Originally posted by: miriam_Dream
Hi
Wow, I can't believe that a scene that didn't even take place fully yet has caused so much rage...
But for now I am planning on continuing with my character analysis so maid as well do it under this topic.
This will be about Raja so be warned.😆
I get it that everyone is like he is animal and a freak and in the wrong from day one but I do not really see it that way. Even Madhu has from day one, from the day he came back from the hospital as Raja and not Raju labeled him as Mr. Wrong; all you do is wrong, all you say is wrong, all you think is wrong...you are just wrong...why? Because his take on life is different than hers? His values and priorities are different then hers? Who am I, or she to say and claim that with absolute certainty?
His way of life is the way he was broth up, his moral compass maid be different then hers but that does not make it automatically wrong. Just because he knows how to fire a gun and thinks of it as extension to his hand does not make him wrong, it just makes him different then her. Just because he is different than her does not mean he is in the wrong and she is in the right. And no, I am not saying that hanging the person by neck and waiting for someone ells to finish the job is a way of expressing ones freedom-of-speech... I am just saying there are 2 side to every story; the way you see it and the way the person who is living this story see it, and they are almost never the same. Most ppl here are looking on all this plot line from Madhu/the women point of view so let me play the devil advocate here and paint Rajas point of view in this.😉
So according to Madhu he is an animal because he and his family lives in that god forsaken village? Why? Because it is their belief that man is human that rules all on earth an woman is just a woman and her only purpose in life is to play a shadow to a her man? Is this wrong? For me? 🤪Yes, ...probably...defiantly. But it is their right to believe and live in accordance to their belief. Just because I think this is wrong it does not make it automatically wrong and does not give me the right to throw rocks at them and call them animals, retarded and force them to see thing my way. Different cultures values different thing and live life in accordance to this. My life style and point on view would be also labeled as wrong by them so I guess that make us even.
But even coming from this world, where man is everything and woman is nothing he places Madhu above all others, himself included. He treats her like she thouth him - as his equal -his other half.☯️ For him she is his life, his everything, if not for her he would not even existed today and for that he wants to give her his entire world on silver platter and make his entire world hers.
So the question is who does he think he is? What gives him the right to do all that to her just because he thinks that way? The answer is simple, and he has said it time and time again: HE LOVES HER!!! Is it really as simple as that for him? Yes!
Love is firstly and formost SELFISH EMOTION.
We all like to believe we are noble and good and all that, but, when you realize you love someone you first reaction, your first thought and new mission in life is to make that person love YOU BACK.😆 What that person thinks and feels comes only second to your need and want to have that person for yourself.😉 Eventually your reason kicks in and you realize that just because you love someone they do not necessary need, or ever will, love you back, eventually you put that person happiness over your own, and eventually you put that person needs and wants above your own.
BUT, your primal, animal instinct, if you want to call it that - is to make that person love you. And this is the driving force that pushes Raja from day one thru thick and thin and pulling Madhu with him where ever he goes.👏 For him it not question will she or wont she love him, for him it only question how long it will take her to fall in love with him, 🤪there is no option no.2 in his head for the time being; her not loving him ever? How can that option ever happen?
He may no longer be 8year old kid intellectually, but emotionally? He is not far from an 8 year old. He loves her, so he brings her home to show off to his family who was prior to her existence in his life was his everything. He wants to make her fit into his world as soon as possible. He gives her his favorite toys, his guns.😆 So they can share even that part of his life, like he said, if she carries the gun he gifted her, he will feel part of him is always with her. 👏He wants to show off in front of her in any chance he gets, he wants to show off his family to her. But even if he wants her to be part of his family she is first and foremost - HIS!!! And for that reason he is the only person that can do whatever he likes, if someone else, friend family or whoever lay a hand on her it is - we are at war - scenario all the way. 😡
Until this day there is no reason or logic in his action, it is just primal instinct - to have what is M-I-N-E.😎
At some point reason will kick in, or better said will be beaten into his head...probably this electric shock will play some part to move this story forwarded.
And as far as Raja family is concerned, I do not really see where is all this hate coming from... ha ha... I mean yea they are little off if you want to call them that, but long way to go to being labeled as animals all the time.😲 They, like Raja have different values and place different priorities to things in life. Are they wrong to seek revenge for what they think is Madhus doing? Maybe, but it is their right to live life like that. If you want to be consumed by hate all your life it is your choice and no amount of reasoning from the 3rd party will make you see it otherwise. Until the moment you yourself choose to free yourself from that hate no one will be able to force you. And little revenge is a god thing. Little revenge is good for the soul. It takes the poison of hate out.
I am little biased because I love good revenge plot, and because we all know that revenge ultimately always comes we the price. If you know and accept that and still want to have things your way - I say - go ahead,🥳 give it your worst because the bill for this game will surely come to your table at the end of the play.
but honesty, let me ask you; where is this BIG R-E-V-E-N-G-E from his family😡 that they all keep talking about will fall on her like summer rain on my head ... they were all roaring fire in her direction,😡 screaming they will make her cry tears of blood 😡for what she did...and what is the result of their big payback? 🤣
Here woman - come to my room and I will break this Styrofoam chair/pillow and let it fly all over the room and make you clean it. 👏👏👏Just so I can stare at you all day long. Like seriously, when he even started that ceiling fan and things started flying all over the room I was sure next is she trips and he caches her and eye lock - que music LOL🤣🤪...but unfortunately that stupid woman walked in and ruined the moment for them 😡
ok, ok, we all say, this was just the beginning to fool the enemy for a second all will be easy, next thing will break her...and what do they do?
