Being too harsh... - Page 2

Yaar, zara socho. Aisa kuch real life mein ho toh he would be behind bars. Or maybe not, considering how the police is bought by the powerful. But definitely, it is a criminal activity and a legal offence to kidnap someone and intimidate them this way. Impulsive bad move or not, it is unlawful and that fact cannot be denied.

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I won’t say what he did wasn’t bad. It was. But I won’t call him “criminal” on the basis of an impulsive bad move , bypassing his decision making ability, made on partial evidences.

The sob story is there to enable the audience to understand what mental state he was in to go to such extremities. I’ll give him time, I’m sure he’ll be more reasonable when less angry.

Let’s embrace forgiveness over intolerance!

Originally posted by: libran90

Okay, so here is the thing.

I don't get this ITV obsession of getting the FL tortured. Dher saare tesuyen bahao aur TRP batoro ka concept is like grating on my nerves.🤔 And, that too at the hands of the ML. Ek to mujhko ye tesuyen bahana pasand nahi, aur na hi unnecessary cruelty. Zarurat kya hai?? Lekin nahi, angst dikhana hai inko. Angst dikhane ka aur koi tareeka nahi hai kya?? Kya wahi ghisa pita leke chale aate hai.

Secondly, in the context of the show, agar main rate karun, to Raghav ne jo kiya woh bahut kam lagta hai, considering he is a Don. Uske comparison me, Shivaay Singh Oberoi, RK, Arnav Singh Raizada ne jo kiya hai, usko koi beat nahi kar sakta. Phir bhi FLs aise faltu kirdaro pe marti hai. How??

Aur mujhko aur ek baat samajh nahi aata, ye MLs itne bade bade diggaj hai, lekin situation solve karne me itne nikamme kaise hai re.🤣 They have all the resources, but they still find a way to make the FLs lives miserable. To itne title, paisa aur resources ka kya fayda re, agar kaam hi nahi aayega to? Wohi FL ko misunderstand karna hai. What a waste of power.

Anyway, as I said, I expected the worst. It has not reached that point yet maybe, or it has, don't know. I am more against misunderstanding and fights being a dragfest. That is torture for us more than what Raghav does or will do to Pallavi.

I really hope the misunderstanding clears soon and Raghav repents his actions hard. Time will give him the sense he lost to rage.

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Yaar, zara socho. Aisa kuch real life mein ho toh he would be behind bars. Or maybe not, considering how the police is bought by the powerful. But definitely, it is a criminal activity and a legal offence to kidnap someone and intimidate them this way. Impulsive bad move or not, it is unlawful and that fact cannot be denied.

It is awful and unlawful too. Agreed.

What I’m trying to get across is that the actions weren’t driven by pure malice. But again “intention wasn’t physical harm” won’t change the fact that poor girl was traumatised.

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

I agree with you part about Gopi Bahu type of characters but here's the thing- nobody minds a 'flawed' character. Please do show them but don't show freaking criminal and illegal behaviour in the name of 'flawed'. And if you do have to a show a goon who indulges in such behaviour, PLEASE DON'T PROMOTE IT AS A LOVE STORY between the aggressor- aggressee (I am not sure if it's a word lol)

And yes, had he done this kidnapping and truck intimidation to Anjali, I still would've found it outrageous.

Such 'love stories' only teach girls to brush toxic and abusive behaviour under the carpet and just focus on the good.

I’m always prepared to refashion my opinions and correct myself if I’m at fault. His behaviour on highway crossed bounds, I’ll not deny that. And I will try not to beat the drum of his reasons for doing that to Pallavi.

Some( let’s say a lot) people found it disturbing but wasn’t Raghav introduced as a person who believes less in “morals” and more in “tit for tat”?

It must be the difference in opinion that I would have felt a frisson of glee if he had the same thing to Anjali. That girl literally made a mms of him. And it is not OK just because he’s a man. I wouldn’t mind if he delivers justice his way for the wrongs being done to him.

If people learn the “way of life” from television soap operas, I’m in deep despair.

