betrayal, with a far far worse outcome. I don't want to spill their stories all over the internet but I'll just tell you that these couples were married and had more invested into their relationship than what we're seeing on MHRW.

My gut reaction when I heard about these similar betrayals was to curse out their husbands. And I did, in my head. But that's not what I told them to their faces. They didn't need that from me. They were too heartbroken to want to deal with someone couldn't understand their conflicting emotions.

You know what I told one of the women? I told her to decide for herself what she wanted. I asked her if the pain of his mistake was worse than the pain of being without him. Because being in love with someone doesn't come easy, nor does it come multiple times for everyone. I told her that if she truly loved her husband then there was nothing shameful or wrong about wanting to make it work. Because there is nothing wrong with that. There is no one rule book that we must follow in our lives.

Just because we, an outsider, may think that x person is not good enough for y person, doesn't mean that y person actually thinks that way. Just because we may may not be able to move past something, doesn't mean that y person won't.

Love has no reason. There's no black and white way of looking at this because we're talking about feelings here. These are emotions that you can't just switch off because someone did something that hurt you. If you could then I don't think it was real love to begin with.

Yes, Love has no reason. It is not like switching on and off. She will be devastated. She already is. But zindagi mein isske baad aise situation nahi aayega if this relationship finishes here. Where there is a clear imbalance in relationship, woh zyada der tak tikega nahi. Raghav needs a psychiatrist. Desperately. Pallavi cannot get rid of his demons for him. He has to take up that initiative. Zindagi bhar she cannot baby sit and keep giving him chances. I don't believe that's true love too.

I always want my friends to be happy - to find their happiness. If that happiness lies in/with someone that i still don't even approve of, what has that got to do with me? If she's happy in that relationship, then she just is. I don't need to dig into it deeper than that. Who am I to determine what makes someone else happy?

Fria. A word. Nowhere in my post have I mentioned that I would judge Pallavi if she chooses to go back to her husband. Absolutely nowhere. Ultimately her life, her decisons matter. Meine kaha, I wouldn't recommend it to my fellow friend. I wouldn't force my friend to accept my decision because it's life, and as a friend all I can do is support. But. But, I would do my best to dissuade her from taking that step. That's all. It's my contention that once a cheater always a cheater. Ek baar karliya toh dubara nahi karega isaka koi guarantee nahi and yes life is all about taking risks. But trust is a sensitive issue and it is not something I would take lightly. Zindagi mein aage jaake there will always be a trust issue. Bas itna hi.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Just because he has abandonment issues doesn't make him a coward. It's his issues that he keeps fighting with. He was mustering up courage to tell her... Not sure if you have seen the episodes but he did try telling her... Infact he did confess but she didn't hear. The day she found out, he had resolved to confess and face the consequences.

There's a difference of intent over here. He wasn't actively cheating. Emotionally manipulated, yes! He was not a consensual partner that night.

Pallavi is no docile damsel in distress to begin with to be stuck in a toxic marriage. Thank God for that!

And if I had someone like Pallavi as a close associate I would rather let them take their own decision instead force my opinions on them. I would support the choice irrespective of the fact if it's reconciliation or divorce. Afterall, she has to live her life and the aftermath of her decision not me, so who am I to judge.

Soni the bottom line remains that Pallavi will eventually acknowledge Raghav's genuine repentance and forgive him for what he did (cheating or not) and go back to him. We all know the truth that he was raped by Esha and she will hopefully be punished for it.

I wish the forgiveness from Pallavi comes before the truth is out coz that would be path breaking for Indian TV. Forgiving a repenting spouse doesn't mean she doesn't have self-respect, it shows that she values her love and relationship more. Interestingly, Pallavi had also accepted Raghav in Hyderabad track when he repented (when she didn't even love him).

Let her decide what she wants to do with her life, she's a smart cookie and will test Raghav before she decides to give him another chance. We can already see her starting to melt in today's episode, it's just a matter of time. She can see his efforts and his love and once her anger subsides she will no longer question his love for her.

In a way, I'm glad no one is forcing Pallavi to go back to Raghav and it will be her own choice (unlike what is shown on itv normally). Her entire family is there to back her decision, whatever it may be, which is again an exception - this is what feminism stands for.

How can we decide for Pallavi or for our friend what they should do, unki life unki marzi. Aaj koi kitna bhi support kare, no one will come to be by her in the long run. Abhi duniya bhale hi judge kare usko as no self-respect or whatever, it doesn't matter. She gets to live the life she chose for herself.