Woman - you go to the kitchen and makes us lunch?!? 🤣
THIS is your big revenge? 👏Seriously?😆 this is business as usual in any other show,😛 to ask daughter in law to make food for her in lows... hell, the woman even ordered overly priced kitchen gadget just so she does not need to bother to much with this stupid task, and what do they do... pay for it and even let her use it?🤪 Like seriously?🤣 THIS is how you plan to take revenge? 🥳And once the food is done, instead of spiting it in her face without even trying it and calling it garbage, they actually try the food and compliment her for a job well done?!? Like seriously? They just crack me up...🤣
And then ...here woman, here is bunch of photos glued together separate them and put them in this album or ells...or ells what I want to ask? What?😃 You will not give her desert with her diner? 😛This does not look like revenge to me; more like babuji is trying to put Raja and Madhu back together show ha ha..😆 I mean seriously. He made her cook food for Raja so he can eat his biwis home made cooking even doe she swore not to make him any food.👏 He makes them spend all night together while watching over that light in front of Rajas sister picture;👏👏 they get to play pillow fight" in Rajas room. 👏👏👏Ok, she got her hand burned when he light that thing in her hand, but she was the one who keep screaming to do it if he is a man and not a woos, he was ready to let it go but she pushed him that last mile and ...🤬happened... and anyway, we must have some appearance of revenge in this home drama 😎
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying it is ok, I am just saying WHEN O WHEN WILL THE R-E-A-L REVANGE START? We are talking about people that maid that poor widow keep hot coal in her hand over some simple stupid oversight without anyone even bathing an eye, and taking it as normal form of punishment" 😲and here is this murderer of their family member and they do what?😕 Even let her take her afternoon nap? 🤣Like seriously? Who are you kidding here? You are to be animal like no other on this planet; revenge should be part of your every breath.
I was expecting something in the grand style like;😆 they call her to the living room and there is like 10m long path of burning hot coal leading to that portrait of Rajas sister 😲😈and they will make her walk back and forth on that thing till her feet melt, or something savage like this😡 ... but no...their extend of revenge is - WOMAN COOK US FOOD?!?😆😛👏 And not to forget show us benefit of modern household appliances? 🤪This show just cracks me up, if you can make yourself forget that she is there for revenge purpose you can actually have a good time watching this home drama show.🤣🥳
I mean what is this? The more I look at this revenge play of theirs the more I feel they are not such a bad people? Like seriously! Their first instinct is eye for an eye, 😡so if Rajas sister died its should be off with Madhus head then and there, but NOOO. They opt for choice no.2 -revenge, slow and painful...😃 and this play only goes to show beside row rage, slow payback is not really their cup of tea.😆 Give them couple of days and at this speed and they would even forgive her. Raja is not as "stupid" as he looks at times ha ha. this was a good plan,😈 to bring her back home so they can have their revenge" 🤣otherwise his family wood hate her for the rest of their lives, but like this? Anything can happen.😉👏
And as for Madhu nor helping him right away and taking her damn time to recollect their past?😆 Time is a problem here? What? That one and a half second she took to realize who it is she is looking at? I see it as a good thing. It means he means enough to her to being able to push her over her limit, over her humanity, over her logic and reason. Would she normally help any person in this situation? Of course! So why did she stop now? Because he is not anyone, he is - the one she hates.😆 Don't disregard hate as bad thing. Most people think OPPOSITE OF LOVE IS HATE? No! Opposite of love is indifference! Hate? Hate is good.😛 Hate is just a breath away from love?
...the importance we give to the person we choose to hate in our life is very big. Hate does not just happen, hate takes time and effort. Time you spend thinking of that person every waken minute. The importance you give to the person you choose to hate to control your life to that extend that you would change your own personal belief and yourself because of them ... it means there is still hope left for this RajaBala. Beside she is his Rani, she gave him his life and if she thinks she should take it, honestly, I think Raja would be ok even with that. He would give her that right. But all this is irrelevant bc how could she ever let him die? If he is to die it will be by her hand and her doing, 😈not some hocus- pocus by some random 3rd party. If she wanted him dead - he would be dead by now. 😎
Ha ha
I am aware I will get hit on the head with rocks from all and any directing for this analysis but I am just trying to lighten up the mood.😉😆😛 Like most ppl here I am now watching this show for actors portraying of their character only. The story/plot, or lack thereof, has lost me long ago.🤪 But actors are doing great job with not so great plot and I applause them for that. 👏👏👏So just watch them act and rewrite the story line in your head like I do most of the time while watching this freak show. Choose to see only what you want to see and ignore everything else and this show will once again be good as it once was.🤓 How can one ignore half of the plot in focus on only thing they want to see? Simple! Just like the story line has ignored any and all connection between Madhu Jr and her famous parents like they never even existed. That is not a plot hole, that is the time and place where this show lost any resemblance and connection to the real world and started to exist in an space bubble of their own where different rule apply
Anything goes here!!! And I do mean A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G... I thought nothing can surprise me anymore but when these home-shopping-household-appliances play started🤣🤪 I realized I was wrong. There is no end to how far they can push this play. I do not know if I should call them Idiots or geniuses for this..😆 haha
You say Madhu will save him and make him see the light of the day? Maybe. I say anything goes. Even the plot in which Raja knows that that freak is trying to kill him and frame Madhu and is doing all this to expose his true colors to everyone...🥳
this show is picture perfect example of - EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED...🤗
...COME TO THE (DARK) MADHU SIDE ...WE HAVE 🤪🤪buahahahaha
Ok, there is still allot to say about this show/plot and I thought this time around I will get to it but still no such luck, maybe next time, no more time for now. Have a great Sunday ppl
Anupamaa