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I really hope the misunderstanding clears soon and Raghav repents his actions hard. Time will give him the sense he lost to rage.

I am hoping for this drag fest to not continue more than a week. But who knows re.

exactly...even in indian series these days ...the things heroes and heroines do.. pataal lok alt balaji many serials..i can't even think of the names but they were serious SEXUAL crimes..pukeworthy. i think i will love rr he is not a molestor and he is a don so we cannot expect him to be mandir ka pujari or... tu suraj main sanjh piyaji types.. it is a slightly negative character and i am enjoying it.... as long as he too regrets and falls in love..till then he has said it time and again that he is going to take revenge... isse jyada violence to tom and jerry mein hoti hai🤣

Originally posted by: Makayla200231

Well said. Its a tv series. Much worse things happen in western TV shows. Raghavs behavior is nothing compared to what American shows are like.

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I’m always prepared to refashion my opinions and correct myself if I’m at fault. His behaviour on highway crossed bounds, I’ll not deny that. And I will try not to beat the drum of his reasons for doing that to Pallavi.

Some( let’s say a lot) people found it disturbing but wasn’t Raghav introduced as a person who believes less in “morals” and more in “tit for tat”?

It must be the difference in opinion that I would have felt a frisson of glee if he had the same thing to Anjali. That girl literally made a mms of him. And it is not OK just because he’s a man. I wouldn’t mind if he delivers justice his way for the wrongs being done to him.

If people learn the “way of life” from television soap operas, I’m in deep despair.

So true.. it’s so not okay to let the mms slide due to male.. I would love to see Anjali making a public announcement that she made it and it’s fake and she goes to jail..

Originally posted by: Roroo

So true.. it’s so not okay to let the mms slide due to male.. I would love to see Anjali making a public announcement that she made it and it’s fake and she goes to jail..

Dear god

I can’t even ....

People keep saying well it’s just TV but no reel seeps into real

THERE IS NO EXCUSE for violence against women!

Jesus is that such a hard concept to understand in 2021

Imagine that exact scene happening to your mother, sister, best friend etc

Hell I won’t even excuse this if it happened to another gender. It was beyond stupid

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I really don't wanna get into any argument and by what I'm going to say, I might sound like an immature moron to you people. But I'll say it anyway, it's not like someone will beat me up for it.

So here I go.......

We are being too harsh on Raghav. I know what he's done is not something a sane person would do. But... Did the guy appeared sane to you?

Starved too long for a word from his mom, a trusting glance from his sister, warmth of a family snatched from him. And finally when things were going fine, happiness was finally in reach, everything turned into a god damned mess. He lost it, we all do at some point.

Would we have condemned him the same way had he done that to that girl in picture? Maybe. Maybe a little less for the girl was actually at fault. Then, according to Raghav it was deliberate move on Pallavi's behalf too and she's not an innocent. He's not seeking vengeance but just attempting to avenge the pain caused to his family.

Raghav's action promotes violence and male MCP behaviour (I don't know what it means) but that's where viewers discretion comes into picture. Going by "influence logic" and "impressionable mind theory" we'll have only spotless white "Gopi vahu" type of characters. And God save us from that torture.

I know we are being judgmental because to us Raghav is a character written by a writer in full control of his senses. But to that writer Raghav is a human who is flawed as a human can be.

His family (what is left of it) and his trust are his trigger pionts which ,when pressed made him feel scared. That fear produced aggression that completely corrupted his sense and clouded his judgment of right or wrong.

So the conclusion is Raghav's only fault I see is his misunderstanding because of the pictures. And he, unfortunately, didn't bothered to investigate it a little bit. But with a hospitalized mother and burning rage I wouldn't have bothered with the investigation myself.

I just think that this is what CVS had in store for him. We all knew he was going to be an angry young man type.

And though I feel bad given his backstory, I don't agree with what he did.

Having said that, he is supposed to be Don of Hyderabad and he didn't get that title being nice to people. From his POV, he is going easy on Pallavi. But he's a criminal, a don, kingpin. So this was supposed to be his character arch so I'm not shocked or surprised at this development either.