Pallavi will make me proud and inspire several woman to take their own decisions without considering any emotional blackmail or family pressure just by listening to and following their heart. I'm glad MHRW decided to show this as the end coz it made the show all the more beautiful for me.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Pallavi will make me proud and inspire several woman to take their own decisions without considering any emotional blackmail or family pressure just by listening to and following their heart. I'm glad MHRW decided to show this as the end coz it made the show all the more beautiful for me.

Whose emotional blackmail? Lol , everyone including Sanki is pushing her towards Raghav😆.

Whatever he says but truth is eod Raghav earned 27833734th second chance also due to his agni oops Pyaar pareeksha which was kind of emotional blackmail.

Pallavi had decided to follow her heart and focus on her work . These ppl aren’t letting her do that or even soak in everything .

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Makers ghista pita Raghvi kya karte hai track to do fan service , what a unique idea Sickand Ji 😎. Pehle itv couple to get HEA .

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Pallavi will make me proud and inspire several woman to take their own decisions without considering any emotional blackmail or family pressure just by listening to and following their heart. I'm glad MHRW decided to show this as the end coz it made the show all the more beautiful for me.

So Raghav walking over coal or following and pestering her 24\7 isn't emotional blackmailing and Aayi, VD and Kaka are not at all supporting RR and asking P to give him a chance.

It looks like we are watching 2 different shows dear.

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

Whose emotional blackmail? Lol , everyone including Sanki is pushing her towards Raghav😆.

Whatever he says but truth is eod Raghav earned 27833734th second chance also due to his agni oops Pyaar pareeksha which was kind of emotional blackmail.

Pallavi had decided to follow her heart and focus on her work . These ppl aren’t letting her do that or even soak in everything .

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Makers ghista pita Raghvi kya karte hai track to do fan service , what a unique idea Sickand Ji 😎. Pehle itv couple to get HEA .

Btw what is unique idea & HEA?

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Hello rado how are you??

Btw what is unique idea & HEA?

Hello Aloo , I’m good 😳

My radiant eyes got cleansed after watching apni oops pyaar pareeksha 😭. Posting from heaven right now 😎

Unique idea is HEA Aloo , RaghVi is first itv couple to get it after all (ig) 😎.

So after husband has cheated and wife has decided to move on what all can Sandip do to give this unique ending? 🤔

• Show Husband was drugged that night ,and blissfully ignore all problematic things he did after that night , so after this wifey will come running to him and not even bother to ask - bhai why did you bring your ex home & served her while treating me like trash , though you very well knew you cheated on me and not her .
• Or maybe to solve that problem , he can go further and show husband was under BM after that night ( what a mind blowing realistic concept 🤯)
• Or to solve all these problems more easily , he’ll simply show that Pallavi got to know about night before Diwali eve and later how Esha drugged and trapped RR so this fight and all was fake , Mandaar track ka copy paste basically 🤷‍♀️ , RaghVi vs Ex and her ex
• one thing is clear , 86.640264% probability hai that they’ll ignore how husband who declared his love to his wife kept ex’s stuff in space they share and even got all feelsy seeing it , or how he trashy he was with her whenever she asked ittu sa bhi questions about Esha 😳

Jo bhi ho , feel lucky that you’re going to see this karishma on ITV , known as Happy ending for leads 😎

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

Hello Aloo , I’m good 😳

My radiant eyes got cleansed after watching apni oops pyaar pareeksha 😭. Posting from heaven right now 😎

Unique idea is HEA Aloo , RaghVi is first itv couple to get it after all (ig) 😎.

So after husband has cheated and wife has decided to move on what all can Sandip do to give this unique ending? 🤔

• Say Husband was drugged that night ,and blissfully ignore all problematic things he did after that night , so after this wifey will come running to him and not even bother to ask - bhai why did you bring your ex home & served her while treating me like trash , though you very well knew you cheated on me and not her .
• Or maybe to solve that problem , he can go further and say husband was under BM after that night ( what a mind blowing realistic concept 🤯)

but jo bhi ho one thing is clear , 86.640264% probability hai that they’ll ignore how husband who declared his love to his wife kept ex’s stuff in space they share and even got all feelsy seeing it , or how he trashy he was with her whenever she asked ittu sa bhi questions about Esha 😳

Jo bhi ho , feel lucky that you’re going to see this karishma on ITV , known as Happy ending for leads 😎

Bro he can show anything. He can even show raghav was molested on that night. So he is all innocent. Raghvi knows everything & doing drama blah blah. Before or after that night's all drama will be bhool bhool. Because infidelity = only having sex. Emotional infidelity kya hoti hai.

