Megha Barsenge Episode Discussion Thread. -2 DT Note Page8 and Page93 - Page 149

Though their seperation is heart wrenching I hope it's worth it. I mean will Mannu ever accept ArHa as her parents? Will she believe that her biological father is a criminal who tortured Megha and kept her as his captive?

I don't admire this concept where they villanise parents mostly dads..... unpopular opinion but I want Manoj to change for good because of the only person he loved Mannu and it gets independent of gender when he realises his mistakes.....

Let Arha reunite kuch bhi ho Arjun is step parent and definitely khun ki kimat hi kuch aur hai....

Megha should get addressed as Mom Arjun as a very important guy in child's life lekin Papa nhi.....Manoj should pay for his deeds legally toh woh Bandipur ka insaan hai jahan toh usi ki chalegi still some of the stuffs to give him the karma but still not as a parent....

He did so many wrong things with Megha aur desh se bhaag nikla but I think this time he was literally interested in his son not unnecessarily torturing Megha ab daughter hai let's see if they don't make him a serial killer after he realises Mannu is a girl....

Aren't step parents human? Please, stop ranting about blood relation. It's very annoying. Manoj is not worth called a parent. He's a monster who's only interested in the child because he wants him to rule Bandipur. And, if makers don't punish him and simply whitewash him then it won't be justified. Do you even think people like Manoj realise their crimes and try to reform? Even if he reformed noone would trust him.

Originally posted by: Fats24

Aren't step parents human? Please, stop ranting about blood relation. It's very annoying. Manoj is not worth called a parent. He's a monster who's only interested in the child because he wants him to rule Bandipur. And, if makers don't punish him and simply whitewash him then it won't be justified. Do you even think people like Manoj realise their crimes and try to reform? Even if he reformed noone would trust him.

Definitely they are I just want Manoj's paternal side to see....it's not like criminals don't have a heart and am not saying ki he shouldn't be punished still if he changes because of love for Mannu irrespective of who he was....it would be great to see....

There are things which are spiritual and worldly dynamics cannot change it....blood come in such category....Dad is dad aur unki jagah koi nhi le sakta....and if show isn't progressive enough to promote abortion when child was of past relationship and such history in the name of Mamta aur sin that was much more insulting than this for second partner....so definitely they shouldn't sideline another parent....

In Itv toh bachcha chhors are left Scot free ye toh phir bhi uski ladki hai some toh even gave new dad I really don't want makers to malign this aspect instead show the lighter side....

Would you have said the same that "Mom is mom" if Megha had abused the child? Children aren't a medium to express one's false manhood. Arjun wants the child because he loves the child, cares as his own child may be he wouldn't have done so much sacrifice for his own child also. Manoj, on the other hand, wants the child to showcase his false manhood, to hide his impotency physically and mentally.

Dad isn't only a sperm donor. He's a provider, he's a safeguarder, he's a protector. And for being a good dad, one needs to be a good human first which Manoj is clearly not. Being good Dad doesn't mean loving his own child, but also respecting the child's mother, loving the child's mother in front of the child or even behind the child. Manoj doesn't even respect Alka, beats Megha in front of his child. Only loving his child won't be enough to show him a good dad.

His statements about men and women which were shown through Mannu were enough to exhibit what his mentality. Objectifying men and women as "fresh puri" and "stale roti" .

No one can take Dad's place is true only when the dad is respect worthy. Today Mannu is watching Manoj is harassing Megha and Alka, tomorrow he would do the same thinking it's common. And sorry to say, people like Manoj won't change in 1000yrs, not even for child.

Abusive parents are present in the society. Be it a father or a mother or sometimes both. So, instead of making them some integral part of a child's life which would eventually cause them trauma afterwards, it shouldn't be normalised.

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This is so true. If Megha would have been an abusive mom noone would have said a Mom is a Mom, noone can take a mom's place and she should be given another chance etc.

I will give my personal experience regarding step parents. I know one person who married an already married man with 2 daughters. His wife had passed away leaving 2 very young daughters and she, married inspite of her being single. She loved her daughters inspite of giving birth to 2 children. Her step daughters never felt that she was their step mother. So, there's nothing called khun ki keemat and blah blah. Love for a child comes from within. It's natural and not just for your own selfish reason. If Manoj wouldn't have been impotent he would have cared less for Megha. Infact even now he's not bothered about her. During pregnancy too all he cared about was the child and that too he kept harping about the child being a boy. And, still he should be given another chance. A dad's love is unconditional whether the child is boy or a girl. But, here the monster wants it to be a boy and if the baby is a girl he will kill her. What kind of fatherly love is this?

I guess ashane25 can explain this fatherly love better since he justified Manoj very well.

There is no justification that can be given ever for evil forces like Manoj.. he is not a human being let alone being a father. He doesn't love the child whether it's a boy or a girl. Though Mannu is a boy in his eyes, Manoj treats him like trash and ill treats women in his presence to reinforce evil behaviour in the child as well. Blood does matter as a genetic coding but behaviour can be reinforced by upbringing and instilling values by the elders around the child. That is exactly what Arjun adviced Megha to do in his absence, to bring up the child with values so he/she doesn't exhibit Manoj's tendencies.

Megha and Arjun should distance Mannu from Manoj and Alka as soon as possible because she should not despice and hate herself for being a girl when she comes to know the truth later. So far, Manoj already has had a negative impact on the child's mind about the gender. I wonder why Arjun never got in touch with Mannu in secrecy as he is staying in Bandipur itself. He could have had a positive impact as a father on her.. but let's see.

Last episode I saw was where Megha saves Arjun and then child Alka ka scene.... main Manoj ko justify nhi kar rha my first message was he should be punished but I would love to see his soft side as father and if he changes even getting to know about Mannu being a girl....that's it....But makers has different plan ig he isn't treating child in a good way as well so ab matlab nhi hai kuch kehne ka....

And yes other aspects like abusive mom or a dad doesn't mean loving child only infact mom comes in the equation first as well and blood relation.....If Manoj was a woman and he was connected to child mere statements nhi badalte, and a dad's position in child's life is independent of mother (if they aren't together) so how he is as husband doesn't count as paternal points....blood relation is above all there is big difference between a parent and a step parent.... I don't wanna raise points jinka koi matlab nhi hai.....

I just want to say ki if in many shows even parental kidnappers who was even connected to second man are left unpunished, in name of progressive drama shows insults side of a guy because why to abort when it wasn't foetus' fault to justify such Mamta.....where JT type characters just because associated to FL are whitewashed toh atleast if possible only as a loving dad Manoj ki side dikha sakte the but it's meaningless now they have another plans....

Ek darinda kabhi insaan ban sakta hai? Manoj ek jaanwar hai. Toh isse kaise insaan banne ki ummeed ki ja sakta hai. Isse toh khun dena chahiye. Ye ghatiya se bhi ghatiya hai. Aap ne sahi kaha. Manoj jaise baap hone se acha hai ke Mannu apni maa ke saath akela rahe. Kam se kam achi parvarish toh milegi aur asli baap se zyada sautela pita Arjun hi sahi hai. Usse pyar aur apnapan ki keemat samajh toh ayegi.