Originally posted by: riti4u
I often wonder that those who put their wife at stake in gambling and were quietly standing watching their own wife get molested were any deserving of heaven too.. ofcourse Duryodhan is no hero.. n i guess most of us agree to that .. n thats the reason he died so brutally in the battle.. as a lesson to the world..that this is the end one meets when one's sin crosses all boundary.. but if there is a perspective which tries to find answer to why was he like this...n what ultimately led to his destruction..n was there any other shade than just being evil .. and whether or not he was just a plain evil character.. then i dont see any wrong in that perspective..since righteous ones here were not perfectly right too.. what makes Mahabharat an interesting epic is the fact that people can question,analyse and take something from this... from good they can take what to do..from evil they can take what not to do... and good and evil portion existed in almost each of character except Lord himself- that is what makes them grey instead of pure white and black... It was just that evil in some crossed its threshold while good in some retained more and came out more strongly..
so far pandavas going to heaven is concerned, they deserved it despite of their mistakes. being humans mistakes are bound to happen but one who has the strength to accept those mistakes, correct them or pay a price by doing prayaschit or taking punishment, is truly a person on side of dharma. so comparing duri's deed and pandavas deed makes no sense because former never had any shame and never paid for any of his deeds (except in the battle) but the latter never saw any kind of peace for long term till duri was alive.for every mistake they made, they paid heavily and even learned from those mistakes that is why krishna was with them. that is why they are called righteous. righteous does not mean perfection, it means person has strength to stand by dharma and if mistake is made, they have the strength to accept it and also take any kind of punishment. anyways
you r right about mahabharat epic. it really is something. it shows the middle ground between evil and good in such an elaborate way. it shows human flaws, strength etc. there is not a single human trait that was not shown in this epic.. love it. although dont understand why star has to ruin some of the characters