And She Asks

Hope, Priya's character is getting annoying. I can understand she wanted space as her trust was broken and she can continue to live independently and prove herself but does that stop you from being civil to people. If she hates Aditya so much that she can't see him eye to eye, why not break all the ties, divorce him. I am getting confused as to why she left the house. If she left because she doesn't want anything to do with Aditya then she should file for divorce. If she left because she wanted to find Priya Pradhan then it shouldn't be difficult to be polite to Aditya, all I am saying a cordial hello should do. I think she is just being plain adamant.

Now the best part of today's drama: SJ realises he has hots for Ms Devyani although the reaction was a bit out of character. Priya obviously has figured it out and probably would want his mummyji find love with her sir. So I think she will start talking to Adi as she mite need to show him the bigger picture as he always misses out on them.

Lets wait an watch what the cvs have in store for us.

Originally posted by: damon_biteme

Hope, Priya's character is getting annoying. I can understand she wanted space as her trust was broken and she can continue to live independently and prove herself but does that stop you from being civil to people. If she hates Aditya so much that she can't see him eye to eye, why not break all the ties, divorce him. I am getting confused as to why she left the house. If she left because she doesn't want anything to do with Aditya then she should file for divorce. If she left because she wanted to find Priya Pradhan then it shouldn't be difficult to be polite to Aditya, all I am saying a cordial hello should do. I think she is just being plain adamant.

Now the best part of today's drama: SJ realises he has hots for Ms Devyani although the reaction was a bit out of character. Priya obviously has figured it out and probably would want his mummyji find love with her sir. So I think she will start talking to Adi as she mite need to show him the bigger picture as he always misses out on them.

Lets wait an watch what the cvs have in store for us.

arre kc that is exactly what I mean

she is acting petulant obstinate and that is the first thing I also thought

get a divorce or something

I am no longer sympathizing with her

he acted very normally

he was not yelling but sounding frustrated - he is right to be concened about his mom and expect them to put their differences aside in a criis. though she called him she was very relieved when he did not answer
you are right

yes independence is one thing but she sounds disgusted, repelled by him

I don't like when any person man or woman gets high maintenance. she sure is acting it.

why do they always show independent women as headstrong, rude, obstinate.

SJ's story is wonderful

All the ladies have been getting on my precious nerve lately.(Priya,UT,Vidya,Imli)

Originally posted by: FIZK6

I wondered when the love and feel sorry for Aditya and picking on Priya would come 😆
First Aditya was bashed left, right and centre and called all the names under the sun, he deserved it though. Now its Priyas turn, though she hasnt been called all sorts or bashed that badly.

I admit shes being stubborn at the moment, but how can we forget how Aditya behaved with her. He admits it himself. Even yesterday he told her, her anger was justified and i'll give him the credit for not yelling at her, just refusing to listen and i'm glad Priya told him off about it too. Hopefully he'll start to think about what she said.

No matter what, even though she didnt want to talk to him but he was the first one she thought of to call.

I hope he apologises to her when he comes back and it should break the cracked ice.

Fiz

my intent is not to pick on or bash Priya. far from it

she has not done anything really bash worthy

in fact even yesterday when she pointed out a few things to Adi I did not criticize her for it

arre she has every right to criticize comment question expect. this is her right as a wife. she is still his wife

same with him. he has every right

all I get upset about is that you don't abandon a marriage at its first low that is not love

yes she needed to move out

she needed to
fine

but after that vent na

scream at him he deserves it

arre baba if it was me and my husband had taken the stance that Aditya did even if I did not understand him or his reasons I would have exercized my right to give him a good dressing down

marriage without communication is NOTHING

what gets my goat is that she stopped communicating

but now that she has and she is showign due concern with devyani like today I have no probs with her

arre tomorrow if she tells him to starve too then I will support her

he deserves it in a way

but she has to pick a lane

leave him or stay with him and make him pay

I personally prefer the latter but she chose the former. fine

but don;t stop talking completely

arre in fact give him 2 - jore ka thappad

if it were me I would have slapped him right back after he slapped me and threathened him with divorce

but I get frustrated with stalemates and that is why I make these unhappy comments about them

they are such a cute couple

both of them so loving, family oriented that the last two weeks was totally out of character and that is what was bothering me😆

Originally posted by: --Hope--

Fiz

my intent is not to pick on or bash Priya. far from it
Hope ... i was not implying to you personally, just in general.
she has not done anything really bash worthy

in fact even yesterday when she pointed out a few things to Adi I did not criticize her for it

arre she has every right to criticize comment question expect. this is her right as a wife. she is still his wife

same with him. he has every right

all I get upset about is that you don't abandon a marriage at its first low that is not love
There is low and there is low.
yes she needed to move out

she needed to
fine

but after that vent na

scream at him he deserves it
Oh, i agree with that alright. In fact i even mentioned it before. When she told him she was leaving she was very composed. From the way she left it was obvious she needed to vent out her frustration and anger. She still needs to do that. yesterday was just a trailer. If she does that, she might be able to forgive him.
arre baba if it was me and my husband had taken the stance that Aditya did even if I did not understand him or his reasons I would have exercized my right to give him a good dressing down

marriage without communication is NOTHING

what gets my goat is that she stopped communicating

but now that she has and she is showign due concern with devyani like today I have no probs with her

arre tomorrow if she tells him to starve too then I will support her
No matter what she loves him too much to do that 😆
he deserves it in a way

but she has to pick a lane

leave him or stay with him and make him pay
Making him pay is more like it, but hes doing that now anyway because of his foolish behaviour.
I personally prefer the latter but she chose the former. fine

but don;t stop talking completely I agree

arre in fact give him 2 - jore ka thappad Agree again 😆

if it were me I would have slapped him right back after he slapped me and threathened him with divorce

but I get frustrated with stalemates and that is why I make these unhappy comments about them

they are such a cute couple Agree again 😆 😆

both of them so loving, family oriented that the last two weeks was totally out of character and that is what was bothering me😆 I know what you mean.

