What exactly is 'ABUSE' ???? - Page 7

Originally posted by: merrydock

RK is arragont, rude, he does bad things and hurt people, but he does that in front of them, in RK rudeness and insults to madu and her family was because of his ego, but behind all the ego there was always love, love to the point of madness. but then madu loved him equally with the same amount of madness. and that is way Madu and RK relationship and what ever they did was and is justified. if RK hurt madu the too felt her pain and vice verce

what Sultan is doing cannot be justified, he cursed Mohan kundra for destroying his mothers life, making her suffer. meera loved Mohan kundra and being seperated from him broke her hurt. he hurt her

what mohan did to meera, in a way sultan is doing to madu, madu loves RK being separated from him before nearly broke her. but that time RK hurt her, but he didnt leave her, he could not. he found every excuse to keep her near him. and that was why she didnt go mad. she knew he would never let her go. and that kept her sane. but sultan trying to take madu forcefully from RK he is hurting her mortally. sultan is under the impression the madu will love him, if he loves her with the madness that RK does. he is doing exactly what RK did. he things that by taking madu away from RK he will only be hurting him. he does not realise that he would be hurting Madu more. and for this Madu will forever hate him.

madu is strong, and Sultan will rue the day he took her from RK, Madu will hate him to his face and throw her love for RK in his face every chance she gets. sultan will know every minute of everyday that madu only loves RK, and that she will never love him even though she is in front of him. i hope Madu gets pregnant with RK child, if sultan's plan succeeds and he takes madu away from RK

Originally posted by: Looteri_Dulhan

Again "Abuse" ?😳🤣
Lets be practical here,

1)RK(Superstar)
mental abuse- Verbal aggression, Jealous behaviors, Unwedding, psycho phase (his psycho behaviour was after he confirmed if she was still in love with him? Remember studio incident and their dance).

2)Sultan(Gangster)
mental abuse- intimidation, Verbal aggression, Jealous behaviors, Forcing a married woman to divorce her husband, physical
harm to her husband, threatening abt killing her husband, destruction of property, forcing isolation from family.

physical abuse- child abuse, Aggressive behavior, Pointing gun at her, blindfold, forcing himself on her, "inappropriate touching, try to kiss her forcibly" (this comes under sexual assault)

The difference is, if RK mentally abused HIS OWN WIFE at a point, Sultan is Mentally and Physically abusing SOMEONE ELSE'S WIFE aka HIS SIL.

Awesome post.. 👏
For some people abuse is when a husband asks for a massage...
He did take revenge.. he even humiliated her... but he did apollgised for it.. and even changed himself for her...and calling that as abuse..? Seriously..?

Either I don't know the meaning of abuse or its meaning has changed...
Coz in my view molesting a woman is definitely called abuse..
Forcing her to divorce her husband whom she loves is definitely mental abuse..


Abuse is the improper usage or treatment of an entity, often to unfairly or improperly gain benefit. Abuse can come in many forms, such as: physical or verbal maltreatment, injury, sexual assault, violation, rape, unjust practices; wrongful practice or custom; offense; crime, or otherwise verbal aggression.

This is the net definition that I found... and is totally correct.. and if someone thinks that rishbala are in abusive relationship..they need to see this...
And yes according to the same definition... what sultan is doing is called abuse...!!

Amazing post Chakku...👏

blast from the past 🤣 we're discussing abuse again..actually, this forum is abusive 🤪

Awesome post. Well said 👏👏👏. Certainly RK and madhu are not in an abusive relationship now. Whatever happened in past is past. If madhu can forget and move on , so can everybody watching the show. Well less said about sultan, better it is. He has done nothing for madhu and certainly madhu never gave him any signs that she loves or likes him. He is the one emotionally abusing madhu now.🤢

Yes, RK abused MB but did he not apologise and do penance for it later?

I think the only person who can decide whether she wants to be in a relationship or not or she is happy or not
She loves rk
She has forgiven him for whatever he did wrong to her
So who is anyone else --- sultan or his fans to decide for madhu
This is abuse -- taking somebody else's decision making Power and imposing ur decisions on them

Chakku...i hating RK now...despise him, hate him, whatever 🤢