Kalpana initially when her son didn't want to marry and truthfully cleared his stance, didn't stand by him. That time too i felt as mother she should oppose the marriage.
Next when Arjun did bring Sayali home as his wife, she accepted as her son choice and as sympathy to orphaned girl not because she really considered her as her daughter or she would be more strict on Asmita behaviour and Ashwin too.
Moreover, As woman she could have felt the pain that the Sayali went through while taking the decision of CM.
Now, also she is adamant and not even cosidering Sayali as a human being with feelings. It's like I am hurted so you apologise but i will not forgive you. Hadd hai.
Saying to Asmita, for sometime you have to go to in-laws it was so polite they were not at all rude to her why because she is their daughter. How 😡😡
She considered Sayali as her son choice of life partner and when she found out that the marriage was done on some condition she immediately labelled Sayali as characterless that is why she is behaving absurdly. Or that is the interpretation that i got of her character.
Sanskaar in a girl according to her comes from family upbringing only what a pathetic thinking, wish they show the Sanskari priya actions and then may be she will repent.
Aa Sayali character is correctly signifying that orphanage children face many obstacles in life. The makers should go and visit Orphanages and see how much girls there live dignified life and prepare for future but still have to face social stigma. A good foster home turns the life of orphaned girl in good direction. But the other partner (spouse and extended family) needs patience and will to stand by her.
TTM story can turn out to be a beautifully knitted story of human emotions if intended by writers
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