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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm hearing or reading the word "Dark Love" very often now a days, and some viewers are trying to justify violence and killing as a part of dark love.😕
I guess first of all we need to understand what is dark love we are sucking to!🤔

Dark love is clearly defined where there are nothing about violence or killing, though different mind can define differently.😳

I'll try to give two examples of Dark Love as per my belief 😃 I could be wrong 😃

You don't want to love the person you love, but you can't help it, and that makes you hate the person. And the relationship has to remain mysterious because there are things that they can never know about each other because it would make them love each other more. And the deeper in love they are with someone, the more it will hurt in the long run if the thin line between mystery and knowledge/love and hate is broken.

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When love becomes more about possessing and controlling another person- treating them as an object not an equal, that's the dark side of love. It's also a form of idolatry- worshipping and obsessing over a static image of a person that they cannot possibly live up to. Real love is respecting his/her unique beauty (inner and outer) and honoring his/her free choice to love you in return.

Please share your views which will help us to learn more about the word we are loving now a days!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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i believe dark love is where there are a lot of complications in the story
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima4ever

i believe dark love is where there are a lot of complications in the story


Yes Dia, it could be very simple way to say... but in which relation there is no complications? Will you call all relations with complications is dark love?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It also includes fear of death,survival,betrayal and intense feelings be it physical or emotional..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi_rockstar

It also includes fear of death,survival,betrayal and intense feelings be it physical or emotional..


Thanks Bhuvi, for sure those includes too!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well violence or killing a person is definitely not a part of Dark Love...who says that... ???? 🤓
Anyways I like ur first take... 😛

I guess Dark Love is that when u r attracted or attached or feel a pull towards a person but can't accept him/her and can't be with him/her... and reason can be anything Dark or mysterious past, some hidden secrets or insecurities in relations due to some past reasons...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Black specs lga k jb love karte h to vo dark love hota h🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: natkhat..anki..

Black specs lga k jb love karte h to vo dark love hota h🤣

oh haan...ye to main bhool hi gyi thi... 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeelM


Yes Dia, it could be very simple way to say... but in which relation there is no complications? Will you call all relations with complications is dark love?

yes u r right
but some are more complicated than normal
may be something like edward bella / abhay pia
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Dreamsy.

well violence or killing a person is definitely not a part of Dark Love...who says that... ???? 🤓
Anyways I like ur first take... 😛

I guess Dark Love is that when u r attracted or attached or feel a pull towards a person but can't accept him/her and can't be with him/her... and reason can be anything Dark or mysterious past, some hidden secrets or insecurities in relations due to some past reasons...


Oh there was long essay 😆
Yes, including all it could be for the relation too, e.g. far distance uncle 😆


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