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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: christobelle

u r absolutely correct

its not only her r**pist child but also her child
i have read many real life stories of this kind
where true women wud let her child born in this world
coz its also her child..
its abt to her whether she considers it as her child or someone else
if she considers as hers..she wud never have any problem with it...
it will only instill peace in her
i didnt like JM..i expected her to run away in fear that they wud take away the child or some other kind
but they have ruined..there is nothing left now

Being a woman with a 24yr old son i can tell u it is the most beautiful feeling in the world!But having everyday interactions with rape/abuse victims, i can also tell u there is no such thing as a peaceful feeling during or after the pregnancy. It is sheer torture to have a reminder of what happened and how u were violated.Some women have no other options but to have the baby, but they kill themselves each day to not to hurt the baby or themselves, i would think abortion would be the best option in most cases. But makers of this show have seriously lost it and r trying to tell the audience that it is okay to fall in love with your rapist and have that child of rape! Why take up an issue when they could not give out the right message? They should never have made Raja's character so black that one has a hard time seeing him in a good light, I love both actors but feel bad for the treatment of this issue and the show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: pookie2

Being a woman with a 24yr old son i can tell u it is the most beautiful feeling in the world!But having everyday interactions with rape/abuse victims, i can also tell u there is no such thing as a peaceful feeling during or after the pregnancy. It is sheer torture to have a reminder of what happened and how u were violated.Some women have no other options but to have the baby, but they kill themselves each day to not to hurt the baby or themselves, i would think abortion would be the best option in most cases. But makers of this show have seriously lost it and r trying to tell the audience that it is okay to fall in love with your rapist and have that child of rape! Why take up an issue when they could not give out the right message? They should never have made Raja's character so black that one has a hard time seeing him in a good light, I love both actors but feel bad for the treatment of this issue and the show.

yup its sheer misery..but killing a child according to bible is sin
the makers wud have shown raja innocent..infact i hated pregnancy track
i m just telling she never is feeling for the child..as a women she wud atleast show the feelings
as a women she shud be sorry to kill a baby..but she never ever thought it..

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Posted: 11 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: christobelle

yup its sheer misery..but killing a child according to bible is sin

the makers wud have shown raja innocent..infact i hated pregnancy track
i m just telling she never is feeling for the child..as a women she wud atleast show the feelings
as a women she shud be sorry to kill a baby..but she never ever thought it..

I get what u r saying but try to see her point of view. She hates him because of who he is and what he did to her. The thought of any part of him within her violated body and soul is like poison.So how could anyone feel any love for something conceived of such an abhorrent act.Being a woman does not mean u have to love the baby because it is part of u, That can only happen when it is conceived of love.I understand when u say a woman should have some feelings for her own flesh and blood but when that flesh and blood is a constant reminder of what happened and how it happened it is a very real reaction. Even i have really hated the rape and pregnancy track. they have ruined the very essence of the show, which was an intense and beautiful love story.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: pookie2

I get what u r saying but try to see her point of view. She hates him because of who he is and what he did to her. The thought of any part of him within her violated body and soul is like poison.So how could anyone feel any love for something conceived of such an abhorrent act.Being a woman does not mean u have to love the baby because it is part of u, That can only happen when it is conceived of love.I understand when u say a woman should have some feelings for her own flesh and blood but when that flesh and blood is a constant reminder of what happened and how it happened it is a very real reaction. Even i have really hated the rape and pregnancy track. they have ruined the very essence of the show, which was an intense and beautiful love story.

all i want to say is that the track is the worst
the show has nothing left now
the leads r pathetic ..story is pathetic...
in my pov i wud have loved the child..or atleast feel sorry that i m killing the child
for others fault..i m not telling her to love..but atleast a feeling for the innocent child who has done no sin
whatever it is i want the show to pack up soon
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25
Amy... 😃 🤗
Missed u alottt... 🤗
Eeeks u made a post that too on JM... 😲 😆
Leave it yaar... the show is going to end... don't bother what all the characters do... bcoz they make no sense at all... 🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
#26
The baby would remind her of the fateful night the rest of her life
So her decision is correct
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27
i really cannot understand her from the time she came to the village
she is really impossible at times and too hard to manage
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: BasantiKiDhanu

🤣 m talking real world have u ever heard a girl gave birth her rapist's baby ? But have seen rapist getting punishment in real world 🥱

marital rape is not considered a rape according to Indian Law and one cant b punished for it...how will u punish??...go get some knowledge on Indian laws, use google
let me help, read here:-
http://www.globalpost.com/dispatch/news/regions/asia-pacific/india/140512/marital-rape-officially-legal-india
now don't cry and if u wanna cry then cry before Indian Law rules and like MD go and try to change the laws for MD 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29
i thought she will at least feel guilty for some time
as she is killing an innocent child who is not even born
but here she becomes like raja instantly
she wants to kill the child without giving it a thought
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Posted: 11 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: BasantiKiDhanu

🤣 m talking real world have u ever heard a girl gave birth her rapist's baby ? But have seen rapist getting punishment in real world 🥱


i m not criticizinng or something but just want to highlight few points-
1stly it doesnt happen like in the serials that 1 night of a relation and BAM u get pregnant... it doesnt happen all the time.
2ndly thats where medicine intervenes... which is not at all shown in MBland.. madhu went to police station but not once consulted a doc... they give contraception in case of rape..
3rdly.. yes there are women in real world who do give birth to the child.. even in normal rape... i have read a lot of stories of real brave women who dont didnt take rape as the end of their dignity and life... that is what is modernism and not this... and here its the husband... not just any stranger who raped her..

totally my view.. dont get offended...

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