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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Raina~


She's looking after her children because she really has no choice.
We don't know what transpired between her and her husband.

Looking after your children single handedly doesn't necessarily prove u r strong.
It could be that she has no option!

If she were strong, she wouldn't be mentioning it to gain sympathy


Her husband used to take drugs, now in Jail and she is very strong lady who is facing all alone in India👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShahZur4Cruiser


Her husband used to take drugs, now in Jail and she is very strong lady who is facing all alone in India👏


He's in jail bcos he took drugs? 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She's lived all her life in India.
So living in India without a man is not as bad for her
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: ~Raina~

She's lived all her life in India.
So living in India without a man is not as bad for her


it is hard in a country where there is no welfare system to support u , she got three kids , Better don't say anything as God can put you in those circumstances to belittle some one. It is hard where a woman work or bring up kids , so you think she should work and take her kids with her at work?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hamzanuha


He's in jail bcos he took drugs? 😕


I remember watching when she brought the dish in first episodes where she mentioned that her husband never work , took drugs , gamble and he is in Jail now
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: ShahZur4Cruiser



it is hard in a country where there is no welfare system to support u , she got three kids , Betterdon'tsay anything as God can put you in those circumstances to belittle some one. It is hard where a woman work or bring up kids , so you think she should work and take her kids with her at work?


I haven't said anything for u to say I belittled her.
Yes, there's no welfare system in India but there are a lot of women who manage without the drama.

Get a job. Her kids aren't that young that they can't stay home after school until their mum returns.
There's also day care facilities.

It's difficult compared to if her husband supported her, but there's no need for the unnecessary drama.
Millions of women face a challenge like that and not all of them seek sympathy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: ShahZur4Cruiser

yes suddenly people turned against Yasmin , as some members are creating bitter post about her , I still like her and wish she will win and get rid of Doyal



mainly one person is strongly against her..may tht person sumhow related to sum eliminated contestant and now tht person becoming jalkukri:p leave it.. enjoy da show
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Raina~


I haven't said anything for u to say I belittled her.
Yes, there's no welfare system in India but there are a lot of women who manage without the drama.

Get a job. Her kids aren't that young that they can't stay home after school until their mum returns.
There's also day care facilities.

It's difficult compared to if her husband supported her, but there's no need for the unnecessary drama.
Millions of women face a challenge like that and not all of them seek sympathy.

I am assuming here and I might be wrong but it seems like you have not lived in India or at least the section of India where people like Yasmin and Khokhu come from. Being a single mother in any country isn't a piece of cake and specially not in India. You see Yasmin crying all the time but you don't know the reason she does that or the challenges they've faced. It's easy for us to sit here and tell them to put her kids in daycare or to get a job but it's hard to realize what a person actually goes through. Finding a job is hell hard in India and daycare centers costs an arm and a leg. If we look at Khoku's case, she has her husband and a child but she still came in. Majority of the people supported her because even though she wasn't educated, she had the talent. But did people ever notice the fear on her too? She was always timid and scared because she didn't know anything.

I was watching MC USA yesterday and this guy who lost his father to emphysema and mother to Hodgkin Lymphoma came in to be a contestant. Judges tasted his dish. one of the judge declined him because he didn't see the "DRIVE" in him to become a masterchef. HIs food tasted fine to him. The other two judges (including the brutal Chef Gordon) got him in. Now...were they being sympathetic?

Point here is..it's easy for us to "judge" these contestants but we don't know anything about them apart from what we are shown. So, just because Yasmin cries, she is gaining sympathy and isn't fit to be a Masterchef is an absurd argument. JUdges are the ones who are tasting the food and they know what talent is. Even if this is all programmed drama, you can't say that she or anyone else isn't talented. We can judge them from their behavior of what kind of person they are maybe but can't judge their talent.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tuntunituntuni



mainly one person is strongly against her..may tht person sumhow related to sum eliminated contestant and now tht person becoming jalkukri:p leave it.. enjoy da show
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u r right !!!😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dua_44ever

I am assuming here and I might be wrong but it seems like you have not lived in India or at least the section of India where people like Yasmin and Khokhu come from. Being a single mother in any country isn't a piece of cake and specially not in India. You see Yasmin crying all the time but you don't know the reason she does that or the challenges they've faced. It's easy for us to sit here and tell them to put her kids in daycare or to get a job but it's hard to realize what a person actually goes through. Finding a job is hell hard in India and daycare centers costs an arm and a leg. If we look at Khoku's case, she has her husband and a child but she still came in. Majority of the people supported her because even though she wasn't educated, she had the talent. But did people ever notice the fear on her too? She was always timid and scared because she didn't know anything.


I was watching MC USA yesterday and this guy who lost his father to emphysema and mother to Hodgkin Lymphoma came in to be a contestant. Judges tasted his dish. one of the judge declined him because he didn't see the "DRIVE" in him to become a masterchef. HIs food tasted fine to him. The other two judges (including the brutal Chef Gordon) got him in. Now...were they being sympathetic?

Point here is..it's easy for us to "judge" these contestants but we don't know anything about them apart from what we are shown. So, just because Yasmin cries, she is gaining sympathy and isn't fit to be a Masterchef is an absurd argument. JUdges are the ones who are tasting the food and they know what talent is. Even if this is all programmed drama, you can't say that she or anyone else isn't talented. We can judge them from their behavior of what kind of person they are maybe but can't judge their talent.



I am happy that you pointed out and believe me I never been India but still see single parents struggling ( only person knows who is in her shoes ) BTW she got her third kid only 4 yrs old

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