Hope ... i agree with most of what you say 😆
They do need to talk about their past, present and future, only then can they take the next step.

Priya has realised Devyani is disturbed and shes worried about her, do you think she will move back in for Devyani?

And the precap... She was upset whilst looking at their photo. And its Aditya who has come home early, this is their chance to talk and i hope they both do talk and listen to each other and Aditya apologises.

Fiz I am not bashing Priya neither did I ever bash Aditya even when he was ranting about his Dad being the ultimate god. I understood where he was coming from and as long as I can comprehend that i am ok with the character. Like Hope even I am not understanding Priya's cold treatment towards Aditya. What does she want to convey with that. I understood she wanted to find herself and totally supported her in that decision. I understood that she could not live in that house after the ordeal she had to go through. However lame her ways were to find independence I had no qualms about it as I understood her need to find herself.

What I don't understand is what she wants from her relationship with Aditya. If she loves him but doesn't trust him hence doesn't see a future with him. Come out clean and say bye and move on. If she loves him but doesn't trust him at present and is not sure if they have future together tell him she needs time but meanwhile can be cordial. If she she loves him and wants to give him a hard time shout at him fight with him, make him beg her pardon as he has wronged her in his blind love for his dad. Give him an opportunity to make up for everything he has done. If she has no feelings left for him then a clean break and move on. What I don't like is a partner treating the other in cold manner and keep them hanging on their mercy that's cruel.

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Priya has realised Devyani is disturbed and shes worried about her, do you think she will move back in for Devyani?

And the precap... She was upset whilst looking at their photo. And its Aditya who has come home early, this is their chance to talk and i hope they both do talk and listen to each other and Aditya apologises.

I don't think she will move in permanently for Devyani and also it would be too soon if she did so but I think her coming back for an overnight stay where she has time to absorb the reality of the choice she has made and deal with the nostalgia of her old life is a must. even if it is for a short bit.

one cannot abandon their past so abruptly

except for the last month of divorce and the misunderstanding there were no major hardships from aditya as a husband

he was caring, loving etc. she needs to remember the good times with the bad ones

till now she has only been remembering the bad ones

imli said it right. when she gets a small whiff of her past only will she appreciate the meaning of the current seperation

i think it would be too soon to show her move in permanently but this one night pit stop was a good idea and a start to that thawing process

of course she was upset. there emotional relationship was strong. from the very beginning something about him caused her to respond. unlike other prople she was not intimidated by him as a man. in fact he brought out the fire and brimstone in her remember in mansa devi? when she was with him we got to see glimpses of a stronger Priya - he silently empowered her knowingly or unknowingly.

they responded naturally though it was rushed but yet it was naturally

that is why when the connection between them broke at the time of the divorce it affected her so bad

Originally posted by: damon_biteme

Fiz I am not bashing Priya neither did I ever bash Aditya even when he was ranting about his Dad being the ultimate god. I understood where he was coming from and as long as I can comprehend that i am ok with the character. Like Hope even I am not understanding Priya's cold treatment towards Aditya. What does she want to convey with that. I understood she wanted to find herself and totally supported her in that decision. I understood that she could not live in that house after the ordeal she had to go through. However lame her ways were to find independence I had no qualms about it as I understood her need to find herself.

What I don't understand is what she wants from her relationship with Aditya. If she loves him but doesn't trust him hence doesn't see a future with him. Come out clean and say bye and move on. If she loves him but doesn't trust him at present and is not sure if they have future together tell him she needs time but meanwhile can be cordial. If she she loves him and wants to give him a hard time shout at him fight with him, make him beg her pardon as he has wronged her in his blind love for his dad. Give him an opportunity to make up for everything he has done. If she has no feelings left for him then a clean break and move on. What I don't like is a partner treating the other in cold manner and keep them hanging on their mercy that's cruel.

bold is everythign I meant to say KC

everything

when he is angry he sounds frustrated and even manages to do so tenderly like he is silently pleading

when she is angry she does not sound frustrated she sounds cold detached and that is what I did not like

that is why I was being so sarcastic

yes he needed a dressing down for his behaviour and she started to when she was leaving the house but then she went radio silence

like when he wished her all the best in the courthouse I would not fault her if she thought he was just patronizing her considering hsi reaction just a few days ago but say that right. tell him Aditya I don't beleive that you are wishing me all the best when few days ago you did not believe me at all.

speak speak speak that is the mantra and then too speak with anger speak with entitlement as his other half do no give him cold looks that is not going in the right direction