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Posted: 3 years ago
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100% agree with everything you said. That's exactly how I feel.


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I think most of us here that you tagged Divya, and more are, in the boat of "it's Raghav and pallavi to end - let's see where this takes us"


While I'm fully aware its RaghavPallavi (I'll never use raghvi ever again) till the end, they'll end with a happy ending etc etc, it doesn't mean I don't need to vent when I'm frustrated with the characters and storyline. That's all everyone is doing right now. Before the scales were shifted against P, now it's against R. It is what it is. It's all part of viewing a show, connecting with certain characters, feeling some type of way about certain situations, etc.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:


Raghav:


1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi


3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here


Pallavi:


1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together


and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night


but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:


the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her


. Yeah i made a post too about mistakes and how Raghav should redeem himself and what should Pallavi do. We are all different and we handle hurt and pain differently. What me or you would do is nit what Pallavi would do. She is more forgiving than us as we have seen how she has been with raghav, with d family, with keerti etc and even in some ways with sunny. She knows what sunny and keerti did with mandhar and she still moved on and forgave them so here too she will forgive but yes what will hurt her most is the lying. Raghav should have told her the truth. In my opinion everyone makes mistakes and here too Raghav has made a mistake but there has to be a way to move forward. Breaking them up is not the answer. His biggest mistake in my opinion is the lying. When he returned from warangal and pallavi came to him to hug him, that should have been the time to tell her everything. That would have salvaged his character more than him pushing her away. He felt he was dirty and didnt deserve her goodness which is why he pushed her away. I get that and can move on from there but he should have come clean. Writers should have made that happen. Adding the precap just made it worse when he goes to check in on her but had he told pallavi the truth and then both go together would have been better.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:


Raghav:


1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi


3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here


Pallavi:


1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together


and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night


but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:


the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her


I agree with everything you said here well mostly except for that underlined line here . Ragahvs concern for Easha don’t you think it’s a bit too much mainly after that nights fiasco . Normally if any men goes through such a situation here it’s an one night stand presumably shouldn’t Ragahv avoid Easha after the fiasco like anything ? Why did he feel like checking up on her and caring for her necessary even now ? Well I can’t say right now how far he’s going to go as far as him caring for her is concerned but see he knows that she harbors feelings for him and even b4 the fiasco she did and he talked about being happy And all to her . So he’s not unaware per se but still instead or sending some hired help to check on her he went on his own as soon as Keerti me mentioned the words suicide and boyfriend to her . Do you think that’s right ? Is he doing the right thing by doing all these ? Most importantly is he doing the right thing by doing these behind Pallavis back ? Sorry no matter how much I try to understand him and I guess Pallavi would too bcoz she’s too forgiving as an woman and a wife I can clearly say that I can’t . So yes for me Ragahv will be overstepping the lines if he keeps any more contact with his ex which whom he had nighttime rendezvous behind Pallavis back . 👍
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Hmm hi behen I am back

I read ur post well said honey

I know RR is at absolutely at fault

But he is really guilty to take Pallavi in to his arms and I know he is dying inside 😬🙄😟

If he really don’t repent then he will really normal with Pallavi as nothing happened and cover it up as many men does that as I saw live trust me 😣😣

And coming to Pallavi now ball is in her court it’s her wish which to kick it 😣🤧

But deffinetly she will be breaking after knowing the truth

And I don’t blame her if she want to leave RR or if she decides to forgive him and stay back as everybody deserves a chance

And separating from each other is poisonous to both

Nor Pallavi can live without RR Bcz in the hospital when RR played a prank as he lost memory and couldn’t recognize her she was soo broken and almost died 🤧 imagine if they really separated in hosh and awaz

RR don’t even die with out her but he will go insane with body present and soul absent death is small thing to him 🤧

And coming to esha I don’t know what is her real motive but first she is at fault then RR Bcz he was already lost consciousness after drinking but she was not she was admiring him as she know he is married and again talking to him regarding that night is foolish 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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