Being too harsh...

I really don't wanna get into any argument and by what I'm going to say, I might sound like an immature moron to you people. But I'll say it anyway, it's not like someone will beat me up for it.

So here I go.......

We are being too harsh on Raghav. I know what he's done is not something a sane person would do. But... Did the guy appeared sane to you?

Starved too long for a word from his mom, a trusting glance from his sister, warmth of a family snatched from him. And finally when things were going fine, happiness was finally in reach, everything turned into a god damned mess. He lost it, we all do at some point.

Would we have condemned him the same way had he done that to that girl in picture? Maybe. Maybe a little less for the girl was actually at fault. Then, according to Raghav it was deliberate move on Pallavi's behalf too and she's not an innocent. He's not seeking vengeance but just attempting to avenge the pain caused to his family.

Raghav's action promotes violence and male MCP behaviour (I don't know what it means) but that's where viewers discretion comes into picture. Going by "influence logic" and "impressionable mind theory" we'll have only spotless white "Gopi vahu" type of characters. And God save us from that torture.

I know we are being judgmental because to us Raghav is a character written by a writer in full control of his senses. But to that writer Raghav is a human who is flawed as a human can be.

His family (what is left of it) and his trust are his trigger pionts which ,when pressed made him feel scared. That fear produced aggression that completely corrupted his sense and clouded his judgment of right or wrong.

So the conclusion is Raghav's only fault I see is his misunderstanding because of the pictures. And he, unfortunately, didn't bothered to investigate it a little bit. But with a hospitalized mother and burning rage I wouldn't have bothered with the investigation myself.

Oh my... I just want to say that there is a difference between criminal intimidation and being “flawed”. We aren’t being too harsh on Raghav. He is a criminal from the way he has behaved with Pallavi. The writers just give a sob background story for the ML to make the audience sympathise with his character later, but what he has done so far is inexcusably violent.

Well said. Its a tv series. Much worse things happen in western TV shows. Raghavs behavior is nothing compared to what American shows are like.

The problem with Raghu is his aggressive nature and with pallu he crossed the limits first kidnapping her from her house and then on highway risking her life just for one pix he should have a thought about it .

Well in anger bind might block but behavior with pallu can’t justify his wrong doing .

He will learn eventually that women needs respect first not matter how bad they are .

Revenge should have been professional but not physically harming a person.

Such act influence youth see the way creeps are behaving with girls these days it’s not cool it’s crazy crime

Okay, so here is the thing.

I don't get this ITV obsession of getting the FL tortured. Dher saare tesuyen bahao aur TRP batoro ka concept is like grating on my nerves.🤔 And, that too at the hands of the ML. Ek to mujhko ye tesuyen bahana pasand nahi, aur na hi unnecessary cruelty. Zarurat kya hai?? Lekin nahi, angst dikhana hai inko. Angst dikhane ka aur koi tareeka nahi hai kya?? Kya wahi ghisa pita leke chale aate hai.

Secondly, in the context of the show, agar main rate karun, to Raghav ne jo kiya woh bahut kam lagta hai, considering he is a Don. Uske comparison me, Shivaay Singh Oberoi, RK, Arnav Singh Raizada ne jo kiya hai, usko koi beat nahi kar sakta. Phir bhi FLs aise faltu kirdaro pe marti hai. How??

Aur mujhko aur ek baat samajh nahi aata, ye MLs itne bade bade diggaj hai, lekin situation solve karne me itne nikamme kaise hai re.🤣 They have all the resources, but they still find a way to make the FLs lives miserable. To itne title, paisa aur resources ka kya fayda re, agar kaam hi nahi aayega to? Wohi FL ko misunderstand karna hai. What a waste of power.

Anyway, as I said, I expected the worst. It has not reached that point yet maybe, or it has, don't know. I am more against misunderstanding and fights being a dragfest. That is torture for us more than what Raghav does or will do to Pallavi.

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Oh my... I just want to say that there is a difference between criminal intimidation and being “flawed”. We aren’t being too harsh on Raghav. He is a criminal from the way he has behaved with Pallavi. The writers just give a sob background story for the ML to make the audience sympathise with his character later, but what he has done so far is inexcusably violent.

I won’t say what he did wasn’t bad. It was. But I won’t call him “criminal” on the basis of an impulsive bad move , bypassing his decision making ability, made on partial evidences.

The sob story is there to enable the audience to understand what mental state he was in to go to such extremities. I’ll give him time, I’m sure he’ll be more reasonable when less angry.

Let’s embrace forgiveness over intolerance!

Originally posted by: Makayla200231

Well said. Its a tv series. Much worse things happen in western TV shows. Raghavs behavior is nothing compared to what American shows are like.

I won’t compare him to worse out there but I just want to convey that not all people are cool under fire. Sometime or other we all make impulsive decisions and Raghav has his own baggage that makes him more inclined to do that.

I agree with you part about Gopi Bahu type of characters but here's the thing- nobody minds a 'flawed' character. Please do show them but don't show freaking criminal and illegal behaviour in the name of 'flawed'. And if you do have to a show a goon who indulges in such behaviour, PLEASE DON'T PROMOTE IT AS A LOVE STORY between the aggressor- aggressee (I am not sure if it's a word lol)

And yes, had he done this kidnapping and truck intimidation to Anjali, I still would've found it outrageous.

Such 'love stories' only teach girls to brush toxic and abusive behaviour under the carpet and just focus on the good.

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Oh my... I just want to say that there is a difference between criminal intimidation and being “flawed”. We aren’t being too harsh on Raghav. He is a criminal from the way he has behaved with Pallavi. The writers just give a sob background story for the ML to make the audience sympathise with his character later, but what he has done so far is inexcusably violent.

YES, THANK YOU!

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

The problem with Raghu is his aggressive nature and with pallu he crossed the limits first kidnapping her from her house and then on highway risking her life just for one pix he should have a thought about it .

Well in anger bind might block but behavior with pallu can’t justify his wrong doing .

He will learn eventually that women needs respect first not matter how bad they are .

Revenge should have been professional but not physically harming a person.

Such act influence youth see the way creeps are behaving with girls these days it’s not cool it’s crazy crime

I have twin track thoughts on this. To be honest I was really displeased with his behaviour but as a viewer we have ability to watch a thing multi dimensionally and I couldn’t ignore his side.

His Mum’s condition made him feel vexed with himself for going soft with Pallavi and misjudging her to be “different” than the usual lot so he took refuge in aggression.

I would again remind general folks about viewers discretion. But...

Creepy behaviour with girls isn’t cool. And I’ll be damned if I argue on that one.