What exactly is 'ABUSE' ???? - Page 10

Originally posted by: _charu_

🤣 Kashish..really ! 🤣 yes , he should divorce her, abhi pata nahi kitne aur aa jayenge Madhu ke liye junoon dikane...like titli said, in one year, 3 diff. people related to Madhu tried to kill RK...

Originally posted by: cardio21

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Charu!! its not RK who should divorce her.. He married the dumb Madhu and He also knew that she has a junooni background and anybody can come to kill from her family. Mom, dad, foster dad.. It won't take much for Trishna, Roma or even Madhu to pick up arms...

But RK being dumb is a revelation,, I think Madhu is the one who is cheated., they showed her smart RK n married her to this love sick puppy.. Mushy mushy.. Did u hear those lines?? Trust me, I have laughed on a guy's face with the drink in my mouth all over him when he tried to talk similar crap to me.. It was a million dollar sight as per my friends.. 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

Kashish I almost gave the same reaction after reading your post 🤣

OMG what a sight it wud have been ! 🤣

Originally posted by: felicity06

Excellent Post Mojo 👏👏👏

These questions really need to be asked and deserve an answer!
I agree with everything you said!
Something so serious a word as "abuse" has been "abused" quite callously and irresponsibly a lot of times in this forum.🤢😛

Madhu is a strong intelligent woman capable of making her own decisions...if she ascertained the truth of RK's repentance and accepted him back...it was her choice. If she wants to live her life with her husband whom she loves so much...its her damn choice...she is not blind or in denial of any third-angle-louu-saga-in-the-making🤢. She can make up her own mind!😛

Anyone forcing her physically or mentally to such an extent as to cause such distress is abusive. Period.😛

Abuse is generally a repetitive cycle where the abuser continues to hurt the victim believing that is for the victim's own good and/or the abused continues to take it at face value without retaliation. Its a vicious cycle that generally becomes harder to break with time.

RK may have abused her at the altar. But it goes no farther than than that! There was no cycle of pain and suffering 😛. RK never believed what he did was right 😛, only needed to sate his ego. Madhu never took RK's action lying down 😛. She retaliated with words and actions of her own, immediately or at a later time 😛.

On the other hand, we have Sultan who continues to repeatedly abuse Madhu in all manners ...he thinks he is doing all this for her happiness...That Is All Round Confirmed Abuse

If anyone thinks differently...then I will only say this...Madhu isnt the one in denial, take your own blinders off before accusing someone of so serious a crime!🤪

Originally posted by: loveurkmadhu

Superb post 👏 u deserve a hug
Thanks for making this post..some ppl really need a reality check..finding chemistry in a abusive relationship..sorry to call that a relation..even though rk once abused madhu but this sultan is 100 tyms worser and both differ very clearly..u raised a good pount madhu never done anything bad to sultan their relation frim the start is never hateful..so all this physical n mental abuse is to be questioned necessarily..even though he is a villain that doesn't mean he has right to do

Originally posted by: Chiti.dsena

Awesome post.. 👏
For some people abuse is when a husband asks for a massage...
He did take revenge.. he even humiliated her... but he did apollgised for it.. and even changed himself for her...and calling that as abuse..? Seriously..?

Either I don't know the meaning of abuse or its meaning has changed...
Coz in my view molesting a woman is definitely called abuse..
Forcing her to divorce her husband whom she loves is definitely mental abuse..


Abuse is the improper usage or treatment of an entity, often to unfairly or improperly gain benefit. Abuse can come in many forms, such as: physical or verbal maltreatment, injury, sexual assault, violation, rape, unjust practices; wrongful practice or custom; offense; crime, or otherwise verbal aggression.

This is the net definition that I found... and is totally correct.. and if someone thinks that rishbala are in abusive relationship..they need to see this...
And yes according to the same definition... what sultan is doing is called abuse...!!

Originally posted by: _charu_

blast from the past 🤣 we're discussing abuse again..actually, this forum is abusive 🤪

seems like some people only watched 2 episodes of Madhubala..RK kidnapping Madhu and chaining him and the other is unwedding..iske aage peeche koi story hi nahi hai 🤣 strange !

call us hypocrite if we went gaga over RM's chemistry when RK chained her n termed it "issshh phissh haawwt moment " 🤢 if any one of us applauded RK for the unwedding drama..but yes, therez much more to RK and RM than those incidents..a lot of good happened b/w them bec. of which they are together and madly in love with each other...

Abuse is what Sultan is doing to Madhu...physical, mental , emotional and sexual abuse...

Originally posted by: coolashu

Awesome post. Well said 👏👏👏. Certainly RK and madhu are not in an abusive relationship now. Whatever happened in past is past. If madhu can forget and move on , so can everybody watching the show. Well less said about sultan, better it is. He has done nothing for madhu and certainly madhu never gave him any signs that she loves or likes him. He is the one emotionally abusing madhu now.🤢

Originally posted by: ..Bournville..

Oh Come on Chakku, how can u call Sultan abusive. You know he still has not stooped as low as RK in psychopana, He did not cut his wrist to force Madhu to come to him. He rather got RK beaten up by his goons to psychologically traumatize her into leaving the husband she loves for his own safety. So you see, he is not abusive at all. 🤣

And RK - he sexually harassed Madhu by carrying her to his home and asking her to do his head massage in his vanity van. He needs to be punished for this sexual harassment and Sultan has been sent by the God to open Madhu's blind eyes to her husband's truth and that is why he tries to kiss her against her ignorant will to show how much he loves her. 🤣