Originally posted by: lovesunshine
Dear rasyafan i agree...its always both and vicious circle like a chakravyuh..it needs to be stopped somewhere..a lot of patience and tolerance is required from both the sides...you wont believe it last week i had been at a children's function where the children were perfprming a skit abt their duties to their parents.. and in it their was the same saas bahu situation where the husband goes out to his friends place for advice and his friend who is apparently a learned gyaani advised him - dialogue goes this way " arey dekh aisa samajh tere parents 1950's ki gaadi ka model hai aur teri wife 2013 ka model hai..toh 1950's ka model toh repair nahi ho sakta but 2013 ka toh repair aaram se ho sakta hai,tatparya teri wife ko samjha ki usko badal na hoga".
I was shocked and the kids performing this were mere eight to ten year olds...imagine teaching something like this to such young kids..😡
No it is ok even chidlren must be taught that adjust and sharing is the other name of peaceful life and since childhood we must teach our chidlren how to fight in life and how to adjust and share with others.
bas tareeka achchha hona chahiye it should be in respectful manner. Not like this. 🤢
You know my bhabhi has a 4 yr old kid we all try to teach him what we did not teach our chidlren and where we made mistakes with our kids. Especially, teaching him respect for girls, do house work. He is so domesticated that he loves dhaniya ki palak ki patti torna and you wont believe he stacks and puts away the dandiya so meatly even I don't do that he piks up all the sada hua dhania ka kuda puts them in dustbin and picks up news paper and folds it neatly puts it away with all the daily news paper. When he was a baby 1 1/2 yrs old he would observe and try to repair cycles moter cycles his toys as if he is an adult. His observation power is simply amazing. This shows whatever you teach chidlren it is with them through out their lives.
He loves to serve a glass of water and rotis 😆😆😆 baba re mere bachchon se bahut zyada kaam karta hai and he loves it so it is good for them. House hold work is good for both girl and a boy. I remember my mother telling me that her son would not do pochha but it is alright if I do it. 😡😡😡 I hated this diffeence. Now I have learnt it and I taguht both house hold work to my kids. Kabhi bhi zaruwat pad sakti hai so they must know how to do both.
Education and house work both are necessary part of our lives. Today both are working so why should only a girl take all the duties over her.
Well things change when you are a house wife so it is ok if a girl looks after house and a boy outsdie house like his work, paying bills, buying vegetables milk, My husbad do that.
I teach my son that doing house hold work is stress bustor. Similarly, gardenign is a stress buster for me.
Equal distribution of responsibilities along with feelings of sharing and mutual compassion and care is the key for amazing relations with family members.
Mutual respect brings everything in the recepi for good relation ship. Affection, love compassion kindness care and the lot.
Edited by rasyafan - 11 years ago
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