From first day of this track guy is indulging in emotional infidelity. Then after that night he became more pathetic. Treating wife like a trash, making her apologise to that lady with whom he cheated on, meeting secretly with that .......

Baki his show he can show anything. At least actor is not delusional like producer. & thank god at least sai thinks raghav has cheated on pals.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Soni the bottom line remains that Pallavi will eventually acknowledge Raghav's genuine repentance and forgive him for what he did (cheating or not) and go back to him. We all know the truth that he was raped by Esha and she will hopefully be punished for it.

I wish the forgiveness from Pallavi comes before the truth is out coz that would be path breaking for Indian TV. Forgiving a repenting spouse doesn't mean she doesn't have self-respect, it shows that she values her love and relationship more. Interestingly, Pallavi had also accepted Raghav in Hyderabad track when he repented (when she didn't even love him).

Let her decide what she wants to do with her life, she's a smart cookie and will test Raghav before she decides to give him another chance. We can already see her starting to melt in today's episode, it's just a matter of time. She can see his efforts and his love and once her anger subsides she will no longer question his love for her.

In a way, I'm glad no one is forcing Pallavi to go back to Raghav and it will be her own choice (unlike what is shown on itv normally). Her entire family is there to back her decision, whatever it may be, which is again an exception - this is what feminism stands for.

How can we decide for Pallavi or for our friend what they should do, unki life unki marzi. Aaj koi kitna bhi support kare, no one will come to be by her in the long run. Abhi duniya bhale hi judge kare usko as no self-respect or whatever, it doesn't matter. She gets to live the life she chose for herself.

Pallavi will make me proud and inspire several woman to take their own decisions without considering any emotional blackmail or family pressure just by listening to and following their heart. I'm glad MHRW decided to show this as the end coz it made the show all the more beautiful for me.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sorry. Ren. Three things I would like to say. First, this is not the first show which will get an HEA despite the ML cheating or behaving like an effing jerk. That's the norm we have been seeing and Sicku's iconic, "unique" ending is the same ghisa pita plot that everyone will expect. Frankly the guy doesnot have an iota of courage to show that the FL has dumped her husband. But then his show he can show whatever he damn pleases 🤷🏻‍♀️

As for nobody forcing Pallavi, 🤣 LoL. I mean everyone is forcing her. Sicku, writers, Raghav, Aayi and VD. Aur kaun force kar saktha hai? Poor girl, I pity her state sometimes.

Second, nobody is judging Pallavi for her actions. Neither have I mentioned it my og post, nor have any fellow users. Atleast I don't think so. So yeah, jo baat humne kaha hi nahi, don't force words into our mouths, yeah?

Third, I understand you want to sympathise with R. Do na, balti bhar bhar ke do, sympathy. We are no one to stop you nor do we have the right to. India is democratic, so is India Forums. But, I would request you you something.

Asking me to sympathise or making such a post in my thread (which frankly amounts to the same) about why Raghav deserves sympathy is frankly indicating that you are trying to stuff your thoughts on me, which is kinda rude. Also, according to IF rules, this can also be counter posting. Please I request you to refrain from such arguments. A request as a friend. I hope you would consider 😊

Originally posted by: Amnnaa

So Raghav walking over coal or following and pestering her 24\7 isn't emotional blackmailing and Aayi, VD and Kaka are not at all supporting RR and asking P to give him a chance.

It looks like we are watching 2 different shows dear.

I clearly wrote in my post that she isn't considering his emotional blackmail and hence she didn't return to him today. Right now, she is testing him and will return to him only when she feels he deserves her trust and forgiveness.

As far as others are concerned, they are supporting Raghav's effort because they know he loves her but neither of them have forced Pallavi to give him another chance.

Pallavi isn't someone who will get emotionally blackmailed or threatened, she will do what her heart wants and her family (including Amma and Keerti) will support her decisions. This again has been established by the conversations shown in the past few days. You may refer back to all conversations between the family members and Pallavi.

No one leaves a family member even if they are criminal.

PS: While from Pallavi's perspective she is being emotionally blackmailed, I understand Raghav's reasons, he is unable to understand what to do. He clearly tells her today whatever he does, it is going wrong.

Also just because I have a different perspective when I watch the show that doesn't align with yours, doesn't mean I'm watching a different show, may be I wear different glasses while watching but show toh same hai jo hotstar pe hum dono ko dikhta